Once you’ve tasted true grace, you’ll want to share that goodness with others. Join us as we explore the concept of grace from the book of Romans.

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    - We're going to sing of what God's done for us,
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    the freedom He brings to us.
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    - That's right, that's why we rejoice,
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    that's why we hope.
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    - Sing that chorus one more time.
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    - You freely give and I'm just so grateful
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    that I get to be the recipient
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    of your goodness and your grace.
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    The thing that's -- that I've -- I've not deserved the most,
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    You've given it to me.
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    In my messed up self, time after time,
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    You reach Your arm out and you said,
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    "Nope, I'm not going to leave you there.
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    No, I'm not going to leave you by yourself.
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    I'm coming after you."
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    And if you're hearing this prayer,
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    I want you to know the Lord is coming after you.
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    He's coming after you, whether you see Him or not,
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    whether you feel it or not, He's coming after you.
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    Why? Because He's a good father who doesn't leave His sheep.
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    Even just one, He's coming after us.
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    So, Father, I just say thank You.
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    Would You open our eyes this morning to You?
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    And when You open our eyes to You,
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    would we open our hands and say, "Lord, you can have us"?
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    You can have us.
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    We invite You in to do whatever work You want to do,
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    to show us who You've created us to be,
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    to show us exactly who You are.
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    That's a good Father.
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    You're worth singing to, You're worth praising,
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    so we praise You today. Amen. Amen.
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    - So how did we get from this to this?
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    And how did we get from here to there?
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    And maybe most importantly, how did we get from this place
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    where people seem to love Jesus but can't stand his followers,
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    where people seem to be really fascinated
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    by Jesus personality, by what He did,
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    by the way He cared for people
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    and primarily see the church as hypocrites and as bigots.
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    Man, I think the answers to these questions
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    are really important for us.
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    They're really important for us to understand
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    that somewhere along the line we've lost the plot.
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    We're going to jump into the answers
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    to these questions in just a minute.
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    But first, I have a little thought experiment for you.
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    Imagine you live in a world that's really confused,
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    that's really stressful, that's really strained,
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    where no one can agree on what's the right way forward,
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    where no one can agree on what's the right way to live?
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    Is any of this sounding familiar?
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    Yeah. That's the world that you and I live in every day.
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    We're not alone in this.
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    This is also the world that the church in Rome lived in.
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    The church in Rome was living incredibly divisive time,
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    an incredibly dangerous time.
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    Rome was the capital of an empire.
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    It was the cultural, political, and geographical
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    center of the known universe at that point.
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    And within that capital city,
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    there was a small group of believers
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    that were really conflicted, conflicted on
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    what the right way to follow Jesus was.
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    This banner that says Fight the Good Fight.
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    Well, there's been lots of disagreements over time
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    about how we as followers of Jesus fight the good fight.
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    That line is actually pulled straight
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    from a book of the Bible, again, written by a guy named Paul,
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    where it encourages us to stay strong, to stay faithful,
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    to continue to fight the good fight,
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    continue to race the good race.
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    Like, that's what we're called to be,
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    and we really struggle to know what that looks like.
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    If you've ever wondered how you should live,
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    if you've ever wondered what the right way forward is,
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    hey, you are in good company because t
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    hat's where we all are at in one way or another
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    and where the church in Rome was at.
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    Now the church in Rome, a group of, let's say 125 people,
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    a small community, trying to figure out
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    what it meant to follow Jesus in their context
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    and their place in history and in space.
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    And in that moment, they began to fight.
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    They began to have a lot of conflict
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    between the different groups.
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    And in that moment, they received a letter
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    that was encouraging to them, that was clarifying for them,
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    that showed them how the different pieces
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    of their life fit together
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    and how they were united in the person of Jesus.
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    So let's go back and imagine in your chaos,
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    in your confusion, in your uncertainty about, man,
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    what you were put on this earth for
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    and your uncertainty about the future.
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    Imagine in the midst of that moment
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    you received a letter, a letter from a friend or a mentor
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    that wasn't generic.
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    It wasn't, Hey, how are you doing?
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    It was custom advice for you.
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    It was guidance on how to move forward as a community
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    and in your own life.
