What is Wisdom and How do you get it?

Wisdom can sound like something dusty old men rant about on their porches, but in fact wisdom is a key to a life well lived. Paco is going to show us what the Bible says about wisdom and how God desires us to live wisely.

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    - Hey, happy Father's Day and welcome to Crossroads.
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    I'm Andy, online pastor,
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    and this is a church that you can be a part of
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    no matter what you believe or where you are watching from.
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    Today on Crossroads we're talking about wisdom,
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    not the kind of wisdom that TikTok offers,
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    but real, lasting dad-ly wisdom.
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    No, no, no. Godly wisdom.
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    What is it? How do we get it?
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    And what makes godly wisdom different from worldly wisdom?
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    Crossroads isn't just content.
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    We're actually a community.
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    We'd love for you to chat with us any time
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    during today's episode online,
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    and we'd love to talk with you, get to know you a little bit.
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    Maybe you want to know how you can be a part of Crossroads
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    or how you can get
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    more information about a specific topic,
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    or maybe there's something going on in your life
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    and in your world that you just want to process with someone.
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    And those conversations are my favorite part of the week.
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    Now, today we're going to start with worship
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    because we believe that our wisdom comes from God,
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    not from social media or any place else.
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    And when we put our time and our attention towards Him,
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    He gives us everything that we need.
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    So think about these words and what they mean for your life.
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    Anticipation matters, like our approach to things matter.
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    And I'm just going to tell you, I've walked in
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    like you just walked in about ten minutes ago
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    countless times bringing my kids in.
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    I fought the parking lot traffic.
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    Can I get an amen?
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    You come in, you drop your kids off,
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    or maybe you come in not knowing many people
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    so your anticipation, your approach is a little bit,
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    like, I don't know what I'm walking into.
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    And if it's your first time, then you're in the right place.
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    But our anticipation matters and sometimes in this experience,
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    I don't know that we're able to give it much thought
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    what we came in to do.
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    Anybody willing to say that?
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    Like, I just kind of showed up because I show up a lot. Right?
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    It's okay.
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    Did you come in anticipating that the God of Creation
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    wants to meet with you today?
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    Did you come anticipating the God of Hebrews 11:6
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    that says I reward those who seek Me?
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    Did you come in anticipating the God who says,
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    I see your footsteps out of your car, into the way,
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    online, into this room, in this space as a seeking Me.
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    This God who says I bring living water, fresh water,
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    fresh life, fresh peace, fresh words.
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    You didn't just show up to a space today.
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    You didn't just show up to Crossroads.
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    You showed up for an interaction to happen with the living God.
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    He's so good and generous.
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    And so I know we're like 13 minutes into this thing.
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    I just want to give you space to point your heart towards Him
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    and say I came here because I want more of You.
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    So, lyrics --
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    we've got a volunteer that runs lyrics every weekend.
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    Can we give it up for that volunteer?
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    They serve us every weekend.
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    Up on lyrics I need you to go to the chorus
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    of the last song we just sang.
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    Because I don't want to miss it from the top.
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    So lyrics, pull up the lyrics that say come like a flood.
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    We got it on the screen? Look at that.
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    Give it up for em up top. [applause]
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    And now let's pray this together:
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    We anticipate You, God, we want more of You. So we say:
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    Let's pray together.
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    Father, we can only sing those words about You.
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    You're truly faithful.
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    That you're not like You can't put kind of
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    or you're a lot of faithful before that.
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    It's just the word faithful.
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    You are faithful and you're the only one that's true.
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    Time after time, generation after generation,
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    across this world in every language, You are faithful.
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    So I give you my heart today.
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    I give you my attention this morning.
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    I pray all this because of you, Jesus. Amen.
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    It's great to be here together.
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    It's great that you showed up.
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    I see some friends in the place today. It's awesome.
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    Maybe you showed up for the first time.
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    I'll say it again, you're in the right place.
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    My name is Justin, and I get to do some music around here.
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    You can clap for new folks who are in here.
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    That's right. [applause]
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    Don't let one person clap.
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    You're in the right place.
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    And we try in every way possible to make this big place
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    feel small because relationships matter.
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    So before you grab a seat,
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    why don't you turn to somebody, introduce yourself.
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    Say, I'm glad to be here with you.
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    Well, just like on Father's Day for me, I'm a dad.
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    I'm a dad of four.
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    I've got two daughters who are ten and nine
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    and two sons who are eight and six.
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    Ten, nine, eight, six.
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    My wife is just tired all the time, and me too.
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    But just like this, if my kids said,
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    "Dad, I love you. Happy Father's Day."
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    And they made me a beautiful card
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    that they picked out at the dollar store.
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    If they were mean to me the rest of the day,
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    if they gave me no attention or no heart
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    or no affection any other time
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    but just this, it falls short. Right? Right.
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    So when we say, man, we give our songs to God,
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    I respond to who He is and say, "I'm trying.
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    I want to give You all of me, not just a piece of me."
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    So we have people across the board that
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    do that through time and resources,
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    like the volunteer we celebrated this morning
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    running lyrics for us. We have people who do that.
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    We also have, and my family and I follow suit,
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    finances are a part of my life,
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    and so I want to give my whole life to God.
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    And so I do that also with my money.
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    Every month we give a portion of our income to say,
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    "God, you're the giver of every good thing:
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    skills, resources, time, money.
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    And I want it to all go back to You." So we try to do that.
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    If you want to join us in giving financially like that,
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    you can go to Crossroads.net/give.
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    Like I said, that's not the only way we give.
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    We give time, skills, resources.
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    And when this place is made up and it runs
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    on people who do that every week.
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    And so I want you to hear some of their stories this morning.
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    We're glad you're here.
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    - You know, Brian Tome always talks about
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    the benefits of being outside.
