The Step Every Follower Must Take

Jesus can do extraordinary things in your life. But, and this is a big but, it requires you wrestling with your own character flaws. Kyle explores tangible ways to relate to Jesus.

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    - Welcome to Crossroads.
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    I'm Andy and I'm so glad you've joined us today.
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    Every week we learn from a book in the Bible,
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    and today we're reading from
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    the book of Mark as a church together.
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    And specifically we're focusing in
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    on the idea of lines and circles.
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    Now, what do lines and circles
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    have to do with Jesus in the Bible?
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    Hey, we'll get there in just a little bit.
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    Right now we're going to spend some time worshiping together.
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    We believe the lyrics that we sing
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    are actual truths about God,
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    and that we can do this wherever you are,
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    whenever you're worshiping.
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    Let's do this together right now.
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    - Here's the story of His love for us.
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    - There's nothing more that I want for you today
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    than to hear the invitation of Jesus.
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    Listen. Listen to the circle
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    that He puts around all of us.
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    His words says this Jesus said,
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    "Who needs a doctor, the healthy or the sick?"
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    I'm here inviting outsiders, not insiders.
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    That's me. Anybody else?
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    An outsider, not an insider?
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    An invitation to a changed life.
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    Changed inside and out.
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    It's because Jesus has changed my life inside and out
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    that I'll sing these next words.
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    They're a response to His invitation
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    and it never grows tired.
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    When I forget it, I need to come back to it
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    and say, "Okay, every time we sing these words,
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    I'll throw my hands up.
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    Every time we sing these words, I'll throw my heart out.
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    And I'll put my voice out there and say,
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    'You're my king because of what You've done.'"
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    My response to Him.
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    - Jesus, I don't -- I don't attempt to--
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    I don't attempt to speak for everyone in this space.
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    But you are my king because You've changed my life,
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    because You've brought hope when there was hopelessness,
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    because You've healed things that were broken,
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    and because You keep inviting me in
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    to more and more life, more peace,
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    more strength, more perseverance.
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    All of it comes from You and I've found that to be true
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    and so You are my king. I praise You, Jesus, above all.
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    I do all this because of You. Amen.
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    So good. So good to be with you today.
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    Hey, that's not just a statement that's just
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    on a screen that many of us in this space just say.
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    I don't throw words around lightly in my life.
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    I don't throw those words around lightly.
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    So my decisions, my choices, my actions,
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    I want all of it to say He's my king.
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    Not perfect, not at all.
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    But that's where I'm aiming my life at.
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    And my wife and I, my family, we do that also with our wallets.
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    So we say, I want my money to be where my heart is
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    and You're my King, so You can have it.
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    We put our money to His work, not ours.
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    And we do that at Crossroads.net/give.
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    And if you're back from Super Bowl,
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    if it's one of the first times you've been in here,
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    great. You're in the right place.
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    Don't worry about that.
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    But if you're saying Jesus is my King,
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    it shows up also at crossroads.net/give. Right?
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    Glad you're here. Why don't you grab a seat,
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    make your way back to your seats.
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    Tell somebody around you, "Man, I'm glad to be here with you."
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    If you're online, glad you're joining us, too.
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    So the money we give fuels things that change
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    this community and changes communities around the world.
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    What you're about to see is a story
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    not of a place that we just give, but a place we go.
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    - Nestled along South Africa's stunning coastline
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    and rolling hills, a less visible
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    but profound struggle unfolds,
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    a battle against poverty and educational disparities.
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    Post-apartheid, deep rooted inequalities
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    have created two drastically different worlds
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    for children inside the country
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    when it comes to access to education
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    and basic necessities.
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    - Amid these challenges,
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    hope shines through groups like Build the Future.
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    - Transforming communities and bringing
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    lasting change to children's lives
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    by helping make their dreams of bright futures accessible.
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    Crossroads partnership with Build the Future
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    ensures funds for education and the aid
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    of thousands of volunteers coming alongside
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    these communities, fighting for the future
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    of South Africa's youth.
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    As South Africa transforms, we stand by these children.
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    Every child deserves a chance to learn,
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    grow, and reach their potential.
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    Investing in their education means investing in
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    a brighter, more inclusive South Africa
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    for generations to come.
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    - For over two decades, God has called Crossroads
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    to go and change the world.
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    When it comes to solving the really big problems
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    of injustice, poverty, and exploitation,
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    people often think that someone else will step in.
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    Well, hey, congrats! Your name is someone else.
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    We believe that the church, and not just Crossroads,
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    but the church everywhere, is God's plan
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    for restoration and healing. That's why we go.
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    And serving others is one of what we call
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    seven proven practices that lead to growth.
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    The work including aiding vulnerable children,
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    at risk communities, and exploited individuals,
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    it's always done in partnership with organizations
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    local to that area that understand
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    how to implement sustainable change.
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    You can check out all of our Go Trips,
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    both global and domestic to the US
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    at crossroads.net/Trips.
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    This really is an invitation
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    to step into an adventure with God,
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    to be a part of changing someone's life,
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    and it might even change your own life.
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    Now, today begins our first week going through the book of Mark.
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    We'll see in Mark that Jesus was really good
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    at drawing lines, or put another way,
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    providing clarity between two different viewpoints.
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    Jesus was all about challenging people
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    to something better, asking them
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    to cross over the lines into His Kingdom.
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    And it's always through an invitation
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    to anyone that's interested.
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    - Some of us see lines as divisive,
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    limiting and restrictive.
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    Others see lines and think, "Sweet.
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    Now we know exactly where to go and what to do."
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    In their purest form, lines provide clarity
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    about the space between two points.
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    What if I told you that
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    Jesus was really good at drawing lines?
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    He was all about challenging people to something better.
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    Jesus constantly challenges people
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    to step over the line, to receive more.
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    When we choose to step over the line Jesus draws,
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    we are stepping into more of His goodness.
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    Circles, on the other hand, they're just lines that curve.
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    A circle shows us
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    where the energy is concentrated in the middle.
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    A circle surrounds and identifies what is valued.
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    Everyone wants to feel valued and known.
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    All throughout history, Jesus has been weaponized
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    or minimized by people who want Him to fit into
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    their circle, club, or the in-crowd.
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    Jesus drew His own circle, and it turns out
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    it was bigger than anyone could have ever expected.
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    Whether you resonate more with lines or circles,
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    Jesus calls you
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    to step into more of His concentrated goodness.
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    Jesus wants all of us to step over the line
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    into His giant circle.
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    - Woo. Thank you, yeah, yeah.
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    Thank you thank you thank you, for everyone at sites.
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    Good morning. Just bringing you into the story.
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    It has not been a good morning for me.