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    That's exactly what the church in Rome received
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    in the book of the Bible, we call it the Book of Romans.
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    But it wasn't a book just meant to be read
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    top to bottom or a chapter.
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    The book of Romans was actually a letter written
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    to a community to help them understand how to live.
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    And that's how I want you and I to receive,
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    well, the book of Romans today,
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    that it was written for us right where we're at,
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    not just a generic thing in an ancient book,
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    not just generic words for somebody else,
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    but a letter written with great love, great care,
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    and great intentionality for you.
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    So today, I hope that we receive Paul's letters
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    like they were intended, like they were a letter
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    written to you and me to help us understand
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    how we can navigate chaos, confusion,
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    uncertainty about the future,
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    and how we can understand how Christians have
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    sort of lost the plot, why we don't look
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    as much like Jesus as we're supposed to.
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    And I think the answer to that question and more is,
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    well, that Christians have forgotten one word.
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    That word is used 179 times in the Bible.
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    So we don't really have an excuse.
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    It's not like it doesn't come up much.
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    But the word that we've forgotten is grace.
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    - God's grace.
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    - God done gave me more than I asked for
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    because He got this thing He has called brace.
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    - And show him grace that he doesn't deserve.
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    - Of the story of the gospel of God's grace
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    in all of Scripture.
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    - Grace is this amazing word that shows up a lot
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    and it embodies the fact and the reality
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    that we have a before and after,
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    that God has moved in our lives
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    and changed us and made us different. Right?
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    Unfortunately, Christians aren't immediately recognizable
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    for this in the ways that they initially were.
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    Christians have brought many, many amazing things
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    to the world, like public education,
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    like the first sort of modern expression of hospitals
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    and social care and many things
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    that we sort of take for granted.
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    But unfortunately, that type of innovation
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    around change in the world isn't seen
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    as readily as it once was.
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    And Christians are known more for being insular
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    or being hypocritical or being judgmental
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    than they are changing the world.
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    Crossroads started doing a thing where every day
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    in the Crossroads Anywhere app, we as a community
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    are reading through the Bible together,
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    just a chapter or so, and then we have a chance
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    to respond to that and sort of post
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    a public journal entry about what we get out of that passage
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    or what that makes us think about or do.
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    We're doing that in line with Romans.
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    Romans 1 sort of starts off, like, right out of the gate
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    coming in hot with a list of a bunch of things
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    that we probably don't want to do.
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    It's a bunch of, like, negative behaviors.
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    The very first comment wasn't anything personal.
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    It was just a person putting an entire group of people
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    on blast for not living up to the standards of Romans 1.
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    People who don't believe the same things that we believe,
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    people don't think the same things that we do
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    just getting lit up.
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    The Bible, Romans 1 not being used as
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    a letter of encouragement or direction or guidance,
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    but instead just as ammunition.
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    But it just made me really sad about what have we missed?
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    How have we lost the plot that this is more about
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    how we can judge other people than it is
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    for how we can live better ourselves.
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    And it's in that moment that I was initially sad
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    and frustrated, and then I just got a fire,
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    like. in my gut of like, man,
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    this is not how it's supposed to be.
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    This is not how we're supposed to be.
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    You know, I've been judgmental plenty of times,
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    so there is zero zero angst in me about this.
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    It's just, I mean, we have a ways to go
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    to lean into what Jesus would have for us
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    and how he would have us respond to the world around us.
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    So Romans 1 has this list of, well,
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    behaviors that we probably want to avoid,
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    aren't great for us.
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    Romans 2 follows it up with this great line that just says
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    you therefore have no excuse who passed judgment
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    on someone else for at whatever point you judge another
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    you are condemning yourself because
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    you pass judgment to do those same things.
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    That's that hypocritical thing that I think
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    the church is unfortunately known for.
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    One of the best examples
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    actually that I've heard recently
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    about this deep understanding of grace
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    and how our own before and after sort of help inform that
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    and enforce that, encourage us to extend grace to others
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    was actually from Alcoholics Anonymous.
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    There's a writer, author, professor, theologian
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    named Steven Raines, who literally wrote a book
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    that asks a really good question.