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    And I get to be outside at least an hour every day
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    when I start my week, I get to dance.
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    I get my steps in.
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    I recommend it to anybody. It's so much fun.
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    - When I first started serving for Kids' Club,
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    I thought I was just signing up for community service hours,
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    but I ended up finding connection with the staff,
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    the other volunteers and especially the kids.
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    And now it's something I look forward to every Sunday.
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    - Sometimes when you just come to service,
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    you take things for granted.
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    And what I found out was
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    how many people are behind the scenes
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    helping out and how I've been able to contribute to that.
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    - When I started serving at Crossroads,
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    I thought it was going to be an experience for me
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    to learn how to do electrical work, how to do plumbing.
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    But it actually turned into finding a friend
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    here at Crossroads and it became about relationships.
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    It was labor that was in the trenches
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    but enabled me to connect with God.
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    - I found that serving here at Crossroads just gives me
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    a huge sense of purpose
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    and being able to help this community
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    spread the Word of God to people that
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    are perhaps watching this around the world.
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    It's just awesome to be able to take the skills
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    that God has blessed me with
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    and be able to give back to our community.
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    - I signed up for volunteering.
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    I felt that it was going to be maybe burdensome,
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    it was going to be long days and exhausting.
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    What I found is that it's a great opportunity for me
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    to share my gifts with my community
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    and I find myself being closer to God.
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    - Hey, thanks for singing with us.
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    Now, Crossroads is a church with people all over the country
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    and all over the world.
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    Crossroads is one church with multiple locations.
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    Now we have ten physical buildings,
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    but we are so much bigger than that.
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    We meet everywhere from dorm rooms to bars to homes
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    and even inside prisons.
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    If you don't live near one of those physical locations,
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    we know that being a part of Crossroads Anywhere
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    can feel maybe a little distant sometimes.
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    Like who else is out there? Or is it just me and a screen?
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    That's why we started the Anywhere Home.
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    It's a home base for us to connect with people
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    all over the world who call Crossroads home
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    but don't live near one of those locations.
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    There you can meet other people.
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    You can find out who's near you.
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    You can ask questions, get special family content
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    for you and your family to do at home.
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    You can talk about the service and grow together.
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    We're adding new elements to it every month,
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    and we'd love for you to join us.
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    Just head to Crossroads.net/Anywhere to join.
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    If you've been around for the last couple of weeks,
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    we've been talking about how God has made us for movement,
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    how we weren't meant to sit still
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    or to stand on the sidelines.
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    One of the things that's, like, legit changed my life
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    has been volunteering.
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    It's been understanding more of how God has uniquely made me,
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    how He wired me
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    and how the world actually needs those gifts.
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    So wherever you live, we've got opportunities for you
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    to put your gifts to use to change the world
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    one person at a time.
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    Head to crossroads.net/volunteer for more info.
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    Coming up, Kyle is going to explain to us
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    what biblical wisdom really is and how to get it.
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    - We all want a life that works.
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    We buy books, we listen to podcasts,
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    and we follow gurus who promise the secret to what we crave:
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    a life full of meaning, connection, fun and adventure.
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    We look to those who have done well before us
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    and we ask ourselves: How can I get some of that?
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    We seek knowledge and understanding,
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    but we need something deeper.
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    We need wisdom.
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    The Bible gives us a path to wisdom
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    laid out in three Old Testament books,
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    often called the Wisdom Literature.
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    Proverbs, Ecclesiastes and Job are the roadmap
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    to understanding where godly wisdom comes from
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    and what God has to say about how to live our lives well.
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    - Well, hello and welcome to Crossroads.
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    My name is Paco and I'm on the content team around here
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    and my day job is to partner with our teachers,
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    the folks you see up here each and every week
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    and sort of help them sharpen their talks,
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    help them format it, helps make sure that
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    what they're saying comes across the way they want to say,
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    it comes across in a clear way.
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    I basically partner with our teachers.
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    That's what a content director does around here.
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    Also, I schedule our teachers
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    and we usually do that about 2 to 4 months out.
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    And today, as we're kicking off wisdom,
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    we had Kyle scheduled to speak today.
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    Kyle texted me yesterday around noon and said,
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    "Hey, man, I got a sick wife and three sick kids.
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    My wife's on crutches,
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    so I don't know what's being passed around,
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    but it's like a stomach bug of sorts
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    and just give you a heads up.
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    I might need someone to pinch hit tomorrow."
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    I said, "Cool, man.
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    There's no way he's not going to be here. There's no way."
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    I said, "Okay, cool."
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    Threw the phone in the back seat. It's fine.
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    I got a text about 8:30 last night saying,
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    "Hey, and I quote, 'I'm puking my guts out.
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    I'm going to need someone to pinch hit.'"
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    So here we are. [laughter]
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    I love -- [laughter]
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    I don't -- I don't think it's it's by accident
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    that substitute teachers in school play movies.
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    So we're going to watch Shrek for the rest of our time.
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    Enjoy this -- [laughter]
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    No, I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding.
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    I'm going to do my best to pinch hit for Kyle
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    and what I hope to do today with all of us
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    is I hope to set up a framework so you and I can experience
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    the summer and get the most out of our time together
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    at Crossroads this summer.
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    This summer is all about wisdom.
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    Like wisdom on today, right? It's not an accident.
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    It's not an accident that that Kyle
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    was going to start wisdom today
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    and that he chose the wise choice
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    to take care of his family first.
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    It's not by accident that you're here today to experience this.
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    It's not by accident that we would start
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    a collection of talks about wisdom on Father's Day.
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    Happy Father's Day, by the way, dads. [applause]
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    None of that's an accident.
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    You know, God in His -- God, in His eternal wisdom,
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    like, God is like outside of the first person point of view.
