How God Can Use You To Impact Others

Alli Patterson explores how with the help of the Holy Spirit, God can use your life to have a profound impact on those around you.

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    Well, hey, welcome to Crossroads.
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    My name is Andy Ryder. I'm one of your pastors here,
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    and I help lead Crossroads anywhere.
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    That's serving our community of people online
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    and all over the country and the world
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    who are running after Jesus together.
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    Now, those seven practices are things
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    that followers of Jesus have done
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    for thousands of years that lead to growth.
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    And there's a whole Internet full of stuff
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    that you could be watching right now
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    and a whole world of stuff you could be doing,
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    but you chose to be here.
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    Hey, well done.
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    And that you're here and not watching, like,
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    random stuff on the internet tells me something about you.
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    It tells me that you want something more,
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    something bigger, something better than
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    just more scrolling, that you want to grow.
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    And I think that's exactly what can happen today.
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    Quick side note, a little bit later,
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    we're going to be taking communion.
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    If you're already following Jesus,
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    grab something to eat and drink and just set it aside.
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    I'll talk us through that when we get there.
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    Right now, we're going to take some time to connect with God.
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    This music isn't a live concert that you watch.
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    It's a conversation with God
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    that you get to be a part of.
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    So whatever's going on in your life,
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    whether it's good or bad, whether it's easy or hard,
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    I want you to bring that to mind as we sing this song
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    about a God who makes up for lost time.
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    - Sing this together.
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    That's what He does.
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    - Come on and sing.
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    - Listen, now we're going to do another thing
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    that followers of Jesus have done for thousands of years.
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    We're going to have a chance to take communion.
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    Communion is a reminder of God's love for us
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    and our trust in Him.
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    It's also a reminder that we're a part of a global church
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    that no matter what language we speak
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    or where we live, that we still get to follow Jesus together.
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    And anyone who's made that decision can participate.
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    Now, it's not magic, but it is a powerful reminder
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    of God's love for us and our trust in Him is our only hope.
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    Let me set the stage for this.
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    The last night before Jesus was to be executed,
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    He gathered his friends around Him for a meal.
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    So find something to eat or drink.
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    I'm going to use just really simply
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    a bottle of water and a cracker.
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    Jesus used wine and bread, but you can use anything.
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    1 Corinthians tells the story like this:
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    The food represented His body that was broken
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    so that we could be made whole. Take and eat.
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    1 Corinthians goes on to say:
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    In the same way also, He took the cup after supper,
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    The drink represented His blood shed
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    so that ours wouldn't have to.
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    Take and drink.
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    There's a pastor that I love who said that:
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    The reality of following Jesus is this:
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    With that hope, with that joy in mind,
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    would you just pray with me?
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    God, we ask for Your forgiveness
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    and we ask that You would help us remember
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    that You would bring to mind,
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    that You would help remind us
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    of just how incredibly loved we are.
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    Thank You for the gift of Your Son,
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    for living a life that we couldn't,
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    and being killed so that we could experience fresh life.
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    Amen.
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    - Come on, sing that again.
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    - God, I'm so thankful for Your presence
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    and for Your Holy Spirit
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    that offers us peace that surpasses all understanding,
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    a love that endures, joy in the midst of our trials.
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    God, I'm so thankful, God,
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    that we can be in Your presence
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    and experience how good You are.
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    Would You remind someone of your goodness today
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    in this room? In Your name we pray. Amen.
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    - This summer, we're doing something
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    that's never been done in Crossroads' 26 year history,
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    and I am so excited about it.
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    Crossroads is a church of tens of thousands of people
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    who live all over the world, right?
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    Some people show up in person at physical locations
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    and some of us live too far away for that.
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    But we're still all one church and it's amazing.
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    But we know it can be lonely if you're
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    the only Crossroads person in your neighborhood
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    or your town or your city.
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    So we want to gather all of our Crossroads community
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    who don't usually get to show up at a building
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    together this summer in person.
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    Join us for the first ever anywhere weekend
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    hosted right in the city where it all started,
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    Cincinnati, Ohio.
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    It will be a powerful weekend packed
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    with community building, connection, fun,
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    spiritual activation and training
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    on how you can be the church wherever you are.
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    It's going to be 100% fun, 100% meaningful,
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    100% family friendly and 100% bad at math.
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    If you can get here, all meals, experiences,
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    and even childcare are on us.
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    It's a chance for anywhere community members
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    who don't live within driving distance
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    of a local site to meet new friends,
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    to hear from key staff like Brian Tome,
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    Kyle Ranson and more,
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    to experience Crossroads worship in person,
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    to help Crossroads take over
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    a professional baseball game,
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    to hear what God might be wanting to do in you
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    and in your city.
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    And to get the best that Cincinnati has to offer:
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    amazing food, free date nights out,
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    custom designed kid experiences, and so much more.
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    It's all happening Friday night, July 21st
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    through Sunday afternoon, July 23rd.
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    See Crossroads.net/anywhereweekend
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    for more details, and to get signed up.
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    And if you have any questions, like, what do I do with my kids?
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    Or I live in Seattle, how do I get there?
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    Hey, we will get you taken care of.
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    You can reach out to me directly
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    at Andy.Reider@crossroads.net.
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    And hey, just a reminder,
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    whether you participate in Crossroads online
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    or in person at a physical site,
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    you can head to crossroads.net/locations
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    and click on the site nearest you
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    to check out what's happening in your area.
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    Now we're going to jump into our weekly teaching
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    as Alli Patterson, shows us about the power of story.
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    - The X Factor.
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    We all know it when we see it,
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    but it's hard to quantify.
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    It's what sets somebody apart from everyone else
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    and helps them succeed.
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    Every good story has an X factor,
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    or else we wouldn't watch it, right?
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    James Bond, Olivia Pope, John B,
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    they all have the X Factor.
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    It could be a special talent, a way with words,
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    charisma, style, or the secret Krabby Patty recipe,
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    and of course, the X factors themselves.
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    But what's our secret sauce?
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    When we receive Jesus, the Holy Spirit
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    gives us an X factor that makes us different.
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    And Acts is the key to understanding
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    and unlocking our own X Factor.
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    Today we're in the Book of Acts,
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    all about the early days of the church.
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    It's a book about everyday people being changed
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    by God's power and changing the world as a result.
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    And we have access to the same life changing,
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    world changing power.
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    Today, we're going to see how the Holy Spirit
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    sends us and gives us a new story.
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    Saul was a guy known for hating Christians,
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    but when Jesus broke through into his life,
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    He gave him a new story, a new mission,
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    and a new name: Paul.
