Hear God and Give Freely

Understanding God when he calls you to give can be a challenge. How much is enough? How do you balance giving and all of the regular, relentless expenses of life? Join Lead Pastor Kyle Ranson as he shares Bible verses about giving – as well as personal stories about being called by God to give.

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    Apollo 11, this is Houston. You are go for staging.
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    - Hey, and welcome to Crossroads!
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    I'm so excited that you are joining us today.
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    We're here at our Oakley campus,
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    which is in Cincinnati, Ohio, and we know
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    we have people joining online
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    from all over the world, though.
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    So from the States to Brazil to the Philippines.
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    I'm just super glad that you're joining us.
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    And I'm Hannah. - Hey, I'm Andy.
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    We're back for week four of the 10X Push.
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    And I can't, like, I can't believe
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    we're already four weeks into this thing.
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    This has been a journey as a church together.
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    And it's just it's just been so good.
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    Hey, if you're new to Crossroads, maybe first time.
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    First of all, I just want to say welcome.
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    But second, this 10X Push is just an opportunity
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    for us to lean in as a church and expand
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    just the dream of what it would look like
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    for God to 10X multiply the Kingdom of God
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    in our church and in our own lives,
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    and specifically, like, we're pushing all of us
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    to ask the question, do we want to grow spiritually?
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    Like, do we want to go deeper with God?
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    Do we want to allow Him to take us to
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    a new place of impact and of influence
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    and power and just goodness?
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    It's all really, really exciting.
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    So today, our lead pastor Kyle is going to be teaching.
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    But before that, we're going to start off
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    our time by worshiping together,
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    singing some songs about God and to God.
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    - And during this time, you're also
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    not just going to see our singers singing,
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    but you're going to see people getting baptized,
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    which is a water baptism of people who just want
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    to express the outward decision that they've made,
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    to put their personal trust
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    and faith in Jesus Christ, and to choose Him
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    as their Lord and Savior.
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    And so this declaration is something that
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    they're doing outwardly for something
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    that they've expressed inwardly.
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    And it is a big deal.
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    Like, I don't know anyone getting baptized today,
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    but I remember the last time I baptized someone,
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    it was actually on a Go Trip.
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    And I know that was because of faithful believers
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    who invested for us to have reach out, to have Go.
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    And so it's going to be exciting to see people
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    who get baptized during this 10X Push
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    who ten years from now Go
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    because of someone's faithfulness.
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    You know, it's exciting.
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    - Yeah. And what we're going to see today
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    is like a reflection of what God's been doing
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    in people's lives, maybe for years
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    or decades before this.
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    So it's something huge
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    and totally, totally worth celebrating.
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    And if you're not near one of
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    our physical locations to get baptized
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    in person today, hey, that doesn't exclude you.
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    If you're part of our Anywhere community
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    meeting from the Philippines to anywhere across the globe,
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    we will actually remove every barrier possible
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    to help you get baptized, including
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    we'll come to you to make it happen.
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    It's one of our favorite things to do.
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    We'll actually travel to you so that
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    you can get baptized in your own hometown.
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    You've got questions about baptism,
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    Crossroads.net\baptism.
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    There's tons of info there.
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    Or if you want to actually connect with us
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    or ask us a question, you can email us
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    at anywhere@crossroads.net and we'll help make that happen.
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    - And so if you have made that decision,
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    it's a good time to not just sit back and relax,
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    but to join into the celebration
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    as people are getting baptized.
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    Clap and cheer along as you're watching this,
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    because this is a huge, huge deal
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    for the decision they're making.
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    So before, as we go into seeing some baptisms,
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    let's worship together.
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    - Yeah. - Woo!
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    - God, I'm just reminded through the lyrics
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    of that song that when I praise You
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    something powerful happens that when I take
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    a second to not look at the things around me,
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    but to look up at Your sovereignty,
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    of Your holiness and Your goodness.
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    God, there's something that changes.
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    So would You remind me and every single person,
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    God, in this room, that You're a good God,
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    that You're a big God, and You're so worthy of our praise.
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    We love You and we praise You.
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    In Your name. Amen. Come on.
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    Can we just give it up for our God in this place?
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    Well, welcome to Crossroads.
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    We're so excited that you're here.
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    If you're watching online, we want to say welcome to you.
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    Go ahead and take a second to turn to somebody
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    around you and say hello before you take a seat.
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    In The Push, we've been talking about
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    expanding our territory and our kingdom impact as a church.
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    Now, that does not mean that we're getting rid of
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    our current impact, or dialing back things
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    we've been doing for decades.
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    That includes Thanksgiving Food Drive,
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    where we hand out tens of thousands
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    of Thanksgiving meals to people who need them.
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    - And it's just been such a big impact in our local communities.
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    Two quick stories for you just to share what that's like.
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    It says: this Thanksgiving, this meal helped feed
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    me and my boys after losing my job and my brother.
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    I can't thank you all enough
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    for the impact that you have made on my family.
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    The second one says: This Thanksgiving meal box
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    is going to allow me and my kids to be able
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    to gather around our table together
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    for the first time in a while.
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    Due to some hardships, being a single mom
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    and being back in college, everything has been
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    so rough and this box gives me hope.
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    So it's more than just a box,
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    it's giving hope out here.
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    TFD, Thanksgiving Food Drive, as we call it,
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    is incredible.
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    - Yeah, and if you're near one of
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    our physical sites, you can pick up a box there.
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    And if you're part of our Anywhere community,
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    you can do this too.
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    Go to the link, sign up,
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    and we'll actually ship you a box and a list
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    and specific directions so you can make
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    an impact in your local community.
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    You can do that again at crossroads.net/TFD.
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    Now, if you've been on this 10X journey with us,
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    there's your work and your guide
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    that you've been going through.
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    There's specific experiences that have been created
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    to help you 10X, to help you create a new vision
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    and experience God's vision for your life.
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    Those happen in the guidebook.
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    And this week there's
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    a really, really special experience
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    designed called the Making Space Experience.
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    It's interactive audio and video designed
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    to help you take the 10X Push from something--
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    - Next level.
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    - Yeah, from something you know about
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    to something you know about, right?
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    Yeah.
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    - Something that's like in your head
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    to something that's deeper that
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    I'll just say this I went through
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    a rough draft of this just last week.
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    And I think I -- I don't know, maybe I'm just a crier.
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    I think I cried three times, like.
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    - It's amazing. It moves you.
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    - Like it spoke. It moved me. That's right.
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    It's something about my identity
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    and something about growing my vision for
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    what God believes is possible for my life
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    that I might not.
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    So if any of that sounds good to you,
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    head to the Crossroads Anywhere App
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    and the Making Space Digital experience
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    is in there for you.
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    - Earlier we've been talking about
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    these territories that we have.
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    You know, uh, I just forgot them.
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    Reach out. I got it. Camps, reach out.
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    I was trying to read through the order, digital and sites.
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    And today we're talking all about sites.
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    So go ahead and watch this video.
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    In the book of Isaiah, God's call
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    to think bigger and push for more is clear.
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    Enlarge the place of your tent is an exhortation
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    to expand the territory God has already given us,
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    the place where the favor of God
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    has collided again and again with the gifts
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    He's put in all of us producing supernatural results.
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    Over the last 28 years, we have taken
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    a lot of ground for the Kingdom of God.
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    But there are four territories that God
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    has clearly given us where we have seen His favor
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    to go farther than we could ever have dreamed possible,
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    and where He is now calling us to not hold back,
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    to say yes to taking a 10X moonshot,
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    to seeing His Kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven.