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    If you understand that, God is eternal.
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    So His perspective is eternal.
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    So He sees outside of sort of the timeline of our life, right?
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    And God, in his wisdom, chose today because I think
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    He has some special encouragement,
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    especially for fathers today.
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    And I want to start our time just encouraging you dads.
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    In his eternal wisdom,
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    God chose you to be the father of your kids.
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    Like, God gave that to you. God chose you to do that.
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    You know what that means? That means He has equipped you.
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    He has qualified you.
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    And it might not always feel like that. Right?
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    Because fatherhood starts really fun for dads.
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    Like, cool. That's great.
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    And then mom makes a whole baby without using her hands,
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    and then she delivers the baby
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    and what feels like 15 minutes later,
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    you've got a whole human you got to bring home.
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    I have two kids.
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    I have a four year old and a nine month old, both girls.
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    Girl dads in the house, what's up? Cool.
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    Our first kid I was super nervous. Right?
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    Super nervous. Like, walk in.
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    The nurse was like, "I'll walk you down to the car."
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    I was like, "Good.
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    Hopefully you come with us home and be with us." [laughter]
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    And so she she walks us down and she was so beautiful
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    and so, so kind to us.
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    We got mom loaded up, the car seat, the baby situated.
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    She -- beautiful smile. She said, "Here you go."
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    And I went, "No thanks."
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    I said, "No thanks to my kid."
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    I was so nervous because I didn't feel qualified.
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    You got a whole human, you got a whole human to take care of.
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    And it comes with no instruction manual.
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    And you're a dad,
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    you wouldn't read the instruction manual anyway.
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    Who are we kidding? [laughter]
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    If you walk into any room
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    and you see a dad with an instruction manual open,
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    just know whatever he's working on has already broken.
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    He broke it and he's trying to fix it before you get in there
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    and notice that he's got to buy another one.
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    No, dads, this is a great day.
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    Fathers, Father's Day is a is a great day
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    because fatherhood is a thing that's like a great joy.
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    And so my encouragement to you dads today as we get started
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    is if you're in the trenches and you're doing it, well done.
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    You're going to stumble through some parts,
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    you're going to have some high, some lows, but well done.
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    Fatherhood is a gift and you are a gift to your children.
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    You are the dad that your kids need.
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    Don't forget that. All right.
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    So with wisdom, I want to start this seven weeks off
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    in an important way to kind of give us the outline that
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    we're going to use every single week with all of our teachers.
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    We've got a great lineup this summer.
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    We chose wisdom for this summer as teachers because
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    we have seen that the world is full of foolishness, right?
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    I mean, there's a lot of wild stuff happening
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    and you might hear that and immediately go,
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    Yeah, political so-and-so is a fool.
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    And this person is that and the proverbial theys.
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    And we're not talking about any of that.
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    We're talking about is we're talking about like godly wisdom,
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    because the reality is every era of humanity
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    has had a level of foolishness, has had a level of,
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    like, what were they thinking?
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    Do you ever look back and go, "What was I thinking?"
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    I'll give an example.
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    Before 1970 something, people were like,
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    "You know, what's a great idea? Let's put lead in paint."
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    Remember when that was like, "Oh, that's a great idea."
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    Anybody in the 80s, born in the 80s or grew up in the 80s
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    and can hear my voice. Okay.
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    You guys and gals thought it would be a great idea
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    to put as much hairspray as you possibly can in your hair
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    and no one can see in front of you.
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    No one can see behind like that, Oh, yeah.
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    Any 90s kids in the house? 90s kids. Yeah.
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    You're not off the hook.
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    You guys are walking around looking like this.
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    Remember this guy?
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    This was the guy who was like, is that guy homeless
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    or is he in Pearl Jam? Which one is he?
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    Now, if you're young in here and you're like,
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    "Man, old people are weird." Yeah, you're right, they are.
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    But you're not off the hook either.
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    Those TikTok dances you're doing,
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    they live on the Internet forever. [laughter]
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    Good luck.
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    Every era, every era has something
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    that seemed wise in the moment,
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    but it actually was kind of foolish.
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    And the world is full of what looks like wisdom
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    or what's false wisdom, and God has more for us.
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    And it's important to recognize that
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    as we get started in these seven weeks,
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    because there's no neutral ground when it comes to wisdom.
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    You see, Jesus talks about our spiritual enemy.
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    He calls him the father of lies.
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    And you ever believed a lie and felt like a fool after?
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    See the father of lies, he wants you to believe those lies
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    to ultimately become a fool.
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    You see, the stakes are high when it comes to wisdom.
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    That's why all of our teachers in the next few weeks
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    are going to be unpacking what does wisdom look like
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    in different aspects of life?
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    What does wisdom look like with our finances,
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    with our time, with our relationships,
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    with our conflict, with suffering?
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    What does wisdom look like
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    from God's point of view with those things?
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    Because there's an enemy out there that wants you
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    to believe lies about wisdom and wants you to become a fool.
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    But God has wisdom for you and He has wisdom for me.
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    And we're going to unpack that this summer.
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    So I'm really excited for this summer.
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    Let's pray before I continue on. Cool?
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    God, thank You for today. Thank you for Your Word.
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    I thank You for the opportunity to just unpack it
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    and learn more about who You are and what You've called us to.
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    God, would you give us the ability to understand,
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    the ability to know and the ability
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    to walk this thing out every day?
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    We love You and we trust You. Amen.
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    So wisdom to a lot of us might feel like an optional pursuit.
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    It might feel like something like, yeah,
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    I can either choose to be wise or or I can not
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    or I can, like, lean in to like that spiritual elite-ness
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    and, like, be a pastor and be wise
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    or be a group leader and be wise
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    or be a Bible study person and be wise.
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    Or I can just be kind of, like, normal.