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    Literally woke up and my house was freezing
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    because my furnace is broken.
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    And then on the way into work,
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    the car I've been borrowing
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    died on the side of the highway.
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    So just got here. So glad to be with you.
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    Can't wait to jump into things today.
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    We are starting a new series
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    I've been pumped about for months.
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    It's on the book of Mark looking at the life of Jesus
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    and the way that He taught.
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    And what we're going to look at is
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    how Jesus always did two things together.
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    He always drew lines and He always drew circles.
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    The lines are lines of truth that you have to cross,
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    and the circles are grace to enter into.
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    And I want you to know from the beginning
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    whether you've been following Jesus for decades,
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    or whether you don't yet believe,
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    there is more for you,
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    there is more grace than you can imagine.
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    There is a more abundant life that you can have
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    if you're willing to cross the line of truth.
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    And today, I'm hoping that we take
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    a step across that line together.
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    Let's pray before we go any further.
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    God, thank You.
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    Thank You for repair people who fix furnaces.
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    Thank You for my wife who came
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    and rescued me from the side of the highway.
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    Thank You for everybody who fought through
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    all kinds of difficulty.
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    God, I know, and in this room are people
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    who fought through things much worse than those
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    just to get here to hear Your Word.
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    I pray that you plant it deeply in us.
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    Help us get closer to You today. Amen. Amen.
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    Well, if we haven't met, my name is Kyle.
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    I'm the lead pastor here at Crossroads.
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    I'm also the loser of the Super Bowl of Preaching.
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    So, just so you know, my kids came to Super Bowl
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    and they showed up and they were like,
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    "Dad," you know, first question is like,
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    "Dad, did you win last service?"
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    And I was like, "I did not."
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    And they were so disappointed. You know?
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    I was like, "Ah, kids, you're supposed to be
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    a blessing is what the Bible says.
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    This is not blessing me."
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    I feel like in my life,
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    maybe you have this going on right now.
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    I know a lot of people who are having their first kid,
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    like the first kid is about to get here.
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    And I just find expecting parents, parents to be,
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    they're so cute, aren't they? Right, parents veterans?
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    They're just sweetly naive, you know?
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    They just, they're just funny.
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    They say things that we look at and we laugh about.
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    Now we give them advice, um, we tell them things like,
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    "You know, when you give them a parent
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    you're going to love, you're going to need to grow
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    in things like love and and patience."
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    And that's totally true.
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    But we don't tell them all the truth.
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    And so today I thought we would just do that
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    just in safety of, you know, just just us in here.
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    I'm going to tell you the whole truth.
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    You also have to grow, not just in love and patience,
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    but in other skills like hostage negotiation skills.
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    Those are some things. You can watch some movies,
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    maybe some Liam Neeson movies. I don't know.
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    Uh, and lying.
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    You're going to have to get way better at lying
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    when you have kids, just totally being honest with you.
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    Like the pastors say, "I gotta get better at lying?"
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    Yeah. You do, I absolutely, totally.
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    Here's why. Because what's going to happen is
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    one day that little baby will grow up
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    and they'll discover crayons,
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    and they'll take the crayons
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    and they'll draw pictures on paper.
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    And they'll walk up to you with those pictures,
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    like they're holding the Mona Lisa, so proud.
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    And just go, "Look, dad, and what I drew."
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    And you'll go, "That's great, great."
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    That's the lie part, you're going to have to do it.
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    And then you're going to say, "What is it?"
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    And they're going to say, "Guess."
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    Is it a rabid grizzly bear
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    eating a horse made of spaghetti? Is that?
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    And then they're like, "No, it's mom."
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    Oh, thank you. Right. Good good good good good good.
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    That's where the lies come in.
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    One of my favorite accounts on Instagram
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    is this guy who takes his kids drawings,
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    and he makes him in a life-like images.
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    Um, this is, I don't know what that's supposed to be.
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    It's like a llama situation, not entirely sure.
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    Uh, that's, I believe, a squirrel.
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    That's a kid's squirrel.
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    Again, just this is you can practice the lying part
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    right now, if you like. That's a giraffe.
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    Say, "Great job, kids. Wow." Practice the lying.
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    Super good. That's a bird.
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    I'm not sure exactly what kind.
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    Uh, and then there's the actual Mona Lisa.
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    That's what they do. Terrible, terrible, terrible.
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    Now that's funny, right, kid drawings.
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    They're terrible. You get to lie about it.
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    But it contains this deep truth.
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    See, here's the point.
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    It's possible to look at a picture
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    that someone else has drawn
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    and not see what they intend. Totally possible.
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    See one thing. "Oh, I thought I was looking at X,
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    but it was actually Y." That's entirely possible.
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    And this is what happens with Jesus often, I believe.
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    It's very possible to look at the pictures
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    that He draws of reality and what's meaningful in life
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    and how to follow God, to look at it
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    and to see a different picture than what He intended.
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    Now, if you want to figure out what He said
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    about those things, what we have to go on are His Words.
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    And those words are in the four authorized biographies
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    of His life: Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John.
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    You have to dissect them, understand them.
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    And in there again, you see these pictures
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    that He creates.
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    The key to understanding His style, however,
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    is this: He always, always, always, always
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    draws circles and lines together.
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    Never does one without the other.
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    And in your life, what you have to understand
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    is there won't be a moment where Jesus
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    draws a line in the sand
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    without a circle of invitation on the other side,
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    and there won't be a circle of invitation
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    without a line you have to cross.
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    You can think about the circles and lines
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    as truth and grace, truth and grace.
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    Now, most of us, we tend to default to either
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    truth or grace as kind of our baseline way of acting.
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    Think about yourself.
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    Maybe at work, maybe you're a manager,
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    maybe you're a truth person.
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    And the way it comes out is that you tell
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    your employees exactly what to do
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    and exactly the way you want it,
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    but maybe you forget to encourage them.
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    Okay, on the other side, you might be a grace person.
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    Maybe you manage through grace
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    and you would know this was you because
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    you might have a hard time delivering full truth.
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    You cut the corners.
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    You're afraid to kind of be fully candid.
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    Most of us are one or the other, but Jesus came full of both.
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    It's one of the most unique things about Him.
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    John 1:14 says: And the word, that's Jesus,
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    became flesh and dwelt among us,
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    and we beheld His glory,
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    the glory as of the only begotten Father,
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    full of grace and truth. Both together.
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    Now the idea for this series came because
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    I heard someone say, "Jesus draws circles.
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    Jesus doesn't draw lines.
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    He doesn't. He never draws lines."
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    And I thought, that's not -- that's not true.
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    But I understand why we would think it might be.
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    It's because we increasingly live
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    in a sound bite world, right?
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    Where you read the headline,
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    I don't know when the last time I --
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    This is what I do. I'm telling on myself here.