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    Our physical sites are powerhouses for life change,
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    and we want to see more, 10X more.
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    Because when we begin to take new territory
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    for sites and new cities and invest more resources
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    in the immersive sites that God is already using,
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    we're going to see more people come back to life.
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    - As a young man, I was aware of the church
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    and we were going to church,
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    but I really had this relationship with God the judge.
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    I didn't understand grace.
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    I didn't understand any of those things.
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    So it was really a knowledge based relationship with God,
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    but not a connection
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    or relational based experience with God.
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    In college, they would say, "Well,
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    why did you choose chemical engineering?"
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    And I said, "Because they make the most money."
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    I actually came to work for P&G in 1998,
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    and they were the highest paying,
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    highest opportunity company and that's why I came.
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    It was really just motivated about financial impact.
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    I was trying to do all kinds of things, side hustles.
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    I did -- I sold nutritional supplements on the side
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    while I was working in the day job,
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    because I wanted to make more money
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    so that my wife could stay home.
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    It was actually with that direct marketing company.
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    We went to a conference and it was called
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    Designing Your Future.
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    And they had me take an assessment
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    and they said where are you at physically
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    on a scale of 1 to 10?
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    I was, like, I'm in pretty good shape,
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    looking this good. It's high up there.
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    Where are you at career wise or financially?
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    I'm like, oh, that's doing pretty well.
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    You know, I'm at a fortune 800 company,
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    report to the CEO.
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    Um, I mean, we're leading a large organization.
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    And then they said, where are you at spiritually?
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    And on the scale of 1 to 10, I put two.
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    And as I went through that workshop, they said,
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    "Aaron, that is going to be
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    the rate limiter on your life."
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    I really took it seriously.
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    Like, for me, that was a moment where I said
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    I have to figure this out, like,
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    in a business meeting where God just came to me
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    and really just felt God's presence
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    for the first time in my life.
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    And that's really who I met.
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    I met this person who I have a relationship with.
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    Clearly, He's like with me now.
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    And that's just really, I just found, like, my guide.
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    We came to Crossroads in 2009.
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    We had just moved here from Iowa,
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    and we were church shopping.
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    And I was actually training for an ultramarathon,
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    and I was out running on the Loveland Bike Trail.
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    And I was listening to the podcast
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    or basically downloads of the sermon,
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    and I heard this crack
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    and it was Brian Tome on stage drinking a beer.
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    And his context of like, I'm going to be
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    the same guy on stage as I am in my backyard.
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    Like it just really hit me
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    and that's who I aspire to be, is like the same.
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    Like, you shouldn't see me any different
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    in a boardroom or at home,
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    or hanging out with my friends,
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    like, it should be the same.
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    And that was the moment where, like,
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    Crossroads is where we need to be.
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    That, coupled with the outreach.
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    Having an impact in your community
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    is how other people see God's love.
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    We are part of the Game Change Campaign in 2010.
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    It's just so happy to see what we're doing outside,
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    Africa with, you know, sex slavery.
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    I mean, even back then, like,
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    this conversation with Citylink Center was part of that.
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    And I just thought, like,
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    this is what we're meant to be as a church.
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    When I think about that, like,
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    I knew that I needed to be part.
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    And we actually left Cincinnati during
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    the Game Change Campaign because I had asked
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    to move to Switzerland.
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    But we finished our campaign because
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    we wanted to see what was going to happen,
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    because we knew, like, that was just something
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    that we couldn't look back 15 years later and say,
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    "Hey, we missed the movement."
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    And then we came back '16, so the fall of 2016
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    and we've been part of Crossroads ever since.
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    During COVID, my wife had found
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    this amazing property in Germantown, Ohio.
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    Shortly after we made that move, you know,
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    we got back involved with the Dayton campus
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    because Mason was just too far to drive.
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    It's fun to see that grow, and I'm so excited
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    about what's happening at Dayton right now.
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    2022 when we, you know, learned about
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    this Dayton campaign, and that was one that
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    was just on my heart where God's like
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    you need to be part of this in a big way.
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    And as we talked with God, I'm like,
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    what does that look like?
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    And everything just felt kind of, like, not right.
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    Until I had this conversation with my wife
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    where I'm like, "Well, what if I just work an extra year?"
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    Most of us always had the conversation of,
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    we get to 55 and you're going to retire.
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    And so you're worried about that retirement thing.
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    And I'm like, if that's one of the things
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    that I hold sacred, like, I can work another year,
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    like, for this community.
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    So to think of me laboring that last year for God,
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    like, that's really cool.
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    Like, literally this is a continuous process.
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    I don't ever want to be out of the stream.
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    When God brings an open door, I want to be there.
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    And I've never not seen that return come back.
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    You know, I've never not seen it.
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    And I don't do it as an investment.
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    I do it in faith.
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    But I also know that, like,
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    He's going to open up doors for us, you know,
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    because we're faithful with what He's given.
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    I just don't want to go bury it.
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    When I think about this, The Push, right,
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    or it's a 10X.
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    What I love about it is that we're not settling.
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    I'm always a person that wants to see what's next,
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    and I don't ever want to be a person
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    that's stopping growing, and with Crossroads,
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    this is exactly what's happening, right?
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    Like, we individually need to grow,
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    but so does the organization.
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    We need to continue to grow and push and evolve
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    and make the changes required to have
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    the biggest impact.
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    And just, I mean, it's an exciting time to be part of it.
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    - Yeah, that's amazing, isn't it?
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    I love that story.
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    So many incredible things in there.
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    The thing that challenges me the most about it,
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    and maybe the one that challenges you,
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    he says he's giving away an entire year's salary.
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    Crazy, extravagant, isn't it?
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    And by the way, my name is Kyle if we've never met before.
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    Welcome to week four of the 10X Push.
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    This is our Journey that we're on as a church,
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    where we feel like God's calling us
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    to have a 10X impact on the Kingdom of God
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    for the Kingdom of God over these next ten years.
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    That was about one of the territories
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    that we feel God's calling us to invest in
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    called immersive sites.
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    Now, in that category, there's so many things.
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    I'm not going to get into them with you,
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    but we do feel that God's calling us
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    to be in ten cities in the next ten years.
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    If you want to know more about that project
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    or any of the other ones,
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    absolutely grab the brochure on your way out
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    or attend and or I should say,
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    attend a mission briefing, whatever site you are,
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    whatever service right after
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    or tomorrow night with me online.
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    Let's pray before we go any further today.
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    God, thank You so much for this time.
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    I'm asking that you would use every second
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    to push us closer to You
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    and the life You have for us. Amen.
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    This is week four of The Push.
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    Last week was week three, and Brian talked about
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    how part of the call of God when you follow Him
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    is to put everything on the table.
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    He said, God's call is to do hard things,
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    and the hardest thing you'll ever do is to say,
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    "God, everything I have, everything I am, is Yours."
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    And so Brian had a box, and he got some things out
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    that represented the things that are
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    most important to him and and surrendering to God.
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    And I don't know if you noticed this part,
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    but he put me on the table. Did you catch that?
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    And his representation was a tiny Harry Potter Lego,
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    not so veiled short joke.
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    And in the time since then, many of you have asked me.
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    You've said, "Kyle, what are you going to do
  • 00:30:36
    to retaliate?" [laughter]
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    Guys, I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I'm not.
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    I'm not.
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    The Bible says to pray for those who persecute you
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    and to love your enemies.
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    And also, Brian's my boss, and I'm not an idiot,
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    so I'm not going to do that.
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    I do want to honor him in the same way, though.
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    You know, Brian is very important to me,
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    and you got to put the important things on the table.