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    Just like Paul, our story isn't finished yet.
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    When we have the Holy Spirit,
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    we unlock the X factor of a new story.
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    - Well. Hey, good morning, everyone.
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    My name is Alli Patterson,
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    I'm one of the teaching pastors here at Crossroads.
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    Thanks for spending part of your weekend
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    in our community.
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    Merry May-cember. Whatever we're supposed to say.
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    May is the new December. Anyone else with me?
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    I'm so incredibly busy this month,
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    but truly, being here this weekend
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    is a total highlight of mine.
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    So welcome.
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    I have a question for you right as we start off today,
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    I really want you to answer it.
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    It's nothing embarrassing or anything,
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    but if such a thing were possible,
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    who would say that you would like your life
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    to be used by God to touch or impact
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    somebody else around you? Yes?
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    I think many of us, most of us would say,
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    "Yeah, we'd be up for that."
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    And today we're going to get into the Book of Acts
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    because it holds a key to how we actually do that
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    to the people that are right in front of us
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    every single day.
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    And it's deeply rooted in those seven,
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    what we call proven practices,
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    but they're really just ancient ways
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    of the earliest followers of Christ.
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    And we're going to talk about two of those
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    and the power that they have to impact
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    the people around you every day
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    because the Holy Spirit uniquely empowers them.
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    I think this desire we have to, it feels good,
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    you know, like, when we know our life
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    or something we did or said or were
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    in somebody else's life matters.
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    And this is a uniquely human thing.
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    My cat doesn't wake up every day wondering
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    how she can make my life better.
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    My husband argues that maybe she does the opposite.
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    I know some of you liked me until I said I had a cat.
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    Right?
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    It's all right. You can hate on my cat.
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    It's all right. All you dog lovers out there.
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    But for real, we are the only thing
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    that wakes up going, like,
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    "I'd like to have a positive impact around me."
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    And this is a clue to how life with God
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    is really supposed to work here on the earth.
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    The very first man and woman, He told them
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    that they were His agents, His representatives,
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    His image bearers to do things on earth in His place.
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    And we hear that echoed in the Old Testament
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    as He makes a nation out of His people
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    and He tells them you're going to be a light
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    to all other nations and a blessing to all nations.
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    And Jesus echoes those same things,
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    sending His disciples out to go
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    and to represent who He is and His character
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    and His Kingdom all over the face of the Earth.
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    God has always wanted human beings lives
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    to be used by Him in a really unique and special way.
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    To be used by God is really quite simply
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    just to put Him on display in such a way
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    that it draws other people
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    even just a tiny bit closer to Him.
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    And you're invited into that.
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    And today I hope that you feel more equipped
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    to actually do that in your everyday life.
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    Let me pray for you.
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    Lord, thank You for all the ears listening.
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    Thank You for all of Your people that are gathered.
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    I pray that this time would be well spent,
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    and I ask that by Your Spirit You would equip us
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    to do whatever it is that You're going to send us
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    out into the world to do, even this very week.
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    In Jesus name, Amen.
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    Well, I got kind of a wake up call a month or so ago.
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    Who was here the weekend that we had
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    a guest speaker named John Burke?
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    Were some of you here that weekend?
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    If you haven't seen that service,
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    highly recommend that you go and find that online
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    and watch it.
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    He presented some research about what we can know
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    about heaven based on near-death experiences,
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    not just a couple, but thousands and thousands
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    and thousands that he's researched.
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    And so I got this big wake up call about my life
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    really being used to impact the people in front of me
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    because of this guy that I saw that weekend.
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    - Howard, tell us about this life review that you had.
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    - There was a number of angels, I call them angels,
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    who had been recording my entire life, all my life.
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    And Jesus wanted them to play out
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    in chronological order, the scenes of my life.
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    And the entire emphasis was on
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    my interaction with other people.
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    Of course, initially starting out with my mother
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    and father and my sisters
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    and then school and friends.
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    - And so you just, you saw it or you...?
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    - We saw it, we felt it, we experienced it.
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    And it was really interesting because it was --
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    the whole emphasis was on people and not on things.
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    Matter of fact, there were some instances
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    where I had won promotions, honors, awards,
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    and they skipped them.
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    And Jesus -- I said to Jesus,
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    "You're skipping the most important thing in my life.
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    This is what I live for, to get this award,
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    Kentucky Artist of the Year,
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    big banquet in my honor
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    and a big cash prize and everything."
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    And he said, "That's not what we're here for you to see.
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    That's not important."
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    - That's not what we're here for you to see.
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    That's not what's important.
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    Oh, like, I left the service going, how do --
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    how, how have I not been that crystal clear?
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    Like, how do I walk through the day
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    and even get distracted by the phone in my hand
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    and miss the person right in front of me? Come on.
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    For some reason, this was like a big wake up call for me.
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    So I go, I go the next day and I happen to have a haircut.
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    And a woman named Anne cuts my hair.
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    She might even be here. Hey, Anne.
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    She and her son had come to the service
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    and we were sitting there together processing
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    that particular service because
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    it was really intriguing, really impactful.
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    And I was describing that realization that I was having.
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    And I said to her, "Hey, Anne. What if?
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    What if the only thing that God cares about
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    in my life right this second
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    is how I'm interacting with you?
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    What if that's it?
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    How could He care about something else?
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    Like you're standing in front of me and I'm with you,
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    and I'm a person who's standing here in time
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    and space, and the only thing in front of me
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    is another person that He loves.
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    What if it -- What if that's it?"
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    And almost as soon as I said the words,
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    I just felt the same kind of rush
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    I had in the day before in the service
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    where God was going, "Okay, now you're catching on.
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    It is about the people that
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    are standing in front of you every day."
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    And that begs the question, how are we to interact?
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    Then how are we to interact like God?
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    How? How do I do that in a way
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    where my daily interactions actually matter,
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    or at least they have the potential to matter?
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    In the Book of Acts shows us two really simple
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    but critical things that the Holy Spirit uniquely empowers.
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    And as I read the Book of Acts
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    and thought about this weekend, I thought,
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    this is really fascinating because if we know this
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    and we grow in these things
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    and we do these things on purpose,
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    what might happen to our lives,
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    what kind of impact might we start to have?
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    And the two things that the Holy Spirit
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    uniquely empowers are story and Scripture.
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    Story and Scripture.
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    And you see this over and over and over
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    in the Book of Acts, because the Book of Acts
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    is really just regular people who used story
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    and scripture to change the minds and hearts
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    and impact the lives of the people
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    that are right in front of them.