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    I go to read the article, whether it's on ESPN
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    or BBC or wherever I get news from. Right?
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    I look at the headline and then I read that,
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    and then I jump to the article, first sentence,
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    skip some stuff, middle, skip some stuff,
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    and next article. Right?
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    That's what we do.
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    You watch four seconds of a video.
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    You jump to conclusions without the larger context.
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    This is, all of us, how we live and how we behave.
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    It's an increasingly common thing
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    to have our attention span that's just been eroded.
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    It was just a couple of years ago,
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    social media as one example, a best practice
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    in social media videos was measured in number of minutes.
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    How many minutes do you want your video to be
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    to get people to watch it?
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    And is it seven minutes? Is it ten minutes?
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    And then was it was 2 minutes or 3 minutes?
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    Do you know now the leaders in social media marketing,
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    social media video creation would tell you
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    the ideal length for a social media video on TikTok
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    is between 10 to 15 seconds. That's all you want.
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    You can Google this stuff for yourself.
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    Some of it sounds ridiculous, I promise it's true.
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    The NIH actually has an article published
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    on their website in which they label
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    TikTok Use Disorder, a new condition that people have.
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    It's crazy. Right?
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    So another study where they actually went in
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    and sort of tried to uncover what is this thing
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    that's happening to us.
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    And the study said, it was a study of teenagers
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    who used TikTok, and it was the average TikTok user
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    has an attention span of nine seconds.
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    Now, before you judge that, the average non TikTok user
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    has an average attention span of 12 seconds.
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    Okay, so if you're like, "I don't do TikTok."
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    Well, me neither. I don't have TikTok,
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    but I love me some Instagram Reels, you know what I mean?
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    And some YouTube Reels. It's the same thing.
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    It's the same thing. And the point is,
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    if you want to understand Jesus, you can't take
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    your 21st century American attention span
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    and apply it to the Gospels and think
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    you're going to understand anything about Him.
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    You will literally see a picture
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    He did not intend you to see,
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    because it's not the one that He drew for you.
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    What we have to do is we have to slow down.
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    See, the words of the Bible were written 2000 years ago,
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    before cars or the internet or TikTok
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    or Instagram or anything.
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    We need to slow way down,
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    and that's what we're doing in this series.
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    We're going to slow way down
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    and look at the teachings of Jesus to try to understand
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    who He is and what it is He's calling us to.
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    Now we're going to do that, like I said,
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    in the book of Mark.
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    Good opening question about the book of Mark is:
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    who wrote the book of Mark?
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    Here's a little quiz. I'd like you to take a vote.
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    Who thinks that Doug wrote the book of Mark?
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    Hands for Doug? Okay.
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    Who thinks that John wrote the book of Mark?
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    Hands for John? No? Steve? Okay.
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    Uh, Mark, who votes Mark?
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    I'm seeing lots of Mark hands. Very popular answer.
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    That's incorrect. Mark did not write the book of Mark.
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    Is actually John, not even kidding.
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    It's a guy named John.
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    He does have a second name of Mark,
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    but he's a guy who is not one of the 12 disciples.
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    He shows up later on in the New Testament.
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    He was a friend of both the Apostle Peter and Paul.
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    The first time he shows up and is in Acts 12. It says:
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    If you read Acts 15, it calls him John, who was called Mark.
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    Like somehow that was his nickname.
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    That's not a good nickname. That's real weird. You know?
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    I don't understand it, but that was his nickname.
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    The Bible is full of lots of AKAs.
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    Not the sorority, not the sorority.
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    People with two names is what I mean. Full of lots of them.
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    We're actually going to see two more today,
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    just to warn you, I'm not sure why that is.
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    Very confusing.
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    But this is the guy, he's now known as John Mark.
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    And what historians believe is that the book of Mark
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    is Peter, his friend Peter's first hand accounts
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    told to John Mark, who wrote them all down.
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    And so when you're reading the book of Mark,
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    maybe you've never heard this before.
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    When you're reading the book of Mark,
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    what you're reading is Peter,
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    one of the three closest friends of Jesus's
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    first hand memories and accounts
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    of what it was like to follow Him.
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    What were the words that He said?
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    Now, this is one more important thing about the book of Mark.
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    It's also believed it was
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    the earliest recorded of the four Gospels.
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    And so when we read the words, we're reading
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    the first ever first hand accounts of what Jesus said.
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    Now in the book, the chapter one, he lays it out
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    and he gives the first six words
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    Jesus ever gave as instruction.
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    And that's what we're going to spend all of our time on today.
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    They are these, Mark 1:15: Jesus said,
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    "Repent and believe the good news!"
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    Repent and believe the good news.
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    Now this pattern, these first instructions of Jesus,
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    they're like the spine that runs through
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    every single teaching He ever gives.
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    And if you can see this, if you can unlock it
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    in your mind when you read scripture,
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    when you read Mark or any of the gospels
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    and you read the words of Jesus,
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    you'll start to see the picture click into place.
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    Repent is the line. It's the line of truth.
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    And what it means, it's the the Greek word metanoia.
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    And what it means is to change one's mind.
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    See, what happens is there's a line on the ground,
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    and you walk up to the line believing one thing,
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    and you see a different truth.
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    And what you do is you change your mind
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    and you step across into the new truth.
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    That's what repentance means. Change one's mind.
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    Now the circle is believe the good news,
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    and the good news is euangelion.
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    That's the word in Greek.
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    What it actually means is a reward for good tidings.
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    Not just the good news themselves,
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    but the reward and the other side.
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    And this is kind of how it works together.
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    You cross the line of truth, you change your mind.
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    And on the other side is this circle of good news
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    that you get to step into: more of God's grace,
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    more of God's favor,
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    but you only get it after you cross the line.
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    Now, while in every person's life there is
  • 00:36:52
    a first time you change your mind,
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    a first repentance and belief of the good news.
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    It's not a one time thing, not at all.
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    You see, what God's always doing is drawing more,
  • 00:37:04
    your whole life, He'll draw a line
  • 00:37:06
    and He'll invite you into a circle.
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    And you'll have a choice to make.
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    And as soon as you cross that line
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    and step into the more of that circle of God's grace,
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    there'll be another line that He'll invite
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    you to cross and another circle.
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    This is the path you take if you want to have
  • 00:37:19
    what Jesus describes as the abundant life,
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    it's the only path He draws.
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    Take Peter's own calling as an example.
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    Now this is another -- Peter is another AKA.
  • 00:37:29
    This is Peter aka Simon. Again, two first names, strange.
  • 00:37:34
    Here we go, Mark 1:16: As He, that's Jesus,
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    walked by the Sea of Galilee, He saw Simon
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    and Andrew his brother casting a net into the sea;
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    for they were fishermen.