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    So I was just trying to think about,
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    you know, what would honor Brian?
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    Not make fun of him. You know, no old jokes,
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    nothing like that, want to stay away from that.
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    What would really honor Brian?
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    I was thinking about Brian's wisdom.
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    You know what I mean? He's got such incredible wisdom,
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    and we rely on it so much.
  • 00:31:12
    And so I thought maybe just to represent
  • 00:31:14
    Brian's wisdom, maybe like a Gandalf Lego figure,
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    you know? Maybe that's what we should go with.
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    But then, maybe you see the obvious problem, right?
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    It's like, he might think it's an old joke
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    because the gray beard
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    and how Gandalf is thousands of years old.
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    So I thought, that's not -- probably not the way to go.
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    Maybe it's not wisdom.
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    Maybe it's something that represents
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    Brian's strength and his power.
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    Like a -- like a dinosaur, right?
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    Yeah, you see it, right? Again. Problem.
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    He might mistakenly think I was saying he was ancient,
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    prehistoric even. So that's not --
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    That's not going to work.
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    So then I thought, you know what?
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    What would communicate to him
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    how much we all rely on him?
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    How I really depend on him in my life for advice
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    and for wisdom, and I know a lot of us do.
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    And so I thought maybe the thing that really
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    just communicates the value is Depends.
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    So anyway, it's been a real honor being your Lead Pastor.
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    You're never going to see me again after this.
  • 00:32:13
    So good luck on The Push.
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    Really praying for you. Really rooting for you
  • 00:32:21
    In all honesty, a number of years ago
  • 00:32:23
    we were in a conversation, smaller group of us,
  • 00:32:25
    and we were talking just about some of
  • 00:32:27
    the behind the scenes things
  • 00:32:28
    and stuff going on in our lives.
  • 00:32:30
    And in this smaller group of people,
  • 00:32:31
    our CFO Season, she turned and she looked at Brian
  • 00:32:35
    and she said, "You know, you are
  • 00:32:36
    the most generous person I know."
  • 00:32:38
    It caught me off guard. I was like, wow.
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    Like, I know that about Brian, I know that.
  • 00:32:44
    But Season sees and knows everything and she says that.
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    And I say that not so that you'll go, "Whoa, wow."
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    But because you need to know that this Journey
  • 00:32:56
    that we're going on, where we're raising our hands
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    and we're saying, "God, you can push me.
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    I want the 10X life,
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    and if that means You push me financially,
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    if that means You push me sacrificially,
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    if that means You push me on generosity,
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    I'm okay with it." It's critical that you know
  • 00:33:10
    this is not a thing that we're saying,
  • 00:33:12
    "Hey, all of you should really consider that."
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    This is the thing that we're doing personally,
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    me, Brian, the leaders at Crossroads in our lives.
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    Now, today, I'm going to take the next step. Right?
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    Because step one is to say, "God,
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    everything I have is yours.
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    You can have whatever you want."
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    But then there's the next question, which is,
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    what do you want, God?
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    It starts at that point to have a conversation.
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    And my goal today is to help equip you
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    for that conversation.
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    Sometimes I think you can come into a church
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    and especially a financial campaign.
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    It's kind of a season like this where we're asking for money,
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    and you might think there's a secret, hidden agenda.
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    Well, one, I hope you haven't felt that
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    at all in this Push.
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    And two, I'm just going to tell you
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    exactly what my agenda is for you today.
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    This is it right here.
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    My agenda is to help you hear what God says
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    resoundingly through Scripture, to equip you
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    to talk to Him specifically about your own stuff,
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    in hopes that you give Him your heart entirely.
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    That's the whole point of today.
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    How do you have that conversation with Him?
  • 00:34:15
    Now I have a bet, which is that
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    that conversation is already going on in your head.
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    If you did the put your stuff on the --
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    Put all your stuff on the table exercise,
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    or if you balked at it. Same thing.
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    It's because you're having this internal conversation.
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    The conversation sounds something like,
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    "Man, I can't give away that,
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    or it'd be foolish to sacrifice this,
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    or God, please, please don't ask me for that."
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    That's the conversation that we're having.
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    How do I know that?
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    Because that's the one I've been having
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    inside of my own heart, doing some real wrestling
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    over the course of this Push.
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    You know, when I got promoted to lead pastor last year,
  • 00:34:52
    Brian gave me a raise.
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    That's probably not a surprise to any of you.
  • 00:34:55
    When you get a promotion at work,
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    you get a raise. I got a raise.
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    And he set me up with a financial planner
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    and he said, "Hey, I really want you to go
  • 00:35:02
    and just listen to this guy.
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    And whatever he says to do,
  • 00:35:04
    you should probably just do it."
  • 00:35:06
    And so I did, and I went and I listened.
  • 00:35:07
    And the guy basically said, "Well, you know,
  • 00:35:09
    you need to up your retirement savings
  • 00:35:12
    if you want to be able to retire at all someday.
  • 00:35:14
    If you want to send your kids to college
  • 00:35:16
    and help with any of that, you really got
  • 00:35:17
    to get aggressive on college savings."
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    And so I did that, took every cent of my raise,
  • 00:35:21
    plus some all went there.
  • 00:35:24
    And, um, you know, I think about this, right?
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    I go, "God, what do you want?
  • 00:35:28
    Do you want that stuff I just invested in?
  • 00:35:30
    My oldest is 14 years old.
  • 00:35:32
    God, wouldn't it be stupid to put
  • 00:35:35
    the college savings on the on the table?"
  • 00:35:39
    I think about some of our house improvements.
  • 00:35:41
    You guys have heard me talk about my house before.
  • 00:35:43
    We bought this fixer upper 6, 7 years ago.
  • 00:35:45
    I've been working on it.
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    Inside the first six months, I thought
  • 00:35:48
    the first thing I would do is convert the garage
  • 00:35:50
    into a master bedroom for Sarah and I.
  • 00:35:52
    And 6, 7 years later, it still hasn't happened.
  • 00:35:55
    Which means that we share one upstairs bathroom
  • 00:35:58
    with all three of our kids,
  • 00:35:59
    two of which are middle school boys.
  • 00:36:02
    If you've ever been in a bathroom
  • 00:36:04
    used by two middle school boys, oh my gosh.
  • 00:36:08
    It'd be cleaner if I just drove to Base Camp
  • 00:36:10
    and just bathed in the cow pond, right?
  • 00:36:12
    Like it's disgusting. Like, God, surely
  • 00:36:15
    You wouldn't ask me for that, would You?
  • 00:36:17
    And then I'm going through
  • 00:36:18
    the put everything on the table exercise.
  • 00:36:20
    And the last thing on the list,
  • 00:36:21
    I think is supposed to be a joke.
  • 00:36:23
    It says my actual table, except for me,
  • 00:36:26
    two weekends ago, I went shopping for wood
  • 00:36:28
    to build a new table and I was like, "Really?
  • 00:36:31
    Put that on the table, all of it?"
  • 00:36:34
    This is where I've been.
  • 00:36:35
    And the question I keep coming back
  • 00:36:37
    to the thought in my head is,
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    "God, isn't what I've already done,
  • 00:36:41
    isn't what I'm already doing, isn't it good enough?"
  • 00:36:44
    And I wanted today to tell you
  • 00:36:46
    exactly what I have been doing.
  • 00:36:47
    I want to be very transparent, very vulnerable with you.
  • 00:36:49
    That's our goal every day at Crossroads.
  • 00:36:51
    But with giving, it's not something that we're used to.
  • 00:36:54
    I'm actually going to share with you
  • 00:36:55
    what I've been giving over the course of my adult life.