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    And so we're going to dive into these two elements today,
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    the first of which is story that we're going to look at.
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    And I'm going to use a passage from Acts 26.
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    Acts 26 is way at the end of the book.
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    And the whole kind of second half of the Book of Acts
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    is about a guy named Paul.
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    And Paul meets Jesus kind of earlier in the Book of Acts,
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    and he goes about talking about him, really.
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    He just goes around talking about Jesus
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    and his experience, and he lands himself in jail,
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    which is where he is when we find him in Acts 26.
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    And he's been there for two years,
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    so he's been sitting in jail because of false charges,
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    kind of trumped up charges,
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    similar to the kind of stuff they would attack Jesus about,
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    like, he's teaching against Moses,
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    he's trying to incite a rebellion.
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    He's saying things against the Jewish law.
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    And all these false accusations that have landed him in prison
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    and he's just been sitting there.
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    And he finally gets the chance to talk to a man
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    named King Agrippa and give his self defense,
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    which is where we pick up this passage in Acts 26.
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    And his speech, if you will, that day
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    is to King Agrippa, but, of course,
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    there's a lot of other people listening as well.
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    And here's how he starts:
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    So Paul kind of starts with his,
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    seems like he's going to give you a life story, right?
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    He starts and our life stories are good for that.
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    They connect with people on a certain level
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    because we have common backgrounds
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    or similar interests or we've lived in certain places
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    or done certain things.
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    That's exactly what you think you're hearing from Paul.
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    He starts with kind of his life story.
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    I had the chance a couple of weeks ago
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    to talk to some corporate leaders
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    and you bet I wanted to connect with them
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    in such a way that I wanted them to understand,
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    like, I know what your life is like
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    because I've been there.
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    I drew a little bit on my experience
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    from having a corporate job,
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    what seems like now quite a long time ago.
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    But common experiences, life stories,
  • 00:36:31
    they do that really, really well.
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    But that's not the kind of story
  • 00:36:36
    that Paul was actually telling.
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    Listen to where he goes next. He says:
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    Not quite where you expected him to go, right?
  • 00:37:18
    And he goes on to a very important moment.
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    This is the story that Paul tells.
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    And it's specifically because the Holy Spirit
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    does not empower your life story,
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    the Holy Spirit empowers your Jesus story.
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    The Holy Spirit empowers stories told about Jesus,
  • 00:38:07
    and it does so, He does so for a very specific reason.
  • 00:38:12
    In 3 or 4 different places in the New Testament,
  • 00:38:16
    the Holy Spirit is actually referred to
  • 00:38:18
    as the Spirit of Jesus,
  • 00:38:20
    the Spirit of Jesus Christ multiple times.
  • 00:38:23
    The Holy Spirit is the Spirit of Jesus.
  • 00:38:26
    So when you start talking about Jesus,
  • 00:38:28
    the Holy Spirit is, like, "Right there, now I'm in."
  • 00:38:33
    The Holy Spirit empowers uniquely,
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    not that your other stories aren't good,
  • 00:38:38
    but uniquely empowers the stories that you have
  • 00:38:42
    in your life about encountering and experiencing Jesus.
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    Because the Holy Spirit was sent for that purpose.
  • 00:38:49
    Jesus sends Him and it's the Spirit of Jesus.
  • 00:38:53
    So when you talk about Jesus, boom,
  • 00:38:55
    your words take on multiple new dimensions
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    in the Kingdom of God.
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    They carry weight and impact
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    like you can never imagine on your own.
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    And there's a formula, if you will.
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    I don't know if it's right to call it that.
  • 00:39:10
    I think that's fair.
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    There's a pattern that Paul uses
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    in this particular speech and in all the other times
  • 00:39:17
    that you can read that he tells his story,
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    and it's super simple:
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    before Jesus, the encounter with Jesus,
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    and then after.
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    He uses before, encounter, after.
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    Really simple pattern,
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    but that's why he's choosing what he's choosing.
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    You know, he starts and he's connecting
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    with the people in the room, and then he goes into
  • 00:39:46
    a very surprising moment in his life. Can we agree?
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    Not many of us would tell our life story and go,
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    like, "And also, I was an unbeliever,
  • 00:39:55
    a scoffer, a hater, a murderer."
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    And that's the next part.
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    We might even seek to leave out some of those things.
  • 00:40:05
    And Paul seems to go right for them
  • 00:40:07
    because he's doing something very, very purposely.
  • 00:40:10
    He's telling a story about Jesus.
  • 00:40:12
    And when you tell a story about Jesus,
  • 00:40:14
    we need to know what were you like
  • 00:40:17
    before you experienced this guy named Jesus?
  • 00:40:21
    And then Paul, of course, gives us his encounter.
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    He saw something.
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    He met Him in pretty dramatic fashion.
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    He was told some things by Jesus.
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    He saw this bright light. He fell to the ground.
  • 00:40:33
    This is a firsthand account.
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    And he becomes what the same word Jesus uses here
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    to Paul is the same word He uses
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    before He ascends into heaven
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    to His disciples in their final instructions.
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    He says, "You're going to be my witnesses."
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    A witness has an experience, an event,
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    a happening, an understanding, a new something
  • 00:40:55
    that goes down that you could actually describe.
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    And that's exactly what we see Paul doing.
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    He says, "This is what I actually lived."
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    He becomes a witness,
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    and that's exactly what Jesus told him to do.
  • 00:41:06
    Here's what he reports Jesus says to him
  • 00:41:09
    on the side of the road that day:
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    What you have seen, this experience,
  • 00:41:23
    and what you will see,
  • 00:41:24
    which means there's going to be other ones.
  • 00:41:27
    There's going to be more stories
  • 00:41:29
    that Paul encounters about Jesus.
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    And he tells this story before, encounter, and after.
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    And as he describes the after, all he basically says
  • 00:41:40
    to King Agrippa is, "So that's what I did.
  • 00:41:43
    He told me to go tell what I saw,
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    so I started going around and telling what I saw.
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    And it really made some people mad, and here we are.
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    But how can I not?
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    Because that's actually what happened to me."
  • 00:41:59
    And this is the thing about our own lives
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    is that we have to, if we want to impact the lives
  • 00:42:07
    of the people around us,
  • 00:42:08
    they need all three of those parts.
  • 00:42:10
    And we're so prone to leave one of them out,
  • 00:42:12
    to assume that we either don't need it or it's,
  • 00:42:15
    you know, it's not necessary or we just don't like it.
  • 00:42:18
    They need all the parts before, the experience, and after.