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    He says, "Why can't church be more like AA?"
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    He asked this question because he describes
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    his experience of his life being absolutely ravaged
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    by addiction and the power that he experienced
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    by being a part of a community that openly
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    and actively shared their brokenness,
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    shared their stories of hurt, and shared hope
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    for one another for a different path forward,
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    and how it just changed everything for him.
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    He says it this way, that AA members
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    would become accustomed to receiving things
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    like hope and healing and authenticity and vulnerability
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    in the church basement on Saturday
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    and then come up on Sunday morning into the church pew
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    and wonder where all of those same things went.
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    It's a really good question.
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    We are meant to identify with our brokenness,
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    to remember our before, and that it's God's grace
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    that gave us a different after
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    than we ever could have provided for ourselves.
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    And when we remember our before,
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    our grace that God offered us and our after,
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    we can extend that same grace to others.
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    And I would say we can't help but extend that grace to others.
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    So the whole picture of Christians as uptight,
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    as religious, as hypocritical, as angry, mean,
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    joyless and all those things show
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    just how much we've missed the mark.
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    That's not who Jesus was.
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    That's not who His followers are supposed to be.
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    We should be the most hope-filled people
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    on the planet.
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    We should be the most joy-filled people on earth,
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    and we should absolutely be the most quick
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    to extend grace to everyone around us when they fail,
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    when they fall, when they don't measure up to whatever,
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    we have a chance to offer something that
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    the world is not offering, and that is grace.
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    It's one of those things that just makes me sad
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    about cancel culture, right?
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    Cancel culture,
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    a lot of Christians get really bummed out about it.
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    The reality is Christians invented cancel culture.
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    Like, it was kind of our sweet spot
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    for, like, hundreds of years where if anybody
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    didn't do all the things that we required of them,
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    well, then we would write them off and we would cancel them.
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    Then we would put them on the outs, literally, sometimes.
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    That's not who we're called to be.
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    We are called to be the most gracious people on the planet
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    because we need to remember how much grace,
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    how much forgiveness, how much love has been shared with us.
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    The important reality here is that grace makes us new.
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    It doesn't just like patch us up.
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    It doesn't just sort of put a fresh coat of paint on it.
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    It doesn't just help us be better versions of ourselves.
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    Scripture's really clear that grace makes us new.
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    2 Corinthians puts it this way:
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    Therefore, if anyone is in Christ he is a new creation.
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    The old has passed away and the new has come.
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    That's who we are.
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    We are new creations and we get to offer tons of grace
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    to other people as they become new themselves.
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    Here's a quote that I love, and it says:
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    It's not just about getting on our best behavior;
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    It's about experiencing something
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    that changes us from the inside out,
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    that makes us a new creation.
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    And man, we as followers of Jesus should just
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    acknowledge that not everybody is in the same place.
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    We shouldn't expect people who don't believe
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    all the same things that we believe
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    to act all of the ways that we would act, right?
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    Let's be quick to extend grace.
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    You and I are the recipients of so much grace,
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    and that should make us really, really amazing
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    at extending grace to one another.
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    And it's when we forget grace,
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    it's when we forget how much we've been changed,
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    how much grace we've been afforded,
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    it actually keeps us from connecting with one another
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    and we forget that grace connects us.
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    Grace can show up in your life in moments of chaos,
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    in moments of confusion, in moments of need.
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    Whether that need is physical,
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    whether that need is emotional, spiritual,
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    or whether that need is just practical.
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    I've experienced so much grace in the context
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    of connection and community as my family and I
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    have been between houses now, supposed to be a week
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    and we're going on two months living out of suitcases.
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    We've experienced so much grace with friends
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    letting us stay with them, with people helping us out,
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    watching our kids.
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    It's been wonderful.
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    And we're only experiencing that kind of grace,
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    that kind of grace that supports,
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    that kind of grace that encourages
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    because we're attached to a community.
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    Now, Romans 12 puts it this way:
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    For as in one body we have many members,
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    and the members don't have all the same function,
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    so we, though many are one body in Christ
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    and individually members of one another.