  • 00:36:59
    And it's important to hear this really clearly.
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    The Bible says in Matthew 6,
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    which is what we're going to examine today.
  • 00:37:04
    That's going to be our core Scripture.
  • 00:37:06
    Jesus says very clearly in there:
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    don't tell people what you're giving.
  • 00:37:11
    Let it be done in secret so that
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    you're not doing it to get praise from people.
  • 00:37:16
    It's very clear instruction in there.
  • 00:37:18
    I want to be very, very clear, that's about motivation.
  • 00:37:21
    And my motivation, as far as I can see,
  • 00:37:23
    is not to get your praise.
  • 00:37:25
    That is not what I'm after.
  • 00:37:26
    I would rather not tell you about my giving.
  • 00:37:29
    Super would rather not do that.
  • 00:37:30
    That's not my motivation.
  • 00:37:31
    See, on the other side of that though,
  • 00:37:33
    the Bible also gives many, many, many examples
  • 00:37:36
    of very specific giving, usually from leaders.
  • 00:37:40
    Five times in his writing, Paul actually says,
  • 00:37:42
    "Follow me as I follow Christ."
  • 00:37:44
    There's something for me, I go, you know,
  • 00:37:46
    I think it'd be a pretty crappy lead pastor
  • 00:37:48
    if I was talking to you about giving,
  • 00:37:49
    and I wasn't willing to talk to you
  • 00:37:51
    about where I've been, where I am, and where I'm going.
  • 00:37:53
    Because it relates to this feeling that I have
  • 00:37:55
    that I'm willing to bet you have too of,
  • 00:37:57
    God, isn't what I've already done,
  • 00:37:59
    isn't what I'm doing good enough?
  • 00:38:03
    Sarah and I got married about 19 years, 18 years ago.
  • 00:38:06
    And when we got married, Sarah came with two things:
  • 00:38:09
    a cat and a campaign commitment. Crazy campaign.
  • 00:38:13
    Now, praise God I got rid of the cat
  • 00:38:15
    without spending any money.
  • 00:38:16
    Praise Him. Man it's beautiful.
  • 00:38:18
    Second thing, though, we had to pay off
  • 00:38:21
    thousands of dollars, that campaign commitment.
  • 00:38:24
    We also started tithing together,
  • 00:38:25
    giving away 10% of our gross income
  • 00:38:27
    every single month at the very beginning of our marriage.
  • 00:38:30
    About four years into our marriage,
  • 00:38:32
    Crossroads did the Game Change Campaign.
  • 00:38:34
    At that point, my salary was $48,000
  • 00:38:37
    and God called us to give away $12,000.
  • 00:38:40
    That felt crazy. Insane.
  • 00:38:43
    It was like, how are we going to eat food?
  • 00:38:45
    How is this going to work?
  • 00:38:46
    In the midst of paying that off,
  • 00:38:47
    we actually had to sell our house,
  • 00:38:49
    downsize by $100,000 our mortgage to be able
  • 00:38:52
    to continue to give our tithe
  • 00:38:55
    and to give above and beyond our tithe.
  • 00:38:58
    Just for five years after that, 2015,
  • 00:39:00
    the I'm In Campaign came up and we felt
  • 00:39:02
    God called us to give $50,000 to that.
  • 00:39:05
    That was half of our complete
  • 00:39:07
    total household income at the time.
  • 00:39:10
    Since then, we've continued to give
  • 00:39:12
    above and beyond the tithe.
  • 00:39:13
    We've done that for about the last 15 years
  • 00:39:15
    as a regular thing.
  • 00:39:16
    We give more than 10% of our income away.
  • 00:39:18
    Two years ago, we gave a chunk of money
  • 00:39:20
    to the Dayton Building campaign.
  • 00:39:22
    Last year, we gave five figures to a campaign
  • 00:39:24
    at a church that a friend of mine leads.
  • 00:39:27
    I just say all this to go, like,
  • 00:39:28
    this feeling that I have is, God, isn't that enough?
  • 00:39:33
    And as you hear that, I don't know what you think.
  • 00:39:35
    I don't know what you think about that.
  • 00:39:37
    Maybe you give more, maybe you give less.
  • 00:39:39
    Maybe you give. It doesn't matter.
  • 00:39:40
    The point is, no matter what you do right now,
  • 00:39:43
    there is a voice that's telling you the same thing:
  • 00:39:45
    Isn't it good enough? Isn't it good enough?
  • 00:39:49
    Step back from my life and I go, you know
  • 00:39:51
    the reason that I'm behind on college savings,
  • 00:39:52
    I gave all that money away.
  • 00:39:55
    You're sitting on my kids college savings.
  • 00:39:58
    Literally.
  • 00:39:59
    In 2015, the average price of a seat at a new site
  • 00:40:03
    was $10,000 per seat. We bought five of them.
  • 00:40:06
    You're sitting on it. God, isn't it? Isn't it good enough?
  • 00:40:10
    Isn't it good enough?
  • 00:40:11
    Now we're all hearing that same voice for a reason.
  • 00:40:15
    It's because when we start looking at our money,
  • 00:40:18
    when we invite God to have a conversation with us,
  • 00:40:21
    another voice butts in and wants to talk too.
  • 00:40:24
    See, there are two voices who want to talk to you
  • 00:40:27
    about your money. Two voices.
  • 00:40:30
    They're in direct opposition
  • 00:40:31
    and there can be one winner. No ties.
  • 00:40:35
    Well, winner of what? Not a winner of your money,
  • 00:40:38
    but of your heart.
  • 00:40:41
    So which one wins it?
  • 00:40:43
    Well, according to Jesus,
  • 00:40:45
    it's the one that has your treasure.
  • 00:40:47
    This is what He says in Matthew 6.
  • 00:40:49
    Now, I mentioned this verse very quickly
  • 00:40:51
    in week one of The Push, but we're going to
  • 00:40:52
    dig into it today. Matthew 6.
  • 00:40:55
    This is where Jesus does the Lord's Prayer.
  • 00:40:56
    This is one of the central verses we're looking at.
  • 00:40:58
    This idea of of heaven coming on earth,
  • 00:41:01
    that there could be 10X better than what we thought.
  • 00:41:03
    It's baked inside of the Lord's Prayer.
  • 00:41:05
    But if you look at the context of
  • 00:41:07
    the Lord's Prayer, it's actually giving in money.
  • 00:41:09
    Here's a chart, just a color coded chart of Matthew 6.
  • 00:41:13
    It's basically got three different sections
  • 00:41:15
    and two subjects.
  • 00:41:16
    At the top the very first section is about giving
  • 00:41:19
    and money right out of the gate,
  • 00:41:20
    then how to have a conversation with God,
  • 00:41:22
    and then more stuff about giving and money.
  • 00:41:25
    And today I want to focus in on the first part
  • 00:41:28
    of that second section where Jesus talks about
  • 00:41:31
    giving and talks about money.
  • 00:41:34
    He starts this way. Matthew 6:19, He says:
  • 00:41:56
    He says, will be, not might be, not could be,
  • 00:41:58
    not probably is. He says will be.
  • 00:42:00
    And He says there's only two choices
  • 00:42:02
    of where to put your treasure: It's on earth or it's in heaven.
  • 00:42:05
    Two choices of where to place it.
  • 00:42:07
    See where you place your treasure
  • 00:42:09
    determines who has your heart.
  • 00:42:12
    And then, right after these two choices,
  • 00:42:14
    He starts talking about two visions.