  • 00:42:25
    Sometimes all it takes is a little bit of thought.
  • 00:42:28
    Maybe we've just never thought that through before.
  • 00:42:30
    So I decided to put this formula, this pattern,
  • 00:42:33
    to the test with my own story.
  • 00:42:34
    Now, if you've been coming here,
  • 00:42:36
    you've heard my story before.
  • 00:42:37
    This is not something that you haven't heard
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    or that's unfamiliar to a lot of you
  • 00:42:41
    who are part of our community.
  • 00:42:42
    But I'm just going to push my story
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    into those three buckets.
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    And let's look at what happens when we do that.
  • 00:42:49
    So before, if I were going to describe to you
  • 00:42:52
    the time in my life before I really encountered Jesus,
  • 00:42:56
    it would be something like this.
  • 00:42:57
    So a lot of you grew up like me
  • 00:42:59
    in maybe a midwestern city.
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    I grew up and I was one of three kids
  • 00:43:04
    in a pretty nice family.
  • 00:43:05
    I was a pretty good kid.
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    I thought I was pretty solid.
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    I did my work. I went to school.
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    I tried to make friends. I tried to be nice.
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    I tried to do the things
  • 00:43:14
    that I was told would make a good life.
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    And I did those and I was actually pretty good at them.
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    So I went to college and I studied
  • 00:43:21
    and I had my eye on a corporate career.
  • 00:43:23
    I met a nice guy. We got married.
  • 00:43:25
    I got exactly the job that I wanted.
  • 00:43:28
    And I began life thinking I had it by the tail.
  • 00:43:32
    And as I did that, I built exactly the life
  • 00:43:35
    that I'd intended to do.
  • 00:43:36
    But I failed to see I was building it
  • 00:43:38
    all around and on and through my own strength.
  • 00:43:42
    It was all about me.
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    And eventually that life all about me
  • 00:43:48
    led me into some people and circumstances
  • 00:43:50
    that I didn't see coming
  • 00:43:52
    that I wasn't strong enough to handle
  • 00:43:53
    and that brought out all of my weaknesses,
  • 00:43:55
    every single one of them.
  • 00:43:57
    Everything from people pleasing to performance
  • 00:43:59
    to beauty issues to all kinds of stuff.
  • 00:44:02
    And all of those went into a big ball
  • 00:44:05
    to conspire to offer me the opportunity which I took
  • 00:44:08
    and had an affair with someone that I worked with.
  • 00:44:13
    And I became somebody
  • 00:44:14
    that I would have judged the day before,
  • 00:44:16
    that I couldn't even look in the mirror at,
  • 00:44:18
    that I didn't even know anymore.
  • 00:44:23
    That's what my life was like before I encountered Jesus.
  • 00:44:28
    And then right around that time
  • 00:44:32
    I had an encounter with Jesus.
  • 00:44:34
    I started to feel like God was pushing in on my life.
  • 00:44:39
    It felt like everywhere I looked
  • 00:44:40
    there was something about God
  • 00:44:42
    or someone that knew God.
  • 00:44:43
    And I finally realized, like,
  • 00:44:45
    He's kind of pushing in on me here.
  • 00:44:47
    And I went on a run one day and I started talking to Him.
  • 00:44:51
    And then I started crying.
  • 00:44:53
    And then I cried so hard I couldn't run.
  • 00:44:55
    And I actually dropped to my knees on the sidewalk
  • 00:44:57
    and I said, "Jesus, I can't do this anymore.
  • 00:45:01
    I can't live like this anymore.
  • 00:45:03
    Get me out. Do whatever you need to do.
  • 00:45:06
    Break me, get me out. I don't want this life.
  • 00:45:09
    I want whatever You have for me instead."
  • 00:45:13
    And I experienced Jesus in the following
  • 00:45:16
    6 to 9 months in ways that were utterly incredible,
  • 00:45:20
    totally undeniable.
  • 00:45:22
    I had Him speak to me in dreams.
  • 00:45:24
    I had Him send me people with specific encouragement.
  • 00:45:27
    I felt His presence in the kitchen
  • 00:45:29
    when I was singing to Him one day.
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    And most importantly, above all,
  • 00:45:34
    I started to read the Bible
  • 00:45:35
    and there were sometimes words on the page
  • 00:45:37
    that just seemed to be highlighted, like,
  • 00:45:39
    "Those are for you."
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    And I encountered a real and living Jesus.
  • 00:45:48
    And what happened after? What happened after?
  • 00:45:51
    Well, those words that I started to read
  • 00:45:53
    were actually the crux of what happened after,
  • 00:45:55
    because I decided I had nothing left to lose.
  • 00:45:57
    It was pretty much all down around my feet at that point.
  • 00:46:00
    And so I just started doing what I was actually reading.
  • 00:46:07
    I pretty much threw all my eggs in His basket.
  • 00:46:09
    Every time that there was an opportunity to tell the truth,
  • 00:46:12
    to be obedient to something. That's what Paul uses.
  • 00:46:14
    The word he uses is I was obedient to the vision.
  • 00:46:17
    I did what He said, and I started to do that.
  • 00:46:21
    And I found a God who knew exactly how life worked,
  • 00:46:24
    who knew exactly how a marriage was supposed to operate,
  • 00:46:26
    who knew exactly what my job,
  • 00:46:28
    the place the job was supposed to have in my life,
  • 00:46:30
    who knew exactly who I was and who knew the way out.
  • 00:46:34
    He knew the way to rebuild me, my life, my marriage,
  • 00:46:38
    my work, everything from the inside out.
  • 00:46:43
    And the end of the end of the after is that tomorrow,
  • 00:46:46
    actually, we celebrate 24 years of marriage
  • 00:46:51
    together because of Him.
  • 00:46:53
    How can I not offer you that story?
  • 00:46:56
    And what if I left out the before?
  • 00:47:00
    That's what I wanted to do for a really long time.
  • 00:47:03
    I just wanted to leave out the before part.
  • 00:47:05
    I actually had a friend who asked me,
  • 00:47:08
    I had a book that released in January
  • 00:47:10
    and she read the manuscript before it released.
  • 00:47:12
    And she asked me what my favorite part of the book was,
  • 00:47:14
    and I told her something super nerdy.
  • 00:47:16
    And she laughed in my face and she said,
  • 00:47:18
    "Nobody's ever going to ask you about that.
  • 00:47:21
    Everybody's going to want to talk about your story."
  • 00:47:24
    And it frustrates, it kind of irritated me
  • 00:47:26
    because I'm like, "I want you to --
  • 00:47:27
    I want you to love God. I want you to know God."