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    Having gifts that differ
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    according to the grace given to us,
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    let us use them: If prophecy, in proportion to our faith;
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    if service, in our serving;
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    the one who teaches, in his teaching;
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    the one who exhorts, in his exhortation, ;
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    the one who contributes, in generosity;
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    the one who leads, with zeal;
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    and the one who acts with mercy, with cheerfulness.
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    When we bring our different personalities,
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    our different wiring, our different resources,
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    our different gifting together in the context of community,
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    and we share so much grace with one another
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    and the body, the church functions as it was intended.
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    People are our DNA around here,
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    and how we treat them has always been a key part
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    of who we are as Crossroads
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    and as the overall capital C church across the world.
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    This is from the Seven Hills That We Die On:
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    The reality is that you and I are surrounded
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    by amazing people, amazing people
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    that we were made to need.
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    And that goes for everyone.
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    Everyone is made in the image of God,
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    even the ones you and I might find annoying.
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    Or it's true, even for you and me,
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    when other people might find us annoying.
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    Grace enables us to connect.
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    Grace enables us to experience the full value that
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    everyone around us has being made in the image of Jesus.
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    And when we just understand that we all were made
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    with this deep, innate sense of purpose and deep innate value,
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    we can extend grace to one another,
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    we can connect in meaningful ways
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    that grow our ability to serve one another,
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    to help share each other's burdens
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    and care for one another.
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    And grace doesn't stop there.
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    It doesn't stop with just changing us.
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    It doesn't just stop with connecting us.
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    It actually compels us to move forward.
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    And whether we choose to acknowledge it or not,
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    we need each other in all kinds of ways.
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    But that's only possible if we extend each other
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    enough grace to actually connect.
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    And I actually have a way that you can connect
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    with real community that I want to talk to you
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    about right over here. Okay.
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    It's a fascinating book that was released a while back
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    called Bowling Alone that talks about
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    the decline in community in the United States
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    and really around the world as a result
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    or in coordination with kind of the technology age.
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    Technology was supposed to help us connect better,
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    but in some ways it's just made our connections shallower.
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    Now, I'm not a psychologist or a sociologist,
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    but as a pastor I talk with lots of people
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    and the vast majority of people that I talk to
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    are looking for better or deeper friendships.
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    They want better connections.
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    They want deeper connections in their life.
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    And man, I relate to that as a guy who's moving to a new city,
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    I feel like I'm starting over in many ways relationally.
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    And it's why I'm doing what I'm doing,
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    which is using groups at Crossroads
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    to help myself connect with people.
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    Now we are kicking off a group season.
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    We have tons of groups all over the place
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    launching in person, online.
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    You can connect with lots of people and, I think,
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    find or create your community,
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    but you're going to have to take a step forward.
  • 00:40:04
    You're going to have to lean in to make it happen.
  • 00:40:07
    Now, I don't know of really any tools out there
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    to help people connect other than dating apps, I hear,
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    but this is a tool that can actually help you
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    make friends and connect with people.
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    Just go to crossroads.net/groups,
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    look around and find your people.
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    So there are tons of things going on around Crossroads,
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    online and in person all over the world.
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    And if you want to check them out,
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    you can do so at crossroads.net.
  • 00:40:31
    But all of that stuff only happens because
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    we have faithful, generous people who give their time
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    and their money to help fund the life change
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    that's happening around Crossroads.
  • 00:40:41
    So if you have questions about what we spend our money on
  • 00:40:45
    or the decisions we make with our finances,
  • 00:40:47
    or you want to join the team of faithful people
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    who makes this stuff possible,
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    you can do all those things at Crossroads.net/give.
  • 00:40:53
    Now back to Grace.
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    Grace compels us. It's meant to push us, to move us forward.
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    Now, if you've ever met a Christian that seemed like
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    they had something stuck up their butt,
  • 00:41:03
    well, they might have.
  • 00:41:04
    That might have actually been the case.
  • 00:41:06
    I think there is a dynamic that is all too common
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    in sort of church today
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    that I just call Christian constipation.
  • 00:41:13
    It's this obsession with getting more information,
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    with more facts, even with more, like, good Bible knowledge,
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    but without ever doing anything with it.