  • 00:42:15
    Very next verse He says:
  • 00:42:21
    -- what you see, what your vision is --
  • 00:42:28
    Talks about two visions. Why?
  • 00:42:30
    Because whoever has your heart sets your vision.
  • 00:42:34
    Those two visions, good and bad,
  • 00:42:35
    if you go to the original language,
  • 00:42:37
    it dials it in a little more clearly.
  • 00:42:38
    Good means singularly focused, as in on His kingdom.
  • 00:42:43
    He says a little bit later,
  • 00:42:44
    Seek first the kingdom of God,
  • 00:42:46
    and everything else will be added to you.
  • 00:42:48
    It's that kind of vision.
  • 00:42:49
    And bad means a bunch of chaos, full of labors
  • 00:42:53
    and hardships and annoyances,
  • 00:42:55
    in other words, focused on the worries of today.
  • 00:42:57
    The things that say, you know,
  • 00:42:59
    I could never give that away because
  • 00:43:00
    I've got to deal with all of these things.
  • 00:43:02
    That's what bad means.
  • 00:43:04
    And He concludes it this way:
  • 00:43:21
    He says whoever sets your vision,
  • 00:43:23
    that's your true master.
  • 00:43:24
    Two choices: God and mammon,
  • 00:43:27
    which means you can actually shorten all of this
  • 00:43:29
    to just one sentence.
  • 00:43:31
    This one right here, right here, right here.
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    Wait. No. Okay, whatever didn't work.
  • 00:43:41
    There it is. Okay, good.
  • 00:43:44
    Whoever you listen to about your treasure
  • 00:43:47
    is your true God.
  • 00:43:48
    That's basically what He's saying.
  • 00:43:50
    And that might sound extreme to you.
  • 00:43:52
    That might sound kind of crazy.
  • 00:43:53
    You're like, "Really? I thought --
  • 00:43:55
    I thought mammon meant money,
  • 00:43:57
    because a lot of Bible translations
  • 00:43:58
    this is how it's translated.
  • 00:44:00
    It doesn't say mammon, it says money or wealth,
  • 00:44:03
    but that's not the word. Why do I think that?
  • 00:44:05
    Because Jesus spoke the common language
  • 00:44:08
    and the common language of the day, Aramaic,
  • 00:44:10
    there was lots of words for money,
  • 00:44:12
    just like we have dollars, bucks, cash, coin, whatever.
  • 00:44:15
    They have the same exact thing.
  • 00:44:16
    Jesus could have chosen any of those words,
  • 00:44:18
    but He didn't. Instead, He chose this word mammon.
  • 00:44:22
    Second reason I think that is because money is neutral.
  • 00:44:25
    20 bucks in your pocket, it doesn't have an agenda.
  • 00:44:28
    It's just 20 bucks.
  • 00:44:29
    You can do something with it or not.
  • 00:44:31
    But when Jesus talks about mammon,
  • 00:44:33
    very clearly He says this thing wants to be your master.
  • 00:44:37
    That means it has an agenda for your life.
  • 00:44:39
    It wants to direct you and it wants to steer you.
  • 00:44:41
    In fact, the word mammon, it means
  • 00:44:44
    that in which one trusts.
  • 00:44:47
    Mammon says, "You can trust me. I'll take care of you.
  • 00:44:50
    I'll tell you what to do with your money.
  • 00:44:51
    If you trust me, I'll give you all the things
  • 00:44:53
    that God says He can give you. He really can't.
  • 00:44:56
    He's too dangerous, but but I can.
  • 00:44:58
    You can trust me."
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    That's why I say mammon is a false god.
  • 00:45:02
    In fact, if you Google mammon,
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    this is the image search that will come up.
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    This is exactly what you'll see.
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    It's a false god. It's an idol.
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    False gods just whatever promises things
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    that only God can deliver. That's what it does.
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    It promises you security.
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    Have you ever heard this spoken in your mind,
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    "Man, if I just had X dollars set aside, then I'd be safe.
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    Then I'd be set, then I'd be secure"?
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    Promises to you, identity.
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    Man, if I just had a house in that neighborhood,
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    if I could just afford that car.
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    Just make a little bit more money,
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    just save a little bit more money,
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    then I'd be something. I'd be a success.
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    Promises you happiness.
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    Man, our marriage right now,
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    a lot of our fights are about money.
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    If we just had a little bit more money,
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    then we would be happy.
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    If that's what you've heard or believed,
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    I just want to gently suggest to you
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    maybe you haven't heard the voice of God,
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    maybe you've heard the voice of the false god,
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    mammon is after your trust.
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    This, by the way, this is, like me and Brian
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    will never tell you what to give.
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    You're not going to hear us do that.
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    We're not going to give you a number.
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    That does happen in some churches.
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    That's not what we're doing because
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    you're not needing to hear from us.
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    You're needing to hear from God.
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    We're not your God. I don't know your heart.
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    I don't know what's in there. God does.
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    Goal today is to help you have a conversation with Him,
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    to hear from Him.
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    Now, the number one way to listen to God
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    is to examine what He has already resoundingly
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    and clearly said in Scripture.
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    If, when it comes to giving, you're waiting on God
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    to tell you something other than what He's said
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    or to tell you you're the exception,
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    it's not going to happen. It's not.
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    Read a verse later on where God says,
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    "I do not change."
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    Whatever is written is what's still in place.
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    And so what does God say about giving?
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    Well, I think there's actually some levels
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    of giving that He outlines,
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    a biblical chart of giving, so to speak.
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    The first level I'll call common giving.
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    It's not the word that the Bible uses exactly,
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    but it's my kind of summation of
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    what the Bible describes as common giving.
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    Stuff that's normal,
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    stuff that most every single person does.
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    You know, 20 bucks here, a percent or two
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    of your income there, a generous tip or whatever.
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    It's common giving.
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    But what does God say about it?
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    He says this, Hebrews 13:16, God says:
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    Do not forget to do good and to share with others,
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    for with such sacrifices God is pleased.
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    So if you practice common giving, good news,
  • 00:47:31
    God says, great, that's awesome.
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    But He also would say clearly to you,
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    that's awesome. While I like it,
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    I just want you to know it has nothing to do
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    with God having your heart. Why?
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    Well, because that kind of giving is giving
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    when you do it, when you feel like it,
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    it's usually emotionally driven,
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    sometimes by guilt, sometimes by happiness,
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    whatever it is. But when you feel like it.
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    It doesn't require any level of faith because
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    it doesn't actually impact your bottom line.
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    It's because you're giving out of your excess
  • 00:47:55
    or another way of saying, your last.
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    The beginning of giving God your heart
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    is when you give Him your first.
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    You know, God actually says in the Bible
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    that the first of everything is His.
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    Here's one example in Exodus 13:
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    And mine is emphatic.
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    In the original language it is absolute soul ownership.
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    In fact, God says His claim on the first
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    is so strong that you could accurately say
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    God cannot be second.
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    You might go, "What? He can't be second?
  • 00:48:32
    Can't God do anything?" No, He can't.
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    Another example God says He is love in the Bible,
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    which means God cannot be unloving.
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    Same thing, God says He is first,
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    therefore He cannot be second,
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    and He can't be tied for first
  • 00:48:48
    because that's not sole ownership.
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    God and Ricky Bobby agree,
  • 00:48:53
    if you ain't first, you're last. Same thing.
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    That's basically what Jesus is saying
  • 00:48:58
    when He says you can't serve God and mammon.
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    God wants your first.
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    Well, how much is your first?
  • 00:49:05
    This is an answer that becomes
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    resoundingly clear in Scripture.