  • 00:47:31
    And she was like [FX]. But the truth is,
  • 00:47:36
    as soon as I put those 3 pieces together,
  • 00:47:38
    the before, the experience with Jesus and the after,
  • 00:47:41
    it ceases to be a story about me.
  • 00:47:44
    Now it's a story about God.
  • 00:47:47
    Now, it doesn't say anything about me,
  • 00:47:51
    it says everything about Him.
  • 00:47:55
    And that's what happens when we put those 3 parts together.
  • 00:47:57
    Parents in the room, parents listening,
  • 00:47:59
    I have a special word for you.
  • 00:48:01
    Your kids, they need all three parts.
  • 00:48:04
    They desperately need to know that you have a before.
  • 00:48:08
    Because when they live theirs, they're going to want to know
  • 00:48:11
    that they have a parent with a before,
  • 00:48:13
    an experience with Jesus
  • 00:48:15
    that got them somewhere afterwards.
  • 00:48:19
    And that's the same thing that your friends need to hear,
  • 00:48:21
    that your colleagues need to hear.
  • 00:48:22
    If you want to have an impact on the people
  • 00:48:25
    around you, you need to be telling
  • 00:48:26
    your before, your experience, and your after
  • 00:48:29
    with Jesus stories,
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    because the Holy Spirit will explode those
  • 00:48:33
    in the life of other people.
  • 00:48:36
    And I think there's reasons why we don't, right?
  • 00:48:39
    I mean, I said why I didn't.
  • 00:48:40
    I don't want to talk about the before,
  • 00:48:42
    even this very weekend.
  • 00:48:43
    I'm like, really? Really?
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    Because there's still a little part of me
  • 00:48:51
    that thinks that story is about me.
  • 00:48:52
    It's not about me,
  • 00:48:54
    but we're ashamed of our part in it, right?
  • 00:48:56
    Paul's a murderer.
  • 00:48:58
    He's going, "Yeah, like, I not only helped murder them,
  • 00:49:01
    I cast my vote and they all came to me
  • 00:49:04
    and told me it was done afterwards."
  • 00:49:08
    And he tells that just as plain as day.
  • 00:49:11
    But some of us are, we are too ashamed.
  • 00:49:13
    We've locked it too far in the past.
  • 00:49:15
    I'm telling you, you've got to break
  • 00:49:16
    your agreement with silence because
  • 00:49:18
    you are silencing the power of God
  • 00:49:21
    for the people around you.
  • 00:49:24
    Some of us just don't have one.
  • 00:49:26
    We just don't have a story to tell.
  • 00:49:28
    And to you, I would say totally okay.
  • 00:49:31
    God loves to answer that prayer. As a matter of fact,
  • 00:49:33
    I'm going to pray for you right now.
  • 00:49:35
    Lord, there are people in here wh are
  • 00:49:38
    silently telling you that's me right now.
  • 00:49:41
    Just tell Him that's me,
  • 00:49:42
    who do not have a story about encountering You.
  • 00:49:45
    Would You make Yourself real to them?
  • 00:49:47
    Would You reveal Yourself to them?
  • 00:49:49
    Would You actually give them an experience
  • 00:49:52
    with Your spirit that leads them
  • 00:49:54
    to the life that You have for them.
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    Lord, give them a story to tell
  • 00:49:58
    of You for Your glory. Amen.
  • 00:50:02
    And I think some of our stories,
  • 00:50:04
    we just think they're too simple.
  • 00:50:05
    We don't think they're good enough.
  • 00:50:07
    I had a professor in seminary who,
  • 00:50:09
    I took him for a couple of classes,
  • 00:50:11
    so I heard this a couple of times
  • 00:50:12
    and it just made me smile because he would start
  • 00:50:14
    his classes by telling his story the first day.
  • 00:50:17
    He would tell, like how he came to know Jesus initially,
  • 00:50:19
    like, many years ago.
  • 00:50:21
    He's probably like in his late 50s to 60.
  • 00:50:23
    And he said, "You know, I tell my story?"
  • 00:50:25
    He goes, "I tell it because it's so incredibly boring."
  • 00:50:29
    He was like, "We need to tell more boring stories
  • 00:50:32
    about becoming a follower of Jesus, because guess what?
  • 00:50:35
    Most of us are just going to have
  • 00:50:37
    a compelling internal interaction with Jesus
  • 00:50:40
    whereby we realize who He is and what He did for us,
  • 00:50:43
    and we're going to say, "Lord, I want that."
  • 00:50:45
    And he said, "I tell my story because it's boring.
  • 00:50:49
    And the vast majority of stories of people who come
  • 00:50:52
    to Jesus in their life, at least the first one,
  • 00:50:55
    is kind of boring."
  • 00:50:57
    And to you, I would just encourage.
  • 00:50:59
    Don't worry. There's a lot of other stories to come.
  • 00:51:03
    Jesus said to Paul he was going to testify
  • 00:51:05
    about what he had seen and what he will see.
  • 00:51:07
    That means you get a lot more.
  • 00:51:08
    You might be on the edge of a thriller.
  • 00:51:10
    You might be on the edge of a thriller.
  • 00:51:12
    Maybe you're going to have a story about
  • 00:51:13
    what God does when you start doing money like He says,
  • 00:51:17
    or dating like He says or whatever.
  • 00:51:19
    But you might be on the edge of a story
  • 00:51:22
    that's way more dramatic than you think.
  • 00:51:26
    There's not just one for us.
  • 00:51:27
    There's many, many stories.
  • 00:51:30
    My idea, as I was looking through Acts,
  • 00:51:33
    I keyed right in on how the Holy Spirit
  • 00:51:35
    empowered Paul's story, not just this time,
  • 00:51:38
    but many times to reach somebody in front of him.
  • 00:51:41
    And I kind of wanted to talk just about that
  • 00:51:44
    because it's so what God has helped me to realize as well.
  • 00:51:47
    But an honest reading of Acts,
  • 00:51:50
    you could not just stop there.
  • 00:51:52
    You have to talk about the other element
  • 00:51:54
    because there's never even stories present
  • 00:51:56
    without this other element, which is Scripture.
  • 00:52:00
    Scripture is also uniquely empowered by the Holy Spirit.
  • 00:52:04
    And again, there's a very specific reason why.
  • 00:52:07
    The Holy Spirit is the living Word of God.
  • 00:52:12
    So it's like this --
  • 00:52:13
    It's like this equals sine equation.
  • 00:52:16
    It's sort of like Jesus algebra or something.