  • 00:41:22
    It's about taking in more stuff, more facts, more knowledge,
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    but it just stays like in us and gets stuck there.
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    It never gets applied.
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    It never gets used to change the world.
  • 00:41:32
    We need grace that moves in us and moves through us
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    to change and, well, to be the hands and feet of Jesus.
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    That is what Scripture describes.
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    So in the same way, it's not good to just eat
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    and eat and eat, but never well, do anything with that.
  • 00:41:50
    It's not good to just go to church and learn
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    and research and gain more information
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    without ever figuring out what it looks like
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    for you to apply that in your own life.
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    There's a really, really old question that
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    when I was a kid, it was What would Jesus do?
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    And there were even these super cool little rubber bracelets.
  • 00:42:08
    But the question really is,
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    what would Jesus do if He were you?
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    What would Jesus do if He was a single mom?
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    What would Jesus do if He was a stay at home dad?
  • 00:42:18
    What would Jesus do if He worked in finance or in the trades
  • 00:42:22
    or was a high school student or was a professor?
  • 00:42:25
    What would Jesus do if He were you?
  • 00:42:28
    That's the question we need to answer
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    if we want to avoid spiritual constipation.
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    We've got to figure out what it looks like
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    for us to apply the things that we've learned
  • 00:42:38
    and to move to be compelled by grace,
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    to find a problem and to solve it.
  • 00:42:43
    There's a passage from Romans 12 that puts it this way:
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    I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God,
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    to present your bodies as a living sacrifice,
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    holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.
  • 00:42:55
    Do not be conformed to this world,
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    but be transformed by the renewal of your mind,
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    that by testing you may discern what is the will of God,
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    what is good and acceptable and perfect.
  • 00:43:06
    And then it goes on to say: Let love be genuine.
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    Abhor what is evil and hold fast to what is good.
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    Love one another with brotherly affection.
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    Outdo one another in showing honor.
  • 00:43:18
    We have a chance to change the world.
  • 00:43:21
    We have a chance to leverage our unique gifts,
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    skills, abilities, talents, context,
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    history to make an impact.
  • 00:43:28
    And we get to be creative.
  • 00:43:30
    We get to start on a process with God to figure out
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    what it looks like for us to take the grace
  • 00:43:35
    that's been given to us and to extend it
  • 00:43:38
    uniquely in our own voice and our own style
  • 00:43:41
    to a world that desperately needs it.
  • 00:43:45
    There was a really smart guy named Charles Spurgeon
  • 00:43:47
    who put it this way:
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    If we give God service, it must be because He gives us grace.
  • 00:43:58
    We're not doing this just out of our own goodness;
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    we're doing it because we've been changed,
  • 00:44:02
    because we've been united and connected
  • 00:44:04
    and because we've been compelled forward to change the world.
  • 00:44:09
    For all the negative pictures that there are, rightly so,
  • 00:44:12
    of people who say they would follow Jesus
  • 00:44:15
    but don't seem doing a very good job of it,
  • 00:44:17
    there are so many pictures of people
  • 00:44:20
    who have been transformed by this grace
  • 00:44:24
    that it made them different people,
  • 00:44:25
    not just better people, but different people,
  • 00:44:27
    that it rooted them in the context of community
  • 00:44:30
    and deep connection and that it compelled them forward
  • 00:44:34
    in powerful, powerful ways.
  • 00:44:37
    That's the story of Romans
  • 00:44:39
    that you and I can receive that kind of grace,
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    that it can take us to a new place,
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    that it can make us new people,
  • 00:44:46
    that it can see us grafted and adopted into family.
  • 00:44:49
    Man, don't those things sound amazing?
  • 00:44:52
    And aren't those things that we need
  • 00:44:53
    and aren't those things that our world needs?
  • 00:44:55
    The kind of grace that Jesus offers never leaves us static.
  • 00:44:59
    It never leaves us the same.
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    It is not interested in the status quo.
  • 00:45:04
    It leaves us changed and it sends us to new places.
  • 00:45:07
    You and I get to be a part of not just receiving that grace,
  • 00:45:11
    but extending that grace to others.