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    The first time we see it is Genesis 14,
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    where the father of faith, Abraham,
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    goes to the priest Melchizedek,
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    and he gives him 10% off the top of everything.
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    It's a principle that comes to be known as tithing,
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    returning the first 10% of all of your income,
  • 00:49:24
    all of your increase to God.
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    Tithing is giving Him your first.
  • 00:49:27
    And I know there are people who will say,
  • 00:49:29
    you know, that's part of the Old Testament law.
  • 00:49:31
    And so, good news, no longer applies.
  • 00:49:33
    We don't have to do that because Jesus came
  • 00:49:34
    and He fulfilled the law.
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    It's like eating bacon or getting tattoos,
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    you know, we can do that stuff now. It's awesome.
  • 00:49:41
    You can eat tattooed bacon if you want to. Great.
  • 00:49:45
    It's a wonderful sentiment and I wish it were true,
  • 00:49:48
    but it's very clearly not. Why?
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    Because tithing is in the law,
  • 00:49:54
    but it's not only in the law.
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    It supersedes it. It's before and it's after.
  • 00:50:00
    It's one of God's ordinances.
  • 00:50:02
    An ordinance is a principle of ordinary behavior
  • 00:50:06
    for people who follow God.
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    Not murdering is another one.
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    Yes, it's in the law,
  • 00:50:10
    right smack dab in the Ten Commandments:
  • 00:50:12
    Do not murder.
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    But way before the law, principle of ordinary behavior,
  • 00:50:16
    Cain and Abel, God says really clearly,
  • 00:50:19
    "I don't want you to kill other people."
  • 00:50:21
    And it's reinforced.
  • 00:50:23
    This is tithing, way before the law.
  • 00:50:26
    That scene where Abraham gives 10% to Melchizedek,
  • 00:50:28
    that happens 430 years before the law.
  • 00:50:33
    And way after Jesus affirms the tithe.
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    Matthew 23:23 He says:
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    In other words, you're going like, "Yeah,
  • 00:50:43
    you give all your money.
  • 00:50:44
    But even every time someone gives you
  • 00:50:45
    a little bit of a spice which has value in their day,
  • 00:50:47
    you take 10% of that, weigh it out and give it to God.
  • 00:50:50
    You've done that."
  • 00:51:01
    In other words, he goes,
  • 00:51:02
    "You should have been doing all of it."
  • 00:51:03
    This is where I'd say if you want to take
  • 00:51:05
    the attitude and the approach
  • 00:51:07
    that you're a New Testament person.
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    Awesome, I am too.
  • 00:51:11
    You should just read the words of Jesus
  • 00:51:12
    in the New Testament, because again and again
  • 00:51:14
    and again, He does what He does here.
  • 00:51:16
    He doesn't lower the bar, He raises the bar.
  • 00:51:19
    He goes, "You've heard it said, love your neighbor.
  • 00:51:22
    Well, I say, love your enemy.
  • 00:51:23
    You've heard it said, do not murder.
  • 00:51:25
    Well, I say, don't even get angry
  • 00:51:26
    with somebody inside of your heart."
  • 00:51:29
    That's what Jesus does. He raises the bar.
  • 00:51:32
    Okay, but why would you give 10% to your church?
  • 00:51:35
    This is a great question that we need to examine,
  • 00:51:37
    need to ask and see what Scripture says.
  • 00:51:39
    Why give 10% to your church?
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    Why not give 10% to whatever select nonprofits
  • 00:51:44
    that you want to do? It's a great question.
  • 00:51:47
    The answer would be, first,
  • 00:51:48
    God's clear instructions over and over again
  • 00:51:50
    in Scripture are to communally,
  • 00:51:52
    for His people to communally pool our resources
  • 00:51:55
    and entrust them to spiritual leaders
  • 00:51:58
    who are held to account again and again and again.
  • 00:52:02
    Exodus 23 God says:
  • 00:52:09
    We see this in the Old Testament.
  • 00:52:10
    Tithes were brought in to the temple
  • 00:52:12
    and given to the Levites, entrusted to them.
  • 00:52:14
    In the New Testament we see this.
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    All the offerings, all the tithes,
  • 00:52:18
    are brought to the apostles and laid at their feet,
  • 00:52:20
    entrusted to them who are held to account.
  • 00:52:22
    And then secondly, I'll just say this,
  • 00:52:23
    even if that weren't true.
  • 00:52:24
    On a really practical level,
  • 00:52:26
    when you give to a healthy church,
  • 00:52:29
    it's like giving to a very carefully managed mutual fund.
  • 00:52:33
    See, we take wise stewardship incredibly seriously,
  • 00:52:36
    incredibly seriously.
  • 00:52:37
    And I would just gently propose to you that
  • 00:52:39
    you have a really hard time matching our rigor
  • 00:52:42
    and therefore our return.
  • 00:52:44
    And yes, we do pay attention to our return.
  • 00:52:46
    Jesus again and again in the Bible,
  • 00:52:48
    a lot of His parables about money
  • 00:52:50
    are about a return that He wants from our lives.
  • 00:52:53
    And so we look at this stuff.
  • 00:52:55
    One example is baptisms.
  • 00:52:56
    By the way, if you got baptized today,
  • 00:52:58
    congratulations!
  • 00:52:59
    We had baptisms at all of our sites.
  • 00:53:02
    Absolutely amazing.
  • 00:53:04
    The number I saw was 197 people
  • 00:53:07
    are going to be baptized just this weekend.
  • 00:53:10
    197, crazy!
  • 00:53:13
    Now what's even more mind blowing to me
  • 00:53:16
    is that for the year, if you add those 197
  • 00:53:18
    to what have been baptized since January 1st,
  • 00:53:20
    we're at 2002 baptisms for the year, in ten months.
  • 00:53:25
    That's that's more in ten months
  • 00:53:28
    than we've ever had in 12 months.
  • 00:53:30
    But that's not return. That's not return.
  • 00:53:34
    What do we spend on that?
  • 00:53:36
    Well, let me tell you before I tell you that,
  • 00:53:38
    let me say that the average cost per baptism
  • 00:53:39
    according to the Center of Christianity,
  • 00:53:42
    global study is $1.5 million.
  • 00:53:45
    That's the average return.
  • 00:53:47
    In other words, all the money a church spends
  • 00:53:49
    divided by the number of people they see baptized,
  • 00:53:51
    it's $1.5 million. Well, what's our return?
  • 00:53:55
    We've got to start with what we spent. Right?
  • 00:53:57
    January 1st to October 30th we've spent
  • 00:54:00
    $65,383,401.78.
  • 00:54:05
    If you divide that by 2002,
  • 00:54:07
    that's $32,659.04 per baptism,
  • 00:54:11
    which is a 45.9x better return than the average.
  • 00:54:17
    See, Jesus said aim for 30, aim for 60, aim for 100x.
  • 00:54:22
    Well good news, I hope,
  • 00:54:24
    your church currently sits right between 30 and 60
  • 00:54:27
    and we'd like to take that number higher.
  • 00:54:30
    We measure this stuff. We're transparent.
  • 00:54:34
    And listen, please, please hear -- Hear me.
  • 00:54:37
    Hear my heart on this.
  • 00:54:38
    If you hear all that and you're sitting
  • 00:54:41
    and you're going, "Man, I just --
  • 00:54:43
    I just don't trust you. I just don't believe it."
  • 00:54:47
    Okay. That bums me out personally,
  • 00:54:50
    but can I give you some advice?
  • 00:54:51
    I want God's best for you.
  • 00:54:53
    If you don't trust us. Okay.
  • 00:54:56
    Go find a church you do trust.