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    That's not the case. Wisdom is for all of us.
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    God has created wisdom for all of us to pursue it,
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    and the benefits of wisdom are huge.
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    In the Book of Proverbs,
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    which is one of the books in the Bible,
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    noted as Wisdom Literature. Okay?
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    It's Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and it's Job. Okay?
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    Proverbs written mostly by King Solomon, Ecclesiastes also;
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    Job is written by someone else.
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    And we're going to be unpacking all three of those books as
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    we think about, like, what does wisdom look like in our lives?
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    Proverbs 3 is where we're going to start today
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    as we start on this journey.
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    It says this, verse 13:
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    That's the benefit of wisdom, like precious rubies,
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    precious jewels, this treasure that's, like, so valuable,
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    it's worth everything too.
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    Like, that's what wisdom gives us in our lives.
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    When we come to follow Jesus, we receive His power
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    and we receive the Holy Spirit,
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    and then we get to walk out these days in wisdom.
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    And Solomon, who wrote these words, it's important
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    you recognize that Solomon was a king in ancient Israel.
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    And he has this interaction with God where God basically says,
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    "Hey, Solomon, ask for anything, anything you want,"
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    like Aladdin, the three wishes, right?
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    Like, he doesn't do that.
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    But he says one thing, I want you to ask me for what you want.
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    You know what Solomon says?
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    Let's read what Solomon says. He says:
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    You know what Solomon asks him for?
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    Solomon asks him for wisdom.
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    And guess what God does? He grants it.
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    Listen to how God responds.
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    Solomon was the wisest person to ever live.
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    Now, you might be like, "Wait, isn't Jesus the wisest person?"
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    Yes, but he was God. Okay?
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    Solomon was the second wisest person.
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    He was the wisest man to ever live.
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    And he wrote down these words in Proverbs for you and I
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    to realize just how important godly wisdom is,
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    how important this idea of pursuing God is
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    and what it looks like to actually live it out.
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    And one of the frameworks as you read Proverbs,
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    which I recommend, by the way.
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    I recommend you read Proverbs, you know,
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    if you have a summer reading list or something like that,
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    I recommend putting Proverbs at the very top of it.
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    It's 31 chapters.
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    You can read like a chapter a day
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    and you can be through it in a month.
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    It's really powerful, especially, especially
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    if you're just starting your faith journey
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    or you're just starting to dig into scripture.
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    It is a really helpful framework for life written by Solomon,
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    who lays this thing out.
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    In all of Proverbs, you're going to see
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    kind of two things contrasted.
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    You're going to see wisdom and you're going to see foolishness.
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    And the reason why he does that is because there are
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    really only two outcomes when it comes to living wisely.
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    You're either wise, or you ain't.
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    You're either a person who walks wisely
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    or a person who walks like a fool.
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    There's not like a neutral in-between of that.
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    Proverbs 3:35 says this:
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    All throughout Proverbs, there's different sort of synonyms
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    that go hand in hand with wise and foolish.
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    Let me read some of them that are described as wise.
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    So the wise person is described as
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    prudent, diligent, discerning, upright.
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    The fool, on the other hand, described as
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    scoffer, drunkard, simple -- Dang -- mocker, right?
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    Like, stuff that we don't want to be described as. Right?
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    There's only two options here.
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    There's not a middle ground.
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    The wise follow wisdom, and fools follow folly.
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    And you and I, we get to pick which one we are.
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    We get to pick which one we follow.
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    And as I was talking through, we were talking through this
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    as a team, as a teachers team,
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    to kind of, like, so what do we want to lay out?
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    We want to lay out like where wisdom comes from,
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    the wisest person with the Proverbs and all of the wisdom
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    that come from and that sort of thing.
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    And we also wanted to lay out, like,
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    are there multiple kinds of wisdom?
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    Are there, like, different kinds of wisdom?
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    And it really came down to this, okay,
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    there are, there are two kinds of wisdom.
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    It's God's wisdom as found in the Scriptures,
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    and then there's everything else.
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    And so a way to find out if it's wisdom or not:
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    Does it line up with the Bible?
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    Does it line up with what is in the Scripture?
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    And the idea of this isn't confined to just, like,
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    the Wisdom Literature in Proverbs.
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    You see this sort of throughout the Bible.
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    And the apostle Paul, who we talked about a few weeks ago,
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    he writes this in Colossians 2. He says:
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    You see, there's like this thing that looks wise,
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    it looks like wisdom and it sounds cool,
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    but it's not actually godly wisdom.
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    We have a lot of phrases like that in our world, don't we?
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    We have phrases like make a name for yourself.
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    I work with a lot of young people,
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    a lot of like young professionals, a
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    nd the big lie that they all walk in,
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    "I got to be the smartest person in the room.
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    I got to know all the answers. I got to get it all done."
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    Like, hey, relax there, wild one. It's cool.
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    Here's another one,
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    here's another one that is pretty popular:
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    Pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
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    You guys know that one?
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    You never actually seen anyone do that physically in life.
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    But the idea of, like, you've got to do it on your own.
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    That sounds like wisdom on the surface,
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    but really it's just the principle of men.
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    Here's another one: Your faith is private.
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    That's a big one, right? Especially today, right?
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    Like you believe what you believe.
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    I believe what I believe. We won't talk about it.
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    And I'll try to keep my grass cut
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    so that we don't have neighborhood arguments.
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    That's not in the Scriptures.
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    Be true to yourself, that's a big one, especially today
  • 00:43:02
    in an individual society, right?
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    Everyone's an individual, and everybody, be true to you.
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    I heard somebody say recently, choose you.
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    Like, that's not in the Scriptures.
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    That's not godly wisdom, but it sounds cool.