  • 00:52:19
    Jesus was called the Word of God
  • 00:52:21
    and the Word of God and the Holy Spirit is also Jesus.
  • 00:52:27
    It's the Spirit of Jesus.
  • 00:52:28
    So if the Word of God and the Holy Spirit
  • 00:52:32
    are all connected to Jesus,
  • 00:52:33
    then the Holy Spirit is the living, breathing Word of God
  • 00:52:38
    that was sent for us right now.
  • 00:52:41
    That means the Word of God is alive and active.
  • 00:52:46
    There's a prophet named Isaiah who actually gave words
  • 00:52:49
    for that that I love.
  • 00:52:50
    He said, When we turn loose the Word of God,
  • 00:52:52
    when the Word of God is spoken, he said
  • 00:52:55
    it goes out and accomplishes what the Lord sent it for.
  • 00:52:59
    That means when you turn loose the Word of God
  • 00:53:02
    out of your mouth into the life of someone else,
  • 00:53:05
    it means it carries a power
  • 00:53:07
    to actually do something in their life.
  • 00:53:10
    That's incredible.
  • 00:53:12
    Are you serious? I mean, that's incredible stuff.
  • 00:53:15
    That means that we need to be steeped in Scripture.
  • 00:53:18
    And please, I don't mean don't be --
  • 00:53:21
    Don't be the guy that answers everything with a Bible verse.
  • 00:53:24
    That is not what I mean.
  • 00:53:26
    Nobody really likes that guy.
  • 00:53:30
    And sometimes Paul does that actually.
  • 00:53:32
    Sometimes, to some people, I could see it, I could get there.
  • 00:53:35
    But most of the time what I mean is this thing
  • 00:53:38
    that we hear in Paul's speech to Agrippa that day,
  • 00:53:40
    that everything is just dripping with the truths
  • 00:53:44
    and the words and the concepts that are born in Scripture.
  • 00:53:48
    Here's what he says:
  • 00:54:12
    Now we don't hear the same way they did
  • 00:54:14
    all the Scripture that's packed into that.
  • 00:54:16
    But we hear some of the words.
  • 00:54:18
    We hear the word hope repeated.
  • 00:54:20
    We hear his reference to the 12 tribes.
  • 00:54:23
    Basically what he's using scripture to do
  • 00:54:25
    is cut right to the heart of the issue.
  • 00:54:28
    There's all this talk about who he is and what he's saying
  • 00:54:31
    and all these narratives about what he means
  • 00:54:34
    and what he's done and why he's on trial.
  • 00:54:37
    Paul stops and says, "You know what?
  • 00:54:38
    This is really simple,
  • 00:54:39
    I'm going to cut to the heart of the matter.
  • 00:54:41
    It's about hope and it's about God's power to raise the dead.
  • 00:54:44
    Do you not want those things?"
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    And Scripture gives us this ability in our life as well.
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    It gives us the ability
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    to see something that's below the surface.
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    Jesus did this all the time.
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    People would ask Jesus a question
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    or they would speak to Him
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    and He wouldn't directly answer them.
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    He would actually answer the heart underneath it.
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    In Hebrews, the Word of God is called a double edged sword,
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    and it's said to slice to the attitudes
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    and thoughts of the heart.
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    Those are things you can't see.
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    Does anyone else think we could use some help in our life
  • 00:55:22
    cutting through all the false narratives around us?
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    Anybody else hear four different explanations
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    for the same event from radically different perspectives
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    and ever wonder like what in the world is going on here?
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    When we read Scripture, it equips us to think, to see,
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    and then to speak what we see happening
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    in the Kingdom of God, in the spiritual realm.
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    And it cuts to the heart of issues
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    instead of staying on the surface.
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    Man, I could use some more of that in a world
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    like we're living in, in a culture
  • 00:55:57
    like we're living in right now.
  • 00:55:59
    And Paul spoke words, many, many words in this speech
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    that were steeped in the prophets,
  • 00:56:06
    that had weight way beyond what he was saying,
  • 00:56:08
    that he meant to do a head tilt.
  • 00:56:11
    He directly quotes Ezekiel 2, Jeremiah 1, and Isaiah 42.
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    And you would read through his words
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    and you would miss that because our ears don't hear that.
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    We're not steeped in Scripture
  • 00:56:25
    like the way his Jewish listeners were,
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    but if you heard it, you would hear phrase after phrase,
  • 00:56:31
    sentence after sentence, his words carried the weight
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    of the Word of God behind them.
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    And they were there to produce a result in the people listening.
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    If you don't read Scripture, you will forfeit
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    that kind of impact in the people around you.
  • 00:56:51
    You don't -- you don't have to do this, like, in --
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    It's not, I mean, it could be studious.
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    Goodness knows, I like a studious study,
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    but it begins to come alive in you.
  • 00:57:02
    Think of yourself like, like a two liter bottle.
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    You have a little, little hole at the top
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    and a really big capacity underneath.
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    And when you just constantly drip Scripture in,
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    it begins to live in you.
  • 00:57:15
    Pretty soon it's how you see people. It's what you think.
  • 00:57:18
    It's the wisdom or advice that you offer.
  • 00:57:20
    It's the things that you say and you're like, oh.
  • 00:57:23
    Have you ever talked to someone
  • 00:57:24
    that has a weightiness to their words?
  • 00:57:26
    That's what the power of Scripture does.
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    That's how it begins to interact and just explode
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    in impact in the life of the people around you.
  • 00:57:37
    If you want to be used by God,
  • 00:57:38
    you have got to get into Scripture.
  • 00:57:43
    I've never interacted with a follower of Jesus,
  • 00:57:45
    never, ever, not one time that had an impact on my life
  • 00:57:50
    that wasn't deeply entrenched in the Word of God.
  • 00:57:53
    And there's a reason for that.
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    I want you to hear a story right here from our community
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    that I think is an amazing example
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    of this one two punch
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    of scripture and story put together.
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    - My name is Ryan Williams.
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    We've been together 13 years, married 12.
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    - And I'm Jamie Williams.
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    Long story short, alcohol became a big part
  • 00:58:19
    of our relationship, our marriage, our struggles.
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    It affected me a lot more than him.
  • 00:58:25
    So in 2017, it caught up with me.
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    He had moved out.
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    One night he came over and that one night we didn't argue.
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    In the morning I woke up and freaked out
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    because I needed a drink.
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    God stepped in right at that moment
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    and I looked at him and I said,
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    "I need -- I think I need help."
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    And he just hugged me and started crying.
  • 00:58:46
    He goes, "I've been waiting for you to say that."