  • 00:45:14
    Now, maybe where we started this whole thing
  • 00:45:16
    is been your reason for not wanting to receive grace.
  • 00:45:19
    Maybe the depictions of Christians
  • 00:45:21
    that you've experienced in your life
  • 00:45:23
    just sort of have you doing this
  • 00:45:24
    and keeping these things at arm's length.
  • 00:45:26
    I get it. I really, really do.
  • 00:45:28
    And you need to know that wasn't God's grace for you.
  • 00:45:34
    God's grace for you is that even with all of your flaws,
  • 00:45:37
    even with all of your brokenness,
  • 00:45:39
    even with all of your imperfections,
  • 00:45:41
    you are perfectly loved, that God wants to save you,
  • 00:45:45
    that He wants to bring you to a new place,
  • 00:45:47
    not just in understanding or in your head knowledge,
  • 00:45:50
    not just in your heart, but to bring your life
  • 00:45:53
    to a new place modeled after how He designed you.
  • 00:45:57
    That's the story of grace for you.
  • 00:45:59
    Tim Keller puts it this way:
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    Man, that's God's grace for you that you are deeply loved
  • 00:46:16
    and He has great things in store for you.
  • 00:46:19
    And if you want to receive God's grace for you,
  • 00:46:22
    hey, I'd love to talk to you about that.
  • 00:46:24
    I'd love to process that with you,
  • 00:46:26
    help you understand what that means.
  • 00:46:28
    You can just email me, Andy.Reider@crossroads.net.
  • 00:46:32
    I'd love to talk to you about that and help you
  • 00:46:34
    experience and understand what God's grace for you looks like.
  • 00:46:38
    And there's an opportunity that we have here.
  • 00:46:41
    So in the same way that the book of Romans
  • 00:46:43
    was really a letter written to encourage
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    and extend grace to a community, you and I have the chance
  • 00:46:50
    to do that every day in certain ways,
  • 00:46:52
    but actually to do that right now,
  • 00:46:54
    to extend grace and encouragement
  • 00:46:56
    to someone who needs it.
  • 00:46:58
    If you click the link below, it'll take you to a form
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    where you can write a note to a person that you care about
  • 00:47:02
    and that you want to see encouraged.
  • 00:47:05
    We'll do the work of getting that sent to them,
  • 00:47:07
    printed, addressed, mailed, and in their hands
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    so that they can experience more of the grace
  • 00:47:13
    that you have for them
  • 00:47:14
    and more of the grace that the Lord has for them.
  • 00:47:16
    So if you would just love for you to pray with me.
  • 00:47:20
    Father, I thank You.
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    I thank You for each person that is a part of this community
  • 00:47:26
    and each person that is getting to watch this right now.
  • 00:47:28
    God, I may not know them personally,
  • 00:47:31
    but I know that You love them deeply
  • 00:47:33
    and that You have so much grace on hand to offer them.
  • 00:47:37
    You have grace for the things that they've done wrong.
  • 00:47:40
    You've got grace for the ways that we have failed.
  • 00:47:43
    And You have grace for just the chaos of our life
  • 00:47:47
    and the strain and stress of just everyday living.
  • 00:47:51
    Father, would You be with us?
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    Would You just be extra near to us, offer Your comfort,
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    offer Your encouragement, offer Your grace to us
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    right where we're at in the ways that we need most. Amen.
  • 00:48:06
    Hey, thank you guys so much for joining us.
  • 00:48:08
    As always, we'd love for you to come back next week.
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    It's actually going to be
  • 00:48:12
    a really special start of a series,
  • 00:48:13
    something we haven't done in a long time
  • 00:48:15
    where we're diving into who we are as a community.
  • 00:48:18
    This is one of the strangest churches
  • 00:48:19
    I've ever experienced in really, really wonderful ways.
  • 00:48:22
    If you ever wondered why we are the way that we are
  • 00:48:25
    or why we do the things that we do,
  • 00:48:27
    this is going to be the perfect time for you
  • 00:48:30
    to understand the vision and the culture
  • 00:48:32
    and the DNA of this place and why we run.
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    Thanks for watching.

Sep 3, 2023 • 48 mins 45 sec

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