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    Then Jesus said to them, "Follow Me," line,
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    "and I will make you become fishers of men." Circle.
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    They immediately left their nets and followed Him.
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    Now the line is follow Me. Why?
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    Well, because up to this point in their lives,
  • 00:37:58
    they have been following them. They've been self led.
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    They had been believing that they were the best ones
  • 00:38:05
    to to lead their own lives.
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    They walk to this line and Jesus says, "Follow Me,"
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    and they have to confront the truth of
  • 00:38:11
    "Maybe I'm not the best one to lead my life.
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    Maybe it's Jesus." And they do.
  • 00:38:16
    And they step across that line, and they follow Him.
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    Now on the other side of the line is the circle,
  • 00:38:22
    "I'll make you fishers of men."
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    Up to this point they were just normal fishermen
  • 00:38:25
    with a normal boat and a normal revenue
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    and normal everything.
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    And Jesus says, "I'm going to make you more
  • 00:38:32
    than you can possibly imagine. I'll make you leaders.
  • 00:38:36
    I'll make you people that are remembered,
  • 00:38:38
    literally, thousands of years later."
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    He invites them into this amazing, amazing circle,
  • 00:38:41
    but they don't get it unless they cross the line.
  • 00:38:44
    Now, interestingly, this is kind of
  • 00:38:46
    how Jesus always tends to call people.
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    There's a follow Me moment that
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    they have to choose to step across or not.
  • 00:38:52
    We're going to read about Levi, aka Matthew.
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    That's our other person with two names today
  • 00:38:57
    in just a minute, and you'll see the same exact line drawn.
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    Now, what we don't know is how many people
  • 00:39:02
    Jesus said this to, for sure the 12 disciples,
  • 00:39:06
    but it's possible He said this to hundreds of people,
  • 00:39:09
    and they walked up to the line and they went like this.
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    "Uh, no thanks. Oh, I don't know if I can quite --
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    I don't know if I can quite do that."
  • 00:39:17
    See, everybody who crosses the line
  • 00:39:19
    stepped into more and more.
  • 00:39:23
    And here's the story of the calling of of Levi.
  • 00:39:26
    We'll look at this for the rest of our time together.
  • 00:39:28
    It Begins in Mark 2:13, it says:
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    Once again Jesus went outside beside the lake.
  • 00:39:33
    A large crowd came to Him, and He began to teach them.
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    As He walked along, He saw Levi son of Alphaeus
  • 00:39:39
    sitting at the tax collector's booth.
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    "Follow Me," Jesus told him,
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    and Levi got up and followed Him.
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    Again, he had the choice to make and he crosses the line.
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    Now the amazing part is after he crosses the line,
  • 00:39:51
    Jesus goes back to his house and He's like,
  • 00:39:53
    "All right, let's go hang out."
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    And it says this in Mark 2:15:
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    While Jesus was having dinner at Levi's house,
  • 00:39:59
    many tax collectors and sinners were eating
  • 00:40:01
    with Him and His disciples,
  • 00:40:02
    for there were many who followed Him.
  • 00:40:05
    Jesus basically goes like, "Hey, that's awesome,
  • 00:40:07
    you follow Me, I'm going to go to your house
  • 00:40:09
    and we're just going to have a giant party here."
  • 00:40:12
    Spread the tablecloth out and just have a good time.
  • 00:40:15
    Now at this table, if you've heard of this before,
  • 00:40:18
    Jesus is eating with tax collectors and sinners.
  • 00:40:21
    What does does that mean?
  • 00:40:22
    Well, these are people who Jesus,
  • 00:40:24
    as a rabbi, was not supposed to be around.
  • 00:40:27
    They were the people who were kind of
  • 00:40:29
    outside of the circle of acceptance.
  • 00:40:32
    But Jesus walks up and He meets with them anyway.
  • 00:40:35
    And this is the kind of circle
  • 00:40:36
    that we aspire to be at Crossroads.
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    You hear us say, a lot of times, you know,
  • 00:40:40
    no matter who you are, what you believe, you're welcome here.
  • 00:40:43
    And we really mean that, totally mean that.
  • 00:40:46
    We want to be just like Jesus to go, "Hey,
  • 00:40:48
    whoever wants to hang out, whoever wants to be around,
  • 00:40:51
    man, get around the table.
  • 00:40:52
    We'd love to be friends with you.
  • 00:40:53
    Love to hang out with you. Love it, love it, love it."
  • 00:40:56
    In fact, we're so much this way that
  • 00:40:58
    it freaks out a lot of other churches,
  • 00:40:59
    freaks out a lot other Christians.
  • 00:41:01
    They see us doing things that they just don't understand:
  • 00:41:03
    Super Bowl of Preaching, our mission trips.
  • 00:41:05
    You heard about Go Trips earlier.
  • 00:41:07
    You know, for other churches, just about every other
  • 00:41:10
    one I've ever seen, ever heard of, you have to be
  • 00:41:12
    a believer in Jesus, in many cases, have to be baptized
  • 00:41:16
    in order to go on a go trip or on a mission trip.
  • 00:41:19
    And at Crossroads we went, "Hey, you're welcome to go.
  • 00:41:22
    Our motivation as a believer is to go
  • 00:41:25
    and to follow Jesus's command to love people.
  • 00:41:28
    I don't know why you're going,
  • 00:41:30
    could be for a different reason, but man, you're welcome.
  • 00:41:32
    You're welcome to be at the table. You're welcome to."
  • 00:41:35
    And I just want to say, if this is you right now,
  • 00:41:37
    that's awesome. So pumped that you're with us.
  • 00:41:39
    You don't have to believe anything to belong here.
  • 00:41:42
    We just love that you're here and and and
  • 00:41:46
    there is and will be a line of faith
  • 00:41:48
    on the sand in front of you.
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    And there will be more that you will not experience
  • 00:41:53
    until you cross that line.
  • 00:41:55
    It's possible to come here and sit in this seat
  • 00:41:57
    and listen for years and years and years
  • 00:41:59
    and never cross that line.
  • 00:42:01
    My hope and my prayer is that you do
  • 00:42:03
    so that you experience the more,
  • 00:42:05
    the goodness of God that's on the other side.
  • 00:42:08
    Because, see, when you cross the line into faith,
  • 00:42:10
    you join the family of God and you always, always,
  • 00:42:13
    always have a seat at His table.
  • 00:42:15
    Once you cross that line, there's no going backwards.
  • 00:42:17
    You always have a seat at His table.
  • 00:42:19
    The circle of grace is always for you.
  • 00:42:21
    You don't have to maintain your membership,
  • 00:42:23
    which is what makes God's circles different
  • 00:42:25
    than the world circles.