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    You see the need for wanting to -- to need to unpack
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    who God says we are and what God says about wisdom,
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    as opposed to just kind of following along
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    with the folly of the world, folly of culture?
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    So what is godly wisdom have to offer?
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    What are the benefits?
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    Well, we've read them earlier, but there's one in there
  • 00:43:31
    that I think gets looked over a lot.
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    So I want to read the Proverbs 3 verse that we read earlier.
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    Let's read it again. The first part of it.
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    Happy, that sounds nice, doesn't it?
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    I'd like -- anybody like to be happy?
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    Yeah. Sometimes in church, you're like,
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    "Am I allowed to be happy?"
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    Yes. It clearly says it here:
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    Happy is you if you find wisdom, if you gain,
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    you will have a product in your life that will be happy.
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    Too many times I know in my past I believed that, like,
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    if I gain godly wisdom, then I got to be like a monk
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    and I got to, like, turn off all electronics
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    and go live in the caves of Tibet and go, like,
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    chill up there and do whatever they do up there all day.
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    I don't know.
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    But no, no, no. God's saying, look, a product of
  • 00:44:23
    you finding wisdom is that you're happy.
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    So that means this, that means if we pursue wisdom,
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    the result is happiness.
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    Too many of us switch those, don't we?
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    We pursue happiness and hopes to get wise.
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    God saying, No, I'm going to lay this out for you in order.
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    I'm going to lay this out to you
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    in order that you should pursue it.
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    Proverbs 4:7:
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    I'll see you guys next week. This has been fun. [laughter]
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    It's really clear.
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    It's really clear in Scripture that wisdom is the thing.
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    Like it is the thing,
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    that's why we've dedicated seven weeks to it.
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    That's why we've got to uncover it.
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    That's why we've got to beat back
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    all the lies and the noise around it.
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    It's because it is the thing.
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    Now finding godly wisdom, I wish there was a magic pill.
  • 00:45:21
    I wish there was, like, a DoorDash for it.
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    Which you can get anything on DoorDash, by the way.
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    I don't know if you know that, literally anything.
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    Name a product, we will buy it on DoorDash.
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    It'll be here by the middle of next service.
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    I was at a wedding recently in Florida,
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    and my friend had a teenage son that something happened
  • 00:45:39
    with plumbing at the home. He needed a plunger.
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    So at the wedding, we just ordered him a plunger
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    from four states away, and it showed up in 30 minutes.
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    It was fantastic.
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    Like, we live in a really sweet time in history
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    where you can just do that,
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    and you could pick up like chicken wings on the way.
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    So someone would give you a plunger and chicken wings
  • 00:45:54
    and Pepto all in the same -- [laughter]
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    It's an amazing thing and it doesn't take a lot of effort.
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    Godly wisdom is not like that. You've got to seek it.
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    You got to work. You got to work towards it.
  • 00:46:06
    It's not a mistake that we just came out of the Book of Acts,
  • 00:46:10
    all about movement, all about the acts of the early church
  • 00:46:13
    and the acts of the Holy Spirit.
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    It's not by accident that we did that and then wisdom,
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    because if you want wisdom, it's going to require action.
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    It's going to require movement.
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    And you've got a seek it from God.
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    Let's read Proverbs 1:4-6.
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    If you seek her as silver. Who's her? Her is wisdom.
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    Solomon had this really interesting personification
  • 00:46:46
    of wisdom where he describes wisdom as a righteous woman,
  • 00:46:49
    and he describes foolishness as like an immoral woman.
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    And he says, "Listen, if you seek her, if you seek wisdom
  • 00:46:57
    as you search for hidden treasures,
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    then you will understand God.
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    You will understand wisdom."
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    I wonder how many of us are seeking wisdom like that.
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    I wonder how many of us in our in our everyday lives are like,
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    Man, I just want to be wise and show up wise in this situation
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    or I want to have godly wisdom here in my life right now,
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    at my job, at home, or wherever,
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    or when so and so cuts us off in traffic,
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    which oh, Lord, if that happens again.
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    Are we seeking wisdom like that?
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    Or are we like, Nah, we got it all.
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    It's cool. I got it figured it out.
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    I know a little bit of this, a little bit of that.
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    I got my Bible verses.
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    I show up to church within five minutes of it starting.
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    No one knows. It's fine.
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    Or are we seeking wisdom?
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    You see, because people who are wise, they keep seeking.
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    The Christmas story,
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    not the movie with the kid with the thing,
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    but the the actual Christmas story in the Nativity scene
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    features three wise men.
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    And the origins of those wise men are Jesus was born
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    and they are off doing their thing in a faraway land.
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    And they see a star and they go, "Something's happening there."
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    And they start to pursue that and they risk their life,
  • 00:48:10
    they risk a lot to get there. You know why?
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    Because they were never satisfied with what they had.
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    They always knew that God had more for them.
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    And when it comes to wisdom, if you're satisfied
  • 00:48:21
    with where you are, you will not grow.
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    You've got to seek.
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    You've got to get up and actually seek wisdom.
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    And God wants to give it to you.
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    He's not hiding from you.
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    He's not hiding wisdom from you.
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    They understood, the wise men understood that
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    they had wisdom that God had given them,
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    but they needed more.
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    They weren't just wise in their own eyes.
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    They wanted to be wise in a godly way.
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    Proverbs 3:7:
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    People who are wise in their own eyes, they're like,
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    "Yeah, okay, cool.
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    Like, I'll just kind of hear this stupid thing
  • 00:48:59
    and then continue on with my life."
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    People who want to seek wisdom are growing, are taking steps,
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    are stumbling towards it even when it's uncomfortable.
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    That's what God has for you.
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    That's what God has for me as His followers, wisdom.
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    God wants you and I to grow in wisdom,
  • 00:49:13
    and there is a biblical framework on how to get there.