  • 00:54:58
    And wherever it is, bring your tithe there.
  • 00:55:01
    I want you to have God's best.
  • 00:55:03
    If that means leaving, that's okay.
  • 00:55:05
    Get His best for you, and that means
  • 00:55:07
    giving Him your first.
  • 00:55:09
    He hasn't changed on it.
  • 00:55:11
    He said this really specifically, by the way,
  • 00:55:13
    right before He talked about tithing.
  • 00:55:14
    Malachi 3:6h, one of the classic places
  • 00:55:17
    where He really zeroes in on tithing. He says:
  • 00:55:40
    God's response.
  • 00:55:55
    And then the mind blowing part is
  • 00:55:57
    this is God's next line.
  • 00:56:09
    This is the part in the Bible I read,
  • 00:56:10
    I'm like, "God, you're such a better parent than me."
  • 00:56:13
    When I find out my kids are doing stuff I don't want,
  • 00:56:16
    I don't walk up to them and go, "Honey,
  • 00:56:19
    test me in this.
  • 00:56:21
    See if I will not throw open the floodgates
  • 00:56:23
    of the Ranson bank accounts and --" No.
  • 00:56:26
    I'm like, "Get in line or you've lost
  • 00:56:28
    TV for the rest of your life." You know?
  • 00:56:31
    That's not God. God's a positive reward parent.
  • 00:56:34
    I want you to hear that clearly.
  • 00:56:36
    I'm not after condemnation for you.
  • 00:56:38
    Wherever you are in your journey,
  • 00:56:40
    I'm not after condemnation for you.
  • 00:56:41
    I don't think God is either.
  • 00:56:42
    It's not condemnation, it's an invitation.
  • 00:56:44
    God says, "Would you step in?
  • 00:56:45
    Because if you will, if you'll give Me your first,
  • 00:56:47
    you're going to get My best."
  • 00:56:50
    It's giving Him your first,
  • 00:56:51
    putting Him first in your heart.
  • 00:56:53
    I started tithing 20 years ago.
  • 00:56:55
    I was 23 years old. I was living with my parents.
  • 00:56:57
    Not excited about that, by the way.
  • 00:56:59
    And tithing meant that I had to continue
  • 00:57:01
    to live with my parents.
  • 00:57:02
    It was not an easy decision, but it was very simple.
  • 00:57:06
    I just decided I wanted God to be first in my heart.
  • 00:57:11
    But that tithing stuff, that first,
  • 00:57:12
    that's just a starting spot for biblical giving.
  • 00:57:15
    There's actually layers and levels beyond tithes.
  • 00:57:18
    In Malachi we got a clue to that.
  • 00:57:20
    Malachi talked about tithes, plural.
  • 00:57:21
    Because every single time you get paid,
  • 00:57:24
    you give the first 10% of that back to God.
  • 00:57:27
    He said tithes, plural,
  • 00:57:28
    but he also talked about offerings, plural.
  • 00:57:31
    And there's two levels to offering.
  • 00:57:32
    The first level is what I do with what's my own.
  • 00:57:36
    See, it's actually most biblically accurate
  • 00:57:38
    to say that true generosity starts above the tithe.
  • 00:57:43
    Why? Well, because God said the tithe,
  • 00:57:45
    the 10% is His and you can't give what's not yours,
  • 00:57:49
    you can return it.
  • 00:57:50
    Actually, the Bible never, ever says give your tithe.
  • 00:57:53
    Always it says return the tithe to God.
  • 00:57:57
    See, generosity starts with what I do with my 90%,
  • 00:58:00
    what I do with my own.
  • 00:58:02
    We see so many examples of this throughout the Bible.
  • 00:58:04
    One of the ones that I think is most powerful
  • 00:58:06
    has to do with the ministry of Jesus.
  • 00:58:08
    I don't know if you think about this,
  • 00:58:09
    but He had a cost of business,
  • 00:58:12
    going around, going to towns.
  • 00:58:14
    There was lodging, there was food.
  • 00:58:15
    I'm sure somebody's sandals broke.
  • 00:58:16
    Peter's probably broke all the time,
  • 00:58:18
    had to buy him new sandals.
  • 00:58:19
    There was a cost to it.
  • 00:58:21
    And so somebody had to fund it.
  • 00:58:23
    We hear who and how in Luke 8. It says:
  • 00:58:46
    These are good Jewish women.
  • 00:58:48
    Their tithe had been entrusted
  • 00:58:50
    to the Levites in the temple.
  • 00:58:52
    That was already gone.
  • 00:58:53
    Out of their own means, meaning out of their 90%.
  • 00:58:56
    Sarah and I have been doing this
  • 00:58:58
    for about the last 15 years or so,
  • 00:58:59
    and I'll tell you, to be honest,
  • 00:59:01
    we've never heard God say, "You know,
  • 00:59:03
    I'd like a couple more percent." Never heard that.
  • 00:59:05
    It's just out of a heart of gratitude for God
  • 00:59:08
    we said, "God, we want to be generous.
  • 00:59:10
    You've been so generous to us.
  • 00:59:11
    And so we don't want to stop at the tithe.
  • 00:59:13
    We want to reflect on a continual,
  • 00:59:15
    constant day in, day out, week in, week out,
  • 00:59:18
    month in, month out basis
  • 00:59:19
    Your heart of generosity back to You."
  • 00:59:22
    That's an offering.
  • 00:59:23
    But there's actually a level above offerings
  • 00:59:26
    called extravagant offerings.
  • 00:59:28
    This is not just when you give God your first
  • 00:59:31
    or give God out of your own.
  • 00:59:33
    This is when you give God your all.
  • 00:59:35
    And I think this is the point where that voice
  • 00:59:37
    for many of us starts to speak.
  • 00:59:39
    Isn't what you've already done,
  • 00:59:41
    isn't what you're doing, isn't it good enough?
  • 00:59:44
    And in response, I'd say, you know,
  • 00:59:45
    there are some things in life
  • 00:59:47
    where good enough is good enough.
  • 00:59:49
    One putts inside of five feet.
  • 00:59:51
    Can we just make it a rule in golf,
  • 00:59:54
    "Good enough, man. Pick up your ball.
  • 00:59:56
    It's not the Masters.
  • 00:59:57
    I want you to keep moving,
  • 00:59:58
    especially if you're in front of me.
  • 00:59:59
    Just it's good. I'll call it from the tee box.
  • 01:00:01
    Pick it up. You're fine."
  • 01:00:03
    Putts in five inside of five feet, that's good enough.
  • 01:00:05
    Middle names. If you're a young parent
  • 01:00:07
    and you're stressing out over picking
  • 01:00:09
    a middle name for your kid, do not.
  • 01:00:10
    You'll never use it.
  • 01:00:11
    Just pick one, you know, randomly
  • 01:00:14
    and just go move on with your life, good enough.
  • 01:00:17
    There's also some spots in life
  • 01:00:18
    where good enough is not good enough.
  • 01:00:21
    Skydiving, for instance.
  • 01:00:24
    Not really good enough is good enough place.
  • 01:00:27
    Vasectomies. Okay, not --
  • 01:00:29
    Not really looking for a good enough vasectomy, right?
  • 01:00:32
    And giving God all of your heart.
  • 01:00:36
    There's not a good enough is good enough here.
  • 01:00:37
    It's either all or it's not all.
  • 01:00:40
    That's why the herd thins at this level.
  • 01:00:43
    Many people never make it.
  • 01:00:45
    I'm actually becoming convinced that
  • 01:00:46
    the god of mammon, He has a religion,
  • 01:00:48
    and it's called the Cult of Good Enough.