  • 00:42:26
    Because, see, the world also draws circles
  • 00:42:28
    and the world also draws lines.
  • 00:42:31
    But in the world's circles,
  • 00:42:32
    you must maintain membership.
  • 00:42:34
    Sometimes it's literally paying your dues.
  • 00:42:36
    Sometimes it's doing all the right things,
  • 00:42:38
    continuing to vote the right way,
  • 00:42:40
    believe the right things, all of that,
  • 00:42:41
    you have to maintain your membership.
  • 00:42:43
    But at God's circle, you never, ever have to maintain it.
  • 00:42:47
    You don't lose your seat at the table,
  • 00:42:49
    and it's because God the Father's grace
  • 00:42:52
    is very different than earthly father's grace.
  • 00:42:56
    Which brings me back to new parents.
  • 00:42:57
    Got to talk about this for a minute.
  • 00:42:59
    Um. New parents, I know you thought I was done with you.
  • 00:43:01
    I'm not, I'm not. You're just you're so, so cute.
  • 00:43:04
    One of the things I hear new parents say is,
  • 00:43:07
    "My kids will never have screens."
  • 00:43:09
    And I hear them whispering this
  • 00:43:11
    when I'm at a restaurant and my kids are being crazy,
  • 00:43:13
    and I hand them my phone and I see
  • 00:43:15
    these little judgmental looks from the side like,
  • 00:43:17
    "Oh my gosh, that'll never do that, ever, right?"
  • 00:43:20
    Here's the thing you don't yet understand:
  • 00:43:23
    Screens aren't screens. They are free babysitters.
  • 00:43:27
    That's what they are.
  • 00:43:29
    And just like wine calms you down,
  • 00:43:32
    screens calm kids down.
  • 00:43:33
    Only if you give them wine, you get arrested.
  • 00:43:36
    So give them screens, it'll go so much better for you.
  • 00:43:40
    I also hear new parents talking about bedtime routines.
  • 00:43:44
    You know? They say things like I've never heard this before.
  • 00:43:46
    Kids thrive on routine. Oh, I didn't know that.
  • 00:43:48
    "And so we're going to have a routine.
  • 00:43:50
    Great routine. We're going to every bedtime.
  • 00:43:53
    We're going to light a candle.
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    We're going to play Baby Einstein music
  • 00:43:58
    so our kid will be smarter by osmosis because that's a thing.
  • 00:44:01
    And then we'll have a nice little thing."
  • 00:44:03
    They envisioned like the Von Trapp family like this,
  • 00:44:05
    you know, just kind of going off to bed. Just a beautiful --
  • 00:44:07
    [singing] So long, farewell, Auf Wiedersehen, good night.
  • 00:44:11
    - I hate to go and leave this pretty sight.
  • 00:44:17
    - That's what they think, that's what they think. No.
  • 00:44:20
    You know want to know what it's actually like at bedtime?
  • 00:44:23
    It looks like this.
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    [Music: Disturbed - Down with the Sickness]
  • 00:44:28
    Just getting in there. Just grabbing him.
  • 00:44:30
    Just get him to the ground. Get him there. Right?
  • 00:44:33
    That's bad time. Whew.
  • 00:44:39
    That's what I play every night to psych myself up for bedtime.
  • 00:44:42
    Just kind of get ready for it, bedtime's like that.
  • 00:44:46
    For my kids, I've been a parent for 13 years, okay?
  • 00:44:49
    And every bedtime, it's like they have this.
  • 00:44:52
    They're like, "Dad, it's our first time, man.
  • 00:44:53
    Don't freak out if we don't do it perfect.
  • 00:44:56
    Because it's like, it's like our first time, you know?"
  • 00:44:59
    And to be fair, I do change the rules all the time.
  • 00:45:02
    And by all the time, I mean never.
  • 00:45:03
    And to be fair, I mean, are you freaking kidding me? Never.
  • 00:45:06
    The rules of the Ranson house for bedtime are as follows.
  • 00:45:09
    Rule 1: go upstairs.
  • 00:45:13
    Rule 2: Stay there.
  • 00:45:16
    Rule 3: Do not come out unless you have to pee
  • 00:45:19
    or you have an emergency.
  • 00:45:22
    Now, emergencies are not things like
  • 00:45:24
    I have an urgent question about koala bears.
  • 00:45:27
    That can wait till the morning.
  • 00:45:29
    Emergencies require you to be actively and profusely bleeding.
  • 00:45:33
    If that's the case, come out of your room.
  • 00:45:35
    Otherwise, see rule 1 and 2: Go upstairs and stay there.
  • 00:45:38
    That's what we do. After 13 years,
  • 00:45:40
    I've had enough of this crap, right?
  • 00:45:41
    That's kind of how I feel every night.
  • 00:45:43
    Literally last night, this is exactly how I felt.
  • 00:45:45
    I was like, "Are you freaking kidding me?
  • 00:45:46
    Why are you -- why are you here?
  • 00:45:47
    Why are you still here? This is my time off. Go away."
  • 00:45:51
    You know that's how you feel, 13 years you're worn out.
  • 00:45:54
    Now why? Why is that?
  • 00:45:56
    It's because human mercy is kind of like a pie.
  • 00:46:01
    Beautiful, delicious pie. Let's call it apple. Right?
  • 00:46:06
    And what happens is, every day,
  • 00:46:08
    those little monsters in your house,
  • 00:46:09
    they require some of your mercy.
  • 00:46:11
    And so you get the pie out. You cut out a piece.
  • 00:46:14
    You put it on a plate, and you give it to them.
  • 00:46:17
    And then you put the pie back.
  • 00:46:19
    And the next day they come out.
  • 00:46:20
    They don't know the bedtime rules again somehow.
  • 00:46:22
    You get the pie back out. You put more on a plate.
  • 00:46:24
    You give it to them.
  • 00:46:26
    And eventually what happens is
  • 00:46:27
    you just sort of run out of pie.
  • 00:46:30
    And there's a day where you pull it out
  • 00:46:33
    and it's sticky glue goop --
  • 00:46:35
    What am I'm trying to say? Sticky goo and crumbs.
  • 00:46:38
    That's it. There's nothing left. This is human mercy.
  • 00:46:42
    But see, God's mercy, His circle of grace
  • 00:46:45
    is different than our circle.
  • 00:46:47
    God's is more like this. G
  • 00:46:49
    od's is like He gets it out, and you need some mercy.
  • 00:46:53
    You screw up, you do things,
  • 00:46:54
    you yell at your kids for bed time, as an example.
  • 00:46:57
    God gives you a piece, gives you the mercy for the day.