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    And this is the part that I'm really excited to unpack
  • 00:49:19
    with all of our teachers over the next couple of weeks.
  • 00:49:21
    There are like, it's like a three part approach
  • 00:49:24
    to how do you get wisdom?
  • 00:49:26
    And it starts in Proverbs 1:6, it says this:
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    Oftentimes in our world, we sort of, like,
  • 00:49:38
    put wisdom, knowledge, understanding
  • 00:49:40
    sort of on the same playing field, but they're different.
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    They're similar words, but they're very distinct
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    and they're distinct on purpose in the Bible.
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    In Proverbs 9, it says it again.
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    It's all throughout Proverbs,
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    knowledge, understanding, wisdom.
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    And there's an important breakdown that we need to have
  • 00:50:04
    as we explore the next couple of weeks together
  • 00:50:07
    on what wisdom looks like in whatever area of your life.
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    Step one, right, the first part of understanding
  • 00:50:13
    what godly wisdom is and getting to godly wisdom is knowledge.
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    Knowledge. Those are the facts. Those are the facts. Okay?
  • 00:50:23
    Knowledge is sort of a commodity in our world right now.
  • 00:50:26
    It's not like super treasured
  • 00:50:28
    because we have it at our fingertips. You know?
  • 00:50:29
    You can get AI to basically write you anything.
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    Have you ever used AI to write you an email?
  • 00:50:35
    Fantastic life hack.
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    Also, it just gives you knowledge. That's it.
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    It doesn't give you anything else. It just gives you facts.
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    It spits those back out and that's all it has.
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    It can't be the end result for us
  • 00:50:47
    if it's the beginning result in godly wisdom.
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    You see, we're often looking for knowledge and that's it.
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    And if you turn on the Internet, you're often seeing
  • 00:50:54
    people throwing facts back and forth.
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    A lot of the problems we have with each other
  • 00:50:58
    is because your facts don't line up with my facts
  • 00:51:01
    and his facts and so everybody's got these facts
  • 00:51:03
    that they're just tossing around randomly,
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    and we're never getting the knowledge.
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    Let me read you what it says here in Proverbs 1:7.
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    The word fear shows up a lot as you're reading Proverbs
  • 00:51:19
    and the Wisdom Literature, fear of the Lord.
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    It's important we know what that word means. Okay.
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    Fear of the Lord here translated
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    doesn't mean like scary movie fear, right?
  • 00:51:30
    It doesn't mean like Michael Myers or Freddy Krueger
  • 00:51:33
    or whatever the little doll thing that runs around,
  • 00:51:35
    which is a weird concept of a movie, by the way. Right?
  • 00:51:38
    That little doll, kick it, movie's over.
  • 00:51:42
    But it's not that kind of fear. It's not horror movie fear.
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    The fear of the Lord here is describing reverence.
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    It's basically taking God seriously.
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    So translated another way:
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    taking God seriously is the beginning of knowledge.
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    So you don't get to knowledge of God
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    without taking Him seriously.
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    What does that mean for you?
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    That means digging into His Word.
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    That means being around other people who are following Him.
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    Getting knowledge about God is taking Him seriously.
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    And that is step one. That is step one in godly wisdom.
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    It's foundational that we seek knowledge and continue to seek,
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    but then that can't end there.
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    We have to go to the second word: understanding.
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    Understanding is basically like
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    the connections between the facts.
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    So there are facts that sort of live sort of in outer space,
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    but someone has to connect them all to see, like,
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    to understand what the bigger picture is.
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    You've got to see the facts.
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    You got to understand the facts.
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    You got to put the connection between them.
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    I saw this ad on social media. It's a shoe advertisement.
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    I want to show you it real quick. There it is.
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    It's a advertisement for shoes.
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    And here's their tagline: The closest to barefoot you can get.
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    I don't know everything about everything,
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    but the facts that I know is like,
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    there are shoes. People need shoes.
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    I thought people needed shoes so that they weren't barefoot.
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    I was like, is this company hot in Kentucky?
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    Like, what's happening they want to be barefoot?
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    What's going on? [laughter]
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    I love Kentucky and the people down there.
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    It was weird. It's like, I don't understand.
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    Why would you market shoes that make you feel barefoot?
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    It's like going to a restaurant.
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    No restaurant has ever been like, "You hungry?
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    Good. Come eat with us.
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    The closest to hungry you'll ever feel."
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    That doesn't make any sense.
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    But then we went to go buy a pair of these shoes
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    and they were sold out.
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    Turns out there's a market for people who enjoy the feeling
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    of being barefoot but also want to shoe.
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    Not my people, but there are people like that, right?
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    See, I had to put the facts together
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    to be able to understand.
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    And my understanding was limited.
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    My understanding of the situation was limited.
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    That's why I need understanding outside of myself.
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    And in the same way, if you are going to have understanding
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    about the knowledge of God, about the facts about God,
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    you have got to have people helping you along the way.
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    And more importantly,
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    you've got to have God's voice in that as well.
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    There's a call to gain godly understanding,
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    and also a call to not lean on our own understanding.
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    Here's what it says in Proverbs 3:5-6:
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    Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
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    and lean not on your own understanding.
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    Starting with knowledge, getting the facts,
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    leaning on understanding to put them all together.
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    And then we get to wisdom.
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    And wisdom is simply acting on what you know and understand.
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    That's it. That's the magic. There's no magic pill to it.
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    It says acting on what you know and what you understand.
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    The most important thing about biblical wisdom
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    is that it is an action.
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    Jesus calls this out in a really great way in Matthew 7
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    in one of his most famous sermons, He says this:
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    Whoever hears these sayings of Mine and does them,
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    that person is wise.
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    Now, when we think about this framework,
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    we're going to be unpacking it
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    in different spheres of life every week.