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    So that began our our journey of me trying to stop.
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    We got involved in a program, Celebrate Recovery.
  • 00:58:57
    - Celebrate recovery, yeah.
  • 00:58:58
    And things were going pretty good for four years.
  • 00:59:01
    Jesus was finally, you know, moving.
  • 00:59:03
    Beginning of 2022, I had a secret
  • 00:59:07
    that I carried with me for over 30 years.
  • 00:59:10
    And nobody, I never let anybody know about.
  • 00:59:13
    And I had a 30 year porn addiction.
  • 00:59:16
    That porn addiction ultimately led me
  • 00:59:19
    to an emotional affair, to a physical affair,
  • 00:59:22
    to just basically telling Jamie I'm done.
  • 00:59:26
    I remember she looked at me one day and she goes,
  • 00:59:29
    "So are you done with the marriage?"
  • 00:59:31
    And I said yes.
  • 00:59:33
    And then she asked me, "So are you done with God?"
  • 00:59:37
    And I just, like laughed.
  • 00:59:40
    God can't heal who you pretend to be.
  • 00:59:45
    My whole life, I was pretending.
  • 00:59:47
    I didn't know about anything.
  • 00:59:48
    It was just he started acting funny.
  • 00:59:50
    Three days before it was time to go sign,
  • 00:59:53
    I stumbled upon some communication, some texts
  • 00:59:58
    between him and someone else, and then everything clicked.
  • 01:00:03
    - I had put in a plan to break free of this bondage
  • 01:00:06
    that -- because I was just done.
  • 01:00:08
    I wanted my wife back.
  • 01:00:09
    I wanted my family back.
  • 01:00:11
    But even if I didn't get that,
  • 01:00:14
    I needed to break free from this.
  • 01:00:16
    July 5th, 2022, she's like, "Let's go to the courthouse."
  • 01:00:21
    So we got it signed and went out to eat
  • 01:00:24
    and she pulls out all these texts. She just puts it down.
  • 01:00:26
    She goes, "You need to get some help, and I'm praying for you."
  • 01:00:29
    And she gets up and she walks out.
  • 01:00:31
    I met up with a good Christian brother and he was like,
  • 01:00:34
    "You know, you need to read the story
  • 01:00:35
    about David and Bathsheba."
  • 01:00:37
    And I read it and I just crumble.
  • 01:00:39
    I repented to God like I never had in my life.
  • 01:00:46
    I was done being fake, so I just was like,
  • 01:00:49
    "God, I don't know what to do.
  • 01:00:51
    I've tried everything else. Jesus, help me."
  • 01:00:53
    And I heard Him say, "You know what, Ryan?
  • 01:00:57
    You got two choices here.
  • 01:00:59
    You can follow this path that you're on.
  • 01:01:00
    You may not be physically dead, but everything else
  • 01:01:04
    in your life is going to be dead.
  • 01:01:05
    But if you follow Me, you surrender to Me and you obey me,
  • 01:01:10
    I promise you you'll be okay.
  • 01:01:12
    I will take care of you."
  • 01:01:14
    And I was like, "All right, that's what I'm going to do."
  • 01:01:17
    But it was July 18th of the same month
  • 01:01:20
    of the same year that she looks at me at a park
  • 01:01:22
    in Michigan and says, "Ryan, I love you
  • 01:01:23
    and I want to work on our marriage."
  • 01:01:27
    - Once I pictured him having this journey
  • 01:01:29
    and pictured it, me not getting to witness it
  • 01:01:32
    and be a part of it, that was an instant heart change.
  • 01:01:35
    And then five days after the judge goes,
  • 01:01:39
    "There's something wrong with the paper,
  • 01:01:41
    so you're not divorced yet.
  • 01:01:42
    It's being reset for a month."
  • 01:01:44
    And in that month was that timeframe where it was like,
  • 01:01:47
    God put everything out on the line.
  • 01:01:51
    So we're still married, Never got divorced.
  • 01:01:53
    - God was like, "Look what I'm going to do
  • 01:01:55
    in this 30 day period right here."
  • 01:01:57
    - In 30 days. Yeah.
  • 01:01:58
    - Look what I can do."
  • 01:02:00
    Couples camp has been refreshing.
  • 01:02:03
    - The renewing of the vows,
  • 01:02:04
    hearing and being able to look in each other's eyes,
  • 01:02:07
    and especially after this year and say those words.
  • 01:02:10
    - It was like it was just me and her in there.
  • 01:02:12
    You know, with, all everybody else was gone,
  • 01:02:15
    it was just me and her.
  • 01:02:16
    And it was just like, that's when the holy --
  • 01:02:18
    I felt the Holy Spirit.
  • 01:02:19
    - Yeah, I don't care the state of your relationship right now,
  • 01:02:24
    I mean, it's just like watching transformation happen.
  • 01:02:28
    - That's an incredible story.
  • 01:02:30
    You know, God loves stories.
  • 01:02:32
    You can't write your own ending like that.
  • 01:02:35
    They were still married.
  • 01:02:37
    There was a glitch in the paperwork.
  • 01:02:39
    That's too good not to be God.
  • 01:02:41
    That is just an incredible story.
  • 01:02:44
    And I just have to call out the obvious.
  • 01:02:46
    You know, God, there is absolutely no brokenness
  • 01:02:51
    in your life that can't become
  • 01:02:53
    a before you encountered Jesus story.
  • 01:02:56
    The things we're talking about today are murderers
  • 01:02:59
    and porn addicts and alcoholics and adulterers
  • 01:03:02
    who are telling stories about the redemptive power of Jesus.
  • 01:03:06
    It's absolutely mind blowing.
  • 01:03:09
    It's totally mind blowing.
  • 01:03:10
    And they're all stories about Him.
  • 01:03:12
    You don't listen to that story and go,
  • 01:03:14
    "Wow, they were really messed up."
  • 01:03:15
    What you hear is: Jesus can do that for you.
  • 01:03:21
    Jesus can do that for you.
  • 01:03:23
    That's the kind of story He wants to write in your life.
  • 01:03:27
    And it's unbelievable.
  • 01:03:28
    And also, we don't need a lecture
  • 01:03:30
    about marriage and repentance, right?
  • 01:03:33
    What we need is our humanity acknowledged in a story.
  • 01:03:38
    And the Holy Spirit uniquely empowers those stories,
  • 01:03:41
    which are steeped in the truth of Scripture.
  • 01:03:44
    Did anybody else, like, take a deep breath
  • 01:03:45
    when he said, "God can't heal who you pretend to be?"