  • 00:47:00
    He puts the pie back and then the next day,
  • 00:47:03
    guess what happens? Pie's whole. It's whole.
  • 00:47:08
    This is the mercy of God.
  • 00:47:10
    It actually says this in Lamentations 3:22. It says:
  • 00:47:25
    Every morning.
  • 00:47:26
    So, if you're in here and you've ever felt like,
  • 00:47:29
    "Man, God must be about to give up on me.
  • 00:47:31
    I've been a believer for a while
  • 00:47:34
    and I've just screwed up again and again.
  • 00:47:36
    I can't kick that habit. I can't kick that thought.
  • 00:47:38
    I can't do whatever. Surely God's mercy will run out."
  • 00:47:40
    No, no, no, day after day He's going to pull out
  • 00:47:43
    a brand new fresh baked pie of mercy for you.
  • 00:47:46
    That's the gospel. That's the circle.
  • 00:47:49
    Now, that word, which translates mercies,
  • 00:47:53
    in this case, his steadfast love and mercies,
  • 00:47:56
    that word is not actually mercies.
  • 00:48:00
    You want to know what it is?
  • 00:48:02
    It's the word womb. That's interesting.
  • 00:48:05
    Think about this, the picture that He's drawing,
  • 00:48:09
    the picture God's drawing is to say,
  • 00:48:11
    "My love, My mercy, My grace fully encircles you
  • 00:48:17
    like a womb of care. It will never, ever, ever --
  • 00:48:21
    You can't possibly, possibly be abandoned."
  • 00:48:24
    That's what God says His love is like.
  • 00:48:26
    And again, I just think about that,
  • 00:48:27
    that's good news for me today.
  • 00:48:29
    Yelled at my kids again last night for bedtime.
  • 00:48:31
    Really did, not kidding.
  • 00:48:33
    Like God, I just need Your mercy again today.
  • 00:48:36
    Again today could You use me?
  • 00:48:37
    Again today could You forgive me?
  • 00:48:39
    Again today could You give me mercy?
  • 00:48:40
    And every single morning God says yes.
  • 00:48:43
    See, the circle is better than you can imagine.
  • 00:48:46
    I don't know how much of God's grace
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    you've experienced at this point in your life.
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    I promise you, for every single one of us in this room,
  • 00:48:52
    every single one of us listening, there is more.
  • 00:48:56
    However, we won't get it unless
  • 00:48:59
    we cross the line of truth in front of us. We never will.
  • 00:49:02
    Now, at that dinner where they're eating at the table
  • 00:49:05
    and tax collectors and sinners are there,
  • 00:49:07
    the Pharisees show up.
  • 00:49:08
    These are the self-righteous religious people.
  • 00:49:10
    They show up and they're not happy with Jesus.
  • 00:49:12
    They're like, "You cannot eat with these people.
  • 00:49:15
    That's not okay."
  • 00:49:16
    And they start giving Him all this grief.
  • 00:49:18
    And this is Jesus's response to them, Mark 2:17:
  • 00:49:21
    On hearing this, Jesus said to them,
  • 00:49:23
    "It's not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.
  • 00:49:27
    I haven't come to call the righteous, but sinners.
  • 00:49:31
    See, there's a line He draws.
  • 00:49:33
    He goes, "If you want the doctor's help,
  • 00:49:35
    there's a line of truth you have to cross called "I'm sick."
  • 00:49:39
    And if you're not willing to cross that line,
  • 00:49:41
    you won't get the help on the other side.
  • 00:49:43
    Similarly with God, if you want the grace,
  • 00:49:47
    there's a line you have to cross called "I'm a Sinner."
  • 00:49:50
    And if you're not willing to cross that line,
  • 00:49:52
    you don't get to experience His grace.
  • 00:49:54
    There is no grace without truth.
  • 00:49:57
    Thankfully, there is no truth
  • 00:49:58
    that doesn't result in receiving more grace.
  • 00:50:01
    But this is the line.
  • 00:50:02
    Now again I said, the world draws circles, world draws line.
  • 00:50:06
    World circles are different.
  • 00:50:07
    Well, the world's lines are also different.
  • 00:50:09
    See, the world draws lines
  • 00:50:11
    that only some people can can cross.
  • 00:50:14
    They're always exclusionary lines.
  • 00:50:16
    You got to have the right test score, t
  • 00:50:18
    he right pedigree, the right skin color,
  • 00:50:20
    the right voting record, the right something.
  • 00:50:22
    And it's not a line that everybody can cross.
  • 00:50:25
    Literally, they draw lines.
  • 00:50:26
    You know, reading through history
  • 00:50:28
    the last couple of years and just learning more,
  • 00:50:30
    I learned about something called redlining.
  • 00:50:31
    I don't know if you've heard of this or not.
  • 00:50:33
    It's a thing. You can go look it up.
  • 00:50:35
    1935 The Federal Home Loan Association
  • 00:50:40
    commissioned a study of 239 US cities
  • 00:50:43
    in which they wanted every single neighborhood
  • 00:50:46
    outlined and ranked in one of four categories.
  • 00:50:50
    Basically trying to decide, you know, how risky is it
  • 00:50:53
    to give a loan to the people who live in this area?
  • 00:50:55
    The first was green, then blue, then yellow, then red.
  • 00:50:59
    And if you were in a red outlined neighborhood,
  • 00:51:01
    you could not get a loan.
  • 00:51:03
    Do you know that there were only six
  • 00:51:05
    majority African American neighborhoods
  • 00:51:07
    in the entire United States that were not outlined in red?
  • 00:51:11
    And you might hear that and go, "That's impossible.
  • 00:51:13
    That really happened?" Yeah, it really happened.
  • 00:51:15
    You can look it up. It shouldn't be shocking.
  • 00:51:18
    This is how the world always draws lines,
  • 00:51:20
    always to exclude people. Always.
  • 00:51:23
    But Jesus draws different kinds of lines.
  • 00:51:25
    The lines that Jesus draws
  • 00:51:27
    are the lines that anyone can cross.
  • 00:51:30
    Whether you're a slave or a king, you can --
  • 00:51:32
    We can all cross the line and the cost is exactly the same,
  • 00:51:37
    it's believing that He is who He said He is,
  • 00:51:39
    and that we are not the leaders of our lives,
  • 00:51:42
    and that we are the sick in need of the doctor,
  • 00:51:45
    and that we are the sinner in need of grace.
  • 00:51:48
    If you walk up to that line, anybody and everybody
  • 00:51:51
    can step right across it, right across it,
  • 00:51:55
    to repent and believe the good news,
  • 00:51:58
    to face the truth and to cross the line.
  • 00:52:01
    And one of the other problems that we have
  • 00:52:03
    that I see in our modern culture is that
  • 00:52:05
    we have a truth avoidance culture.