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    I've got an example for you that I think is going to hit home.
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    I think it makes sense. I think it's a real world example.
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    I'm going to share it with you. Okay. It comes from my life.
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    I grew up in South Florida. Okay.
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    My family migrated here
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    from Trinidad and Tobago when I was a kid.
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    They came, I grew up in South Florida.
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    I moved to Pittsburgh for a few years.
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    Now Pittsburgh, they got a football team there.
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    Here we go. Here we go. "We don't have a mascot."
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    The Steelers are a good team.
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    They're a historically great team.
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    They got six rings over there, like, it's a thing, you know?
  • 00:56:03
    Their record 68 and 39 versus Cincinnati.
  • 00:56:07
    Like they've been dominating. Those are the facts.
  • 00:56:11
    Those are the facts.
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    Understanding would lead me to say, "Well, Pittsburgh's
  • 00:56:17
    just a historically better franchise than Cincinnati."
  • 00:56:21
    But wisdom would tell me -- [laughter]
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    that we got a pretty solid team this year.
  • 00:56:26
    You know what I'm saying?
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    We got a quarterback that can do his thing.
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    We got some support there.
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    We got a little thing happening.
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    So wisdom might tell me
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    the Steelers ain't got it this year, boys.
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    So wisdom would tell me to put all of that together
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    and as we walk that out, I'm praying for a Super Bowl win.
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    I don't know if you're allowed to pray for a Super Bowl win,
  • 00:56:50
    but I'll give it a try. Aggressive mistakes. No.
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    Wisdom is looking at the knowledge,
  • 00:56:56
    but looking at the facts,
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    putting them together and acting it out.
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    When I was in Pittsburgh, I had a job that had me
  • 00:57:05
    traveling the country
  • 00:57:06
    doing different ministry events for young people.
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    We would do 3 or 4 events a week
  • 00:57:11
    in different cities along the way.
  • 00:57:12
    So we were always on the go. We were always moving, right.
  • 00:57:15
    And it was a great run.
  • 00:57:17
    And I had a great time doing it.
  • 00:57:19
    I met a lot of awesome people.
  • 00:57:20
    I met my wife doing that. It was it was fantastic.
  • 00:57:22
    And I had this, I had these facts
  • 00:57:24
    that that window was closing for me.
  • 00:57:26
    Like, I was getting a little bit older.
  • 00:57:27
    I felt like I needed to kind of plant some roots, right?
  • 00:57:30
    Because I wanted to raise a family.
  • 00:57:31
    I wanted to have a family one day.
  • 00:57:33
    So the facts told me like, hey,
  • 00:57:34
    if you want to raise a family well,
  • 00:57:36
    you should probably plant them in a certain area
  • 00:57:37
    and, like, let them develop and grow there.
  • 00:57:39
    Those were the facts.
  • 00:57:41
    So my understanding as I tried to tie these facts together
  • 00:57:44
    was one of the facts was there was an opportunity
  • 00:57:46
    in Cincinnati to come serve.
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    And there was a place called Crossroads.
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    This was ten years ago, by the way, a long time ago it feels.
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    Ten years ago and it felt like it was the right place.
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    It felt like this was the place too that that, like,
  • 00:57:57
    lined up with what my wife and I were about.
  • 00:58:00
    And it was, like, a place we could call home.
  • 00:58:02
    It was also my understanding that
  • 00:58:04
    we didn't know anything really about Cincinnati,
  • 00:58:07
    like, we knew Cincinnati as that city
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    that had the really sweet view when you came in from the north.
  • 00:58:12
    And we knew Cincinnati was that city
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    where I-75 was under construction a lot.
  • 00:58:17
    Remember we thought to ourselves, "It'll be over soon.
  • 00:58:22
    You can't have construction forever." [laughter]
  • 00:58:27
    Didn't tie it together. Right?
  • 00:58:29
    And so we moved here and so we moved here.
  • 00:58:31
    We took that knowledge and we took that understanding
  • 00:58:33
    and we put it to practice and we moved.
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    Now today, ten years later, I recognize
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    that was us activating godly wisdom because
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    we had knowledge that this is what we needed to do.
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    We had understanding that this was an opportunity to do it
  • 00:58:46
    and that the dots started to line up.
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    And so we started walking it out.
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    Now, has it been all roses? No, absolutely not.
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    There's something powerful about having to stay
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    in a community even though things don't always go your way.
  • 00:59:00
    There's something powerful and growing
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    about having to stay in it, and not look for the eject button.
  • 00:59:05
    See, when I was traveling, I was out in two days.
  • 00:59:08
    So whether or not it went well or not, I was like,
  • 00:59:10
    Deuces, I'm going to the next one.
  • 00:59:11
    It was easy, but now I'm a part of the community.
  • 00:59:14
    I'm a part of a church. I'm a part of a body.
  • 00:59:17
    I'm part of a movement.
  • 00:59:18
    And we're planted here and we're seeing that wisdom activate.
  • 00:59:22
    We're seeing the wisdom of God show up in our lives
  • 00:59:25
    in new ways that we didn't even expect.
  • 00:59:28
    We have deep friendships now.
  • 00:59:30
    It took a while to get there, but we kept going after it.
  • 00:59:32
    We have people that we can call
  • 00:59:34
    if there's a crisis now in our lives.
  • 00:59:35
    It took a little while to get there, but man,
  • 00:59:37
    I'm telling you it works.
  • 00:59:40
    When you take your knowledge, take your understanding
  • 00:59:43
    and put it into practice,
  • 00:59:44
    God shows up and you get godly wisdom.
  • 00:59:46
    I'm a better leader, father, and all of those things
  • 00:59:49
    because of this place, because we stepped into
  • 00:59:52
    what God had for us here.
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    And God wants the same thing for you.