  • 01:00:50
    And there's a temple he's built on this line
  • 01:00:53
    trying to distract you and pull you away
  • 01:00:55
    and pull you in and get you to stop listening
  • 01:00:57
    to God, go no farther and to start listening to him.
  • 01:01:00
    But the question you got to answer at this line is,
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    do you want to give God your good enough?
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    Or do you want to give God all of your heart?
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    Which is to say, an extravagant offering.
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    Now I find, kind of bizarrely,
  • 01:01:13
    since we serve a God of extravagance
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    that many Christians, we have a problem with extravagance.
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    We don't like extravagance.
  • 01:01:18
    We hear this all the time at Crossroads.
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    People complain about stuff.
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    Some of the projects you might respond to
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    and you go, "Isn't that extravagant?
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    Isn't what we already have,
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    isn't what we're already doing good enough?"
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    We don't like extravagance.
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    There was a story reminds me of this.
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    One of the most interesting stories,
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    I think, in the entire Bible.
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    It takes place exactly seven days
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    before Jesus was crucified.
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    A woman comes up to Jesus with a jar of ointment
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    or perfume worth a year's wages.
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    And she does the weirdest thing.
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    She opens the top and she dumps it all over his feet.
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    Super odd. Here's a story, John 12. It says:
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    That's the jar.
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    Right after that happens, Judas.
  • 01:02:18
    Yes, that Judas, he just lashes out.
  • 01:02:21
    He goes, "Oh, what a waste. What an extravagance!
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    This could have been sold and given to the poor."
  • 01:02:29
    Then the writer John, he goes.
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    By the way, Judas didn't say that because
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    he was like, really concerned about the poor.
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    He actually held the offering box,
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    and he used to take out of the money
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    that was put in there.
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    He used to steal from the offering box.
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    That's why he wanted the money in there.
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    But that quote we hear all the time
  • 01:02:43
    around Crossroads, heard that quote so many times.
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    Why the extravagance? Why the waste?
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    It's the first thing I ever said when I walked into Crossroads.
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    I walked in and there was $10,000 plasma TVs.
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    This is back in the day where TVs
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    were still like nine feet deep. You know what I mean?
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    It was these massive TVs.
  • 01:02:58
    And it was flat screens had just come out
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    and they had these plasma TVs, $10,000 a pop.
  • 01:03:02
    There were six of them. I counted.
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    And I walked in and I looked and I said,
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    "What a waste."
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    I didn't know I was quoting Judas.
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    Then I walked in the room and there was equipment
  • 01:03:13
    far more expensive than that,
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    but all of it wove together
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    to capture my attention, to grab my heart
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    and to communicate the message of Jesus
  • 01:03:21
    in a language I could finally,
  • 01:03:23
    for the first time, understand.
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    Yes. It's extravagant. There's a reason.
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    What was Mary's reason for the extravagance?
  • 01:03:31
    Why would Mary give such an extravagant offering?
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    Well, it's because exactly two months before this,
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    her brother Lazarus had died.
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    Jesus was away. He was out of town.
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    They were really good friends with Jesus.
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    But He was gone. Lazarus dies.
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    And Jesus starts walking back into town,
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    and Mary sees Him, and she runs to Jesus,
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    and she falls down at His feet
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    and she just starts to weep.
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    Scripture says she just sheds tears of joy,
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    like, all over His feet.
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    And then Jesus does the craziest thing.
  • 01:03:59
    He walks to the tomb where Lazarus is,
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    and He says, "Lazarus, come out."
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    And Lazarus comes back to life.
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    He raised her brother from the dead.
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    And so two months later, I think she does
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    the most natural, understandable thing.
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    Next time she sees Jesus,
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    she takes that jar of oil, which I think,
  • 01:04:17
    by the way, she bought to embalm her brother with.
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    It would have been an embalming type of fluid.
  • 01:04:22
    She cracks the lid off, and she's in
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    the same posture that she shed the tears on His feet.
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    She pours it all over and she wipes it with her hair.
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    She says, "God, I want you to know
  • 01:04:31
    you have all of my heart."
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    And I'm telling you, in that moment
  • 01:04:34
    Jesus knew with absolute certainty
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    that's exactly what He had, her all.
  • 01:04:41
    See is it extravagant? Yes.
  • 01:04:44
    But it's not difficult to understand.
  • 01:04:47
    What would you do if someone raised
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    one of your loved ones from the dead?
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    What would you give a God who raised you from the dead?
  • 01:04:58
    Let me just remind you, Ephesians 2:1 says:
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    He made you alive. How?
  • 01:05:08
    By giving His first His own and His all.
  • 01:05:12
    He gave His firstborn son over all creation.
  • 01:05:15
    That's the Scripture says about Jesus.
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    He's the first.
  • 01:05:18
    His own son, not somebody else's son,
  • 01:05:20
    and His only son, that means all.
  • 01:05:22
    He gave you His first, His own and His all.
  • 01:05:26
    What do you do to a God who does that?
  • 01:05:28
    How do you respond?
  • 01:05:30
    I've just been in the last week
  • 01:05:31
    I've been just stepping back
  • 01:05:32
    and just coming back to the spot and going,
  • 01:05:34
    "Oh God, man, I'm sorry.
  • 01:05:38
    I haven't been thinking straight.
  • 01:05:40
    I haven't been remembering the life You've given me.
  • 01:05:43
    You saved me. You rescued me.
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    My wife, my kids, the blessings that
  • 01:05:49
    You've given me again and again in my life."
  • 01:05:51
    And it's not that I've had a problem free life.
  • 01:05:53
    I haven't. We've experienced tragedy in our life.
  • 01:05:55
    But it's that again and again
  • 01:05:56
    in the difficulty of life I see and receive
  • 01:05:59
    the unmerited, generous, extravagant,
  • 01:06:01
    crazy blessings of God. It's crazy.
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    Last, probably two weeks ago, maybe three weeks ago,
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    I was up in Columbus at our Columbus site
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    doing a Mission Briefing, just talking
  • 01:06:15
    to some leaders up there about the projects
  • 01:06:17
    and what we hope to fund and why, and all that stuff.
  • 01:06:19
    And at the end of the night, a guy came up to me
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    and he said, "Hey, I don't like to share this
  • 01:06:24
    with people, but I'm actually a doctor
  • 01:06:27
    and I'm a stroke specialist.
  • 01:06:29
    And I know, Kyle, you talked about your dad
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    having a stroke this past summer.
  • 01:06:32
    And I just keep thinking about him.
  • 01:06:34
    And I just want you to know
  • 01:06:35
    if there's ever anything I could do to help,
  • 01:06:38
    I'd love to do it."
  • 01:06:39
    I was like, "Man, that's -- That would be --
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    That'd be awesome."
  • 01:06:42
    That's been the hardest part of my year,
  • 01:06:44
    is that that thing and dealing with the aftermath of it.
  • 01:06:47
    And I said, "You know, there's one thing.
  • 01:06:50
    My parents, they just moved
  • 01:06:51
    to Charlottesville, Virginia,
  • 01:06:53
    and my dad's actually having a really hard time
  • 01:06:55
    even just getting in to seeing any stroke specialist.
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    The earliest appointment he could get
  • 01:06:59
    with anybody isn't until February.
  • 01:07:01
    And I just -- I don't like him waiting that long.
  • 01:07:03
    They moved there in August."
  • 01:07:05
    And this guy looks at me and I said,
  • 01:07:07
    "So you don't know anybody in Charlottesville, do you?
  • 01:07:10
    Any stroke