  • 00:52:07
    We don't like to tell the truth.
  • 00:52:08
    We don't like to look at the truth.
  • 00:52:10
    We won't stay long enough to find the truth.
  • 00:52:12
    We won't dig hard enough to find the truth.
  • 00:52:13
    But if you can't get to the truth,
  • 00:52:16
    you will be held back your entire life.
  • 00:52:19
    You will never, ever experience freedom.
  • 00:52:21
    You'll never experience growth.
  • 00:52:23
    Step out of the spiritual side for a second.
  • 00:52:26
    Let's talk about the business side of things for a minute.
  • 00:52:28
    One of the world's greatest entrepreneurs
  • 00:52:30
    in history is Jeff Bezos, and he writes
  • 00:52:33
    these amazing shareholder letters every single year
  • 00:52:36
    as the chairman of Amazon.
  • 00:52:38
    He puts these little nuggets of truth in there.
  • 00:52:40
    And one, a few years ago, he wrote about
  • 00:52:42
    a friend of his who was trying to do a handstand.
  • 00:52:45
    Anybody in here do a handstand as an adult?
  • 00:52:48
    That would be amazing if you can.
  • 00:52:49
    I'd like you to demonstrate later.
  • 00:52:51
    That'd be actually amazing. Harder than you think.
  • 00:52:53
    This friend wanted to do a handstand
  • 00:52:55
    and actually hired a handstand coach to do it.
  • 00:52:58
    Don't know if you knew that was a thing,
  • 00:53:00
    but there are handstand coaches, so if you want one,
  • 00:53:02
    look that up on the internet. Congratulations.
  • 00:53:04
    This is what the coach said:
  • 00:53:36
    See now, long before Jeff Bezos,
  • 00:53:38
    when Jesus came on the scene,
  • 00:53:39
    Jesus had the same view of facing the truth.
  • 00:53:42
    It's absolutely essential. Absolutely.
  • 00:53:46
    I want you to think about in your life,
  • 00:53:47
    there's probably a line of truth that God's drawn for you,
  • 00:53:50
    somewhere, somewhere in your life
  • 00:53:52
    that you're unwilling to cross.
  • 00:53:54
    And the reason is because it's uncomfortable.
  • 00:53:56
    The truth is almost always uncomfortable to face.
  • 00:54:00
    Maybe it's a line about, you know about God's standards
  • 00:54:03
    for your body, God's standards for sex.
  • 00:54:05
    But you just, "Yeah, just I don't quite want to."
  • 00:54:08
    Maybe it's about giving, "I know -- I don't want to."
  • 00:54:10
    Maybe it's about forgiveness
  • 00:54:11
    or letting go of bitterness. "Ugh."
  • 00:54:13
    You can't cross the line. It's uncomfortable to face.
  • 00:54:15
    And because of that, it holds us back.
  • 00:54:19
    We're missing the point of the truth.
  • 00:54:21
    I think it's easy to see the goodness of the circle,
  • 00:54:23
    right? It's like, "Oh, yeah, God's fresh baked mercy.
  • 00:54:26
    Yeah, come on, let's get some of that mercy."
  • 00:54:28
    But do you know that there's a gospel,
  • 00:54:30
    there's a good news about the line.
  • 00:54:32
    Jesus says this in John 8:31: If you abide in My Word,
  • 00:54:37
    you're truly My disciples, and you will know the truth,
  • 00:54:42
    and the truth will set you free.
  • 00:54:44
    See, there's a place in your life where you're bound up.
  • 00:54:47
    You're in bondage.
  • 00:54:48
    And it's not grace that sets you free.
  • 00:54:51
    It's the truth that sets you free. Why?
  • 00:54:54
    Well, because what we're bound by are lies,
  • 00:54:57
    beliefs that we have that are attached to us
  • 00:55:00
    that we think we cannot escape.
  • 00:55:02
    And it's because of what Jesus says
  • 00:55:03
    a few verses later after he says the truth sets you free,
  • 00:55:06
    He says, "You have a father and he's a father of lies,
  • 00:55:10
    and he's coming after you," coming after you.
  • 00:55:13
    Now, as we've been talking about truth,
  • 00:55:16
    we've been talking about the truth of God,
  • 00:55:18
    that's the Word of God, the Word of God.
  • 00:55:20
    And it is a line. Truth is a line, but it's not a dull one.
  • 00:55:24
    It's actually a very, very sharp line.
  • 00:55:27
    Listen to what it says in Hebrews 4:12:
  • 00:55:38
    See, we're bound by these lies that we believe.
  • 00:55:40
    There are things like, I could never, ever get over my past.
  • 00:55:45
    Things like I could never be forgiven
  • 00:55:47
    or I'll always be alone or,
  • 00:55:50
    no, I'll never be good enough.
  • 00:55:52
    All of these lies, they just follow us around
  • 00:55:54
    and we're stuck with them.
  • 00:55:55
    But these lines, when they meet the line of truth,
  • 00:55:58
    something incredible happens to them.
  • 00:56:00
    Psalm says that as far as the East is from the West,
  • 00:56:04
    so far has He removed our transgressions from us.
  • 00:56:07
    See, when you walk up to the line, it turns out
  • 00:56:09
    that the line is something like a conveyor belt.
  • 00:56:13
    And when those lies meet the line,
  • 00:56:16
    they just go away forever.
  • 00:56:20
    And you walk across it free.
  • 00:56:22
    You step across it into grace and the lies are just gone.
  • 00:56:27
    This is the promise of the line.
  • 00:56:30
    Where in your life do you
  • 00:56:32
    not want to face the truth about you?
  • 00:56:34
    Wherever that is, you're going to stay stuck.
  • 00:56:36
    That stuff will stay there.
  • 00:56:37
    But when you cross the line, it'll all go away
  • 00:56:41
    and it'll disappear and you'll find freedom.
  • 00:56:44
    See, the line is a gift.
  • 00:56:45
    I think this is the thing that we don't understand.
  • 00:56:47
    The line is a complete and total gift.
  • 00:56:53
    It takes the baggage away you never could.
  • 00:57:00
    I became Lead Pastor, I think it's been about 6 weeks,
  • 00:57:02
    something like that.
  • 00:57:04
    First time it was public was actually at a staff training.
  • 00:57:07
    We do a staff training with our staff
  • 00:57:09
    every other Wednesday, we announce it to them.
  • 00:57:11
    And as soon as it was announced,
  • 00:57:12
    that's basically when it became public.
  • 00:57:14
    I started functioning as Lead Pastor.
  • 00:57:17
    That matters because of what happened
  • 00:57:18
    the day before and on that morning.