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    God wants the same thing for you.
  • 00:59:56
    He wants you to activate that knowledge,
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    activate that understanding, and start to actually walk it out
  • 01:00:02
    before you have all the details figured out,
  • 01:00:06
    before you know the exact answers to all the questions
  • 01:00:09
    He wants you to get up and move.
  • 01:00:12
    You grow in wisdom by doing it.
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    It's like you grow in fatherhood by doing it.
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    That's how you grow in godly wisdom,
  • 01:00:18
    and that's the way God has set it up
  • 01:00:20
    and that's what He wants for you.
  • 01:00:21
    You will have to act on incomplete knowledge
  • 01:00:23
    and understanding.
  • 01:00:24
    You will have to move on that.
  • 01:00:27
    Here's what 1 Corinthians 1 says:
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    You see that there?
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    Do you see it there tucked away in the verse?
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    In Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom.
  • 01:00:47
    See, when you allow Jesus to come into your life,
  • 01:00:49
    He gives you power, He gives you access to Himself,
  • 01:00:51
    He gives you a model for life,
  • 01:00:52
    and He gives you Himself as a source of wisdom.
  • 01:00:57
    So where are you in life? Where is your thing?
  • 01:00:59
    Like, where is it that you need wisdom?
  • 01:01:00
    What aspect of your life
  • 01:01:01
    do you want the wisdom of God to show up
  • 01:01:03
    and not be like anything else,
  • 01:01:04
    but be more powerful and more potent?
  • 01:01:08
    As we start to wrap this thing up,
  • 01:01:10
    I want you to think about your life for a second.
  • 01:01:12
    But I want to do something different to end our time here.
  • 01:01:15
    Everybody, stand up real quick. Just stand up with me.
  • 01:01:17
    Stay where you. Stand up.
  • 01:01:19
    Don't start packing your stuff up yet.
  • 01:01:20
    Just stand up for a second.
  • 01:01:23
    And I want you to think about your life.
  • 01:01:26
    Another portion of scripture, Jesus says,
  • 01:01:28
    I am the Way, the Truth and the Life.
  • 01:01:32
    There is a way to godly wisdom and it goes through Jesus.
  • 01:01:40
    Last verse I want to share with you today is from James 1:5:
  • 01:01:56
    You lacking wisdom today? Ask God.
  • 01:02:00
    You need more wisdom in a certain situation in your life?
  • 01:02:03
    Ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach.
  • 01:02:08
    That means God has wisdom He's ready to give you,
  • 01:02:11
    all you've got to do is take the step and actually ask Him.
  • 01:02:15
    He's got something for you that's more than you could ask
  • 01:02:18
    or imagine, that will be the thing that needs to happen
  • 01:02:21
    in the situation that you're in, and He is waiting for you
  • 01:02:24
    to ask Him, and He's going to give it to you freely.
  • 01:02:29
    He's given us His Son freely. He's given us Jesus freely.
  • 01:02:32
    And He's given us all that comes with that.
  • 01:02:34
    You want to be a better dad? Ask him.
  • 01:02:37
    You want to be a better spouse? Ask him.
  • 01:02:39
    You want to be a better teacher, a better student,
  • 01:02:41
    a better roommate, a better person in your neighborhood?
  • 01:02:44
    Ask him. He has it for you. He's good like that.
  • 01:02:50
    He's good to us.
  • 01:02:52
    So maybe your first big step as we get into the wisdom thing
  • 01:02:56
    is simply asking Him.
  • 01:02:58
    Where do you need wisdom today? Where do you need it?
  • 01:03:01
    I'm going to say a prayer for us.
  • 01:03:03
    And while I'm praying, I want you to be praying
  • 01:03:06
    and just saying, "God, I need Your wisdom."
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    Insert the blank wherever it is.
  • 01:03:10
    Ask Him from your heart right now.
  • 01:03:12
    God, thank You for this time.
  • 01:03:14
    Thank You for Your wisdom and Your goodness.
  • 01:03:18
    Thank You for the way that You love us,
  • 01:03:21
    the way that You lead us.
  • 01:03:23
    God, thank you for the knowledge of who You are.
  • 01:03:25
    Thank You for understanding how all of that ties together
  • 01:03:27
    and is relevant to our lives.
  • 01:03:30
    And God, we're asking for wisdom.
  • 01:03:32
    We're asking for wisdom in our home, wisdom at our job,
  • 01:03:35
    wisdom wherever it might be.
  • 01:03:37
    We need You, Lord. We need You, God, to show up.
  • 01:03:39
    We're asking You, God, please give us wisdom.
  • 01:03:42
    We know You want to give it to us, God,
  • 01:03:44
    so we thank you in advance.
  • 01:03:46
    Now with your heads bowed and your eyes closed real quick,
  • 01:03:48
    just, hey, if you're a dad in here,
  • 01:03:51
    I just want you to put your hand up
  • 01:03:52
    really high for me real quick. Just put your hand up.
  • 01:03:54
    So if you're around a dad or with a dad,
  • 01:03:56
    just put your hand on their shoulder just real quick
  • 01:03:59
    or put your hand out towards them
  • 01:04:00
    if it's weird to touch them or whatever, that's fine.
  • 01:04:03
    I just want to pray a special blessing over fathers today
  • 01:04:07
    on Father's Day as we get into wisdom.
  • 01:04:10
    Being a father requires a lot of wisdom and we all need it.
  • 01:04:16
    So let me say a prayer for you, dads.
  • 01:04:19
    Father, thank You for the way that You love us
  • 01:04:21
    and the model that You have given us
  • 01:04:23
    so that we can give to our children.
  • 01:04:25
    And God, I pray for all of the fathers in here.

Jun 18, 2023 • 1 hr 5 mins 44 sec

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