  • 01:03:51
    Do you know the kind of truths
  • 01:03:52
    that are wrapped around that,
  • 01:03:54
    that are deeply, deeply embedded in the pages
  • 01:03:57
    of the Bible at his moment of repentance?
  • 01:04:00
    Doesn't get much more clear
  • 01:04:01
    than the story of David and Bathsheba.
  • 01:04:03
    Here, read this.
  • 01:04:05
    I mean, God is creative, but every good story He tells
  • 01:04:10
    is deeply rooted in the truths that are found
  • 01:04:13
    in the Word of God.
  • 01:04:14
    Friends, if you want to have a life that impacts other people,
  • 01:04:18
    it may take some boldness and some courage on your part
  • 01:04:22
    to put that story together and let it out of your mouth.
  • 01:04:24
    It might take some discipline and some things
  • 01:04:27
    that you need to push out of the way
  • 01:04:29
    so that you can actually begin to be steeped
  • 01:04:32
    in the words of Scripture to the point
  • 01:04:34
    where they start to permeate your life.
  • 01:04:35
    But I promise you, you will begin to have an impact
  • 01:04:38
    on the people standing in front of you,
  • 01:04:40
    which is what God cares about.
  • 01:04:42
    And Paul knew that, too.
  • 01:04:43
    We've got to finish the story here because
  • 01:04:45
    there's too good, too good an ending not to see.
  • 01:04:48
    So Paul's finishing his speech to King Agrippa.
  • 01:04:52
    And he knows that God cares most deeply
  • 01:04:57
    about the guy standing right in front of him.
  • 01:04:59
    Listen to how he finishes this, he says:
  • 01:05:35
    Paul knew that God may have put him in jail for two years
  • 01:05:41
    to get to this day, just to talk to that guy
  • 01:05:45
    standing in front of him.
  • 01:05:47
    And I think he was perfectly fine with it.
  • 01:05:50
    He seemed absolutely laser focused
  • 01:05:53
    that no matter what else he said that day,
  • 01:05:55
    he was going to speak directly to King Agrippa
  • 01:05:58
    because he had to have believed that his job was
  • 01:06:02
    to try to impact the person that the Lord brought
  • 01:06:04
    into his life, into his day, into that moment
  • 01:06:08
    to speak directly to and he went for it.
  • 01:06:10
    He went straight for it because he knew
  • 01:06:13
    that guy is a guy that God loves.
  • 01:06:16
    That guy is the one that I can speak to right now.
  • 01:06:18
    He's the one that I have influence over.
  • 01:06:21
    He's the one my words can reach
  • 01:06:22
    and he's the only one I've been allowed to speak to,
  • 01:06:25
    so I'm going to go for it, and that's what he did.
  • 01:06:28
    And friends, that's how Jesus feels about you.
  • 01:06:30
    What if your last two years have all conspired
  • 01:06:33
    to get you here to the point at which you are going
  • 01:06:36
    to have an encounter with Jesus
  • 01:06:38
    because of something that happens here today,
  • 01:06:41
    and you've lived your before Jesus story,
  • 01:06:43
    and today is your encounter,
  • 01:06:44
    and today is your encounter
  • 01:06:46
    and the rest of it happens that you have an after.
  • 01:06:48
    What if Jesus has been
  • 01:06:50
    conspiring to do that in your life
  • 01:06:51
    for the last two years and today is the day?
  • 01:06:55
    That's exactly what many of us need.
  • 01:06:57
    We need to believe that the story Jesus came and lived
  • 01:07:00
    was for us, was to reach us.
  • 01:07:02
    That we're the one, eyes locked on us
  • 01:07:05
    that Jesus has been after, He's been coming after you.
  • 01:07:08
    He's been putting people in your path.
  • 01:07:10
    He is literally hunting you down so that you understand
  • 01:07:14
    how much He wants to reach you
  • 01:07:18
    and that His story was a story He came and lived
  • 01:07:21
    so that you could have one of the same.
  • 01:07:25
    And some of the rest of us just need a cold water in the face,
  • 01:07:29
    like I had a month or so ago.
  • 01:07:31
    Hey, it's you. You are plan A.
  • 01:07:34
    You are God's big plan to reach your kid,
  • 01:07:36
    to reach your mom, to reach your friend,
  • 01:07:38
    to reach your colleagues.
  • 01:07:39
    When he opens the door, step through it.
  • 01:07:42
    Step through it. Tell your story. Tell them the truth.
  • 01:07:46
    Take the opportunity in front of you because
  • 01:07:49
    there is no other plan for the people you love.
  • 01:07:51
    You are it, and God wants your life to be used by Him.
  • 01:07:56
    Let me pray for all of our weeks and all the people.
  • 01:07:59
    Can you imagine all the people, the multitudes of people
  • 01:08:03
    that are represented by this community
  • 01:08:06
    that we go out this week with the idea that, maybe,
  • 01:08:10
    just maybe, God would use our life to touch somebody else?
  • 01:08:14
    Lord, I pray that You would turn Your Word loose
  • 01:08:17
    among these people, among this community.
  • 01:08:19
    I pray that You would release stories
  • 01:08:21
    that have been in the dark for years about You.
  • 01:08:24
    And I pray that you would rip off the lid
  • 01:08:27
    on those and let those out.
  • 01:08:29
    I ask that you would deeply, deeply move
  • 01:08:33
    in the life of this community so that we can go out
  • 01:08:36
    this week, the people that we love,
  • 01:08:38
    the people that we work with and make an impact
  • 01:08:41
    and be used by You.
  • 01:08:43
    It's in Your Son Jesus's name that I pray. Amen.
  • 01:08:48
    - Your story is powerful and it needs to be shared.
  • 01:08:51
    Maya Angelou says there is no greater agony
  • 01:08:54
    than bearing an untold story inside you.
  • 01:08:57
    The world needs your story and you need to share it.
  • 01:09:00
    Head to Crossroads.net/shareyourstory
  • 01:09:03
    to share a bit of how God has shown up in your life.
  • 01:09:06
    And join us next week as Joel Firebaugh,
  • 01:09:08
    the guy who leads all of our students around Crossroads
  • 01:09:11
    talks about how to experience real life change.
  • 01:09:14
    Sometimes we get stuck, sometimes we mess up,
  • 01:09:17
    sometimes we go a way we know we aren't supposed to,
  • 01:09:20
    but we don't have to stay there.
  • 01:09:21
    The Holy Spirit gives us the X factor to change.

May 21, 2023 • 1 hr 9 mins 32 sec

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