  • 00:57:21
    The day before I had a meeting, and it was one of those
  • 00:57:23
    where I think I had an hour scheduled
  • 00:57:25
    and I was running behind, and things happened
  • 00:57:27
    and there were some fires that put out.
  • 00:57:28
    And so I go into the meeting with only 15 minutes.
  • 00:57:30
    It's a meeting with Justin and Robbie,
  • 00:57:32
    who run Crossroads Music and Worship.
  • 00:57:34
    And we had some things we wanted to discuss.
  • 00:57:35
    And because we were short on time,
  • 00:57:37
    I just jumped straight into the things
  • 00:57:39
    that I didn't like and what I wanted to see change
  • 00:57:41
    and just, you know, just for efficiency,
  • 00:57:43
    just bam, bam, bam, just going to hammer through some stuff.
  • 00:57:45
    And then I left.
  • 00:57:46
    The next morning I show up
  • 00:57:47
    and we're at staff training, and we always start
  • 00:57:49
    with 30 minutes of worship together,
  • 00:57:51
    which is absolutely amazing.
  • 00:57:52
    And I'm sitting there in my seat, I'm worshiping,
  • 00:57:54
    and I'm watching Justin and Robbie and the team
  • 00:57:57
    that they lead just do an incredible job
  • 00:57:59
    blessing me and our whole staff and leading us in worship.
  • 00:58:02
    And not just a good job like performing well
  • 00:58:04
    or singing well, they were definitely doing that,
  • 00:58:06
    but just in their genuineness of worship.
  • 00:58:08
    And in that moment, I just felt this convicting truth
  • 00:58:11
    of I had been a bad leader.
  • 00:58:14
    I had not done what I needed to do.
  • 00:58:16
    And to be clear, there are some times
  • 00:58:17
    you just need to say something. There are.
  • 00:58:19
    There are certainly times you just start out
  • 00:58:21
    and you know, just say what you think.
  • 00:58:23
    But in this moment, the conviction I felt from God was,
  • 00:58:25
    "Hey, that wasn't what I wanted you to do.
  • 00:58:27
    You need to apologize."
  • 00:58:29
    And so I texted them and I said, "Hey, guys,
  • 00:58:31
    I need to meet with you as soon as this is over,
  • 00:58:33
    uh, down front, I got to say something to you."
  • 00:58:36
    And they met with me, and I apologized.
  • 00:58:38
    I said, "Hey, I need to repent.
  • 00:58:40
    That was not great of me.
  • 00:58:42
    I should have started this way.
  • 00:58:43
    I should have said, 'Hey, thank you
  • 00:58:45
    for the amazing work that you do.
  • 00:58:47
    Thank you for the incredible worship culture
  • 00:58:48
    that you've created at Crossroads.
  • 00:58:50
    Thank you for the amazing songs that you've written
  • 00:58:52
    that have blessed me and my family,
  • 00:58:53
    God of the Breakthrough and Always Moving
  • 00:58:55
    and all these great songs. Thank you, thank you.'
  • 00:58:57
    That's how I should have started.
  • 00:58:58
    They were so kind. They were so generous.
  • 00:59:00
    They say, "Hey, man, don't worry about it.
  • 00:59:02
    All good. All forgiven." I say, "Okay, great. Thanks."
  • 00:59:05
    Then I went back up to my desk and I'm sitting there.
  • 00:59:07
    It's probably about an hour later, it hit me.
  • 00:59:11
    I was like, "Oh, man, that was my first moment
  • 00:59:14
    being lead pastor and the first thing I did
  • 00:59:17
    is screw up and have to apologize.
  • 00:59:20
    That's not a great sign. You know?
  • 00:59:23
    This might not go well."
  • 00:59:24
    I was like, "Crap, it just -- dang it."
  • 00:59:26
    I was already off to a bad start.
  • 00:59:29
    And then it hit me, "Repent and believe the good news."
  • 00:59:34
    Then I felt God say to me, "Kyle, guess what
  • 00:59:36
    My call to you yesterday was?
  • 00:59:39
    Repent and believe the good news.
  • 00:59:40
    Guess what My call today to you is?
  • 00:59:42
    Repent and believe the good news.
  • 00:59:44
    Guess what My call to you tomorrow will be?
  • 00:59:46
    Repent and believe the good news. Did you repent?" I did.
  • 00:59:51
    "Do you believe the good news that you're forgiven?"
  • 00:59:53
    I do. "Great job."
  • 00:59:56
    And I went, "Okay, maybe there's
  • 00:59:57
    nothing more important, nothing better that could
  • 01:00:00
    forever be the first thing I ever Lead Pastor then repent,
  • 01:00:03
    because it's the call on my life
  • 01:00:05
    and it's the call on yours.
  • 01:00:07
    If you want, if you want to experience
  • 01:00:10
    the abundant life that God has for you,
  • 01:00:12
    you have to live the repent and believe life
  • 01:00:15
    day after day after day after day.
  • 01:00:17
    And you'll walk up to the line and at some point
  • 01:00:19
    you have to recondition yourself to go,
  • 01:00:21
    "This sword, this line is not to poke me.
  • 01:00:25
    It's not to put me down.
  • 01:00:27
    It's not to put me in my place.
  • 01:00:28
    It's to create freedom for me so I can step into
  • 01:00:31
    the life and be the person that God has called me to be."
  • 01:00:34
    Repent and believe.
  • 01:00:36
    Where, where, where in your life is God calling you to that?
  • 01:00:42
    Repents and believe.
  • 01:00:43
    There's a circle and there's a line.
  • 01:00:46
    My prayer for you is you have the courage to cross the line,
  • 01:00:50
    that you get to experience the circle of grace
  • 01:00:52
    on the other side. Let me pray for you.
  • 01:00:53
    God, thank You for everyone here.
  • 01:00:55
    Thank You for the invitation You give us.
  • 01:00:57
    Thank You, Lord, that there is a grace on the other side.
  • 01:01:00
    You could have just made a line.
  • 01:01:01
    You could have just had a line of truth,
  • 01:01:03
    "You're sinners and you're sick,
  • 01:01:05
    and I just want you to see it and that's it."
  • 01:01:08
    But You didn't stop there.
  • 01:01:09
    You created a circle of grace for us to step into.
  • 01:01:12
    God, I'm praying for each one of us that
  • 01:01:13
    if we're in here today and we need mercy,
  • 01:01:15
    that we'd receive mercy.
  • 01:01:17
    If we're in here today and we need to face that truth,
  • 01:01:19
    that we'd face it, You'd give us the courage to cross
  • 01:01:21
    so we can see and experience more of You. Amen.
  • 01:01:25
    Thanks for being here.
  • 01:01:28
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  • 01:01:29
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  • 01:02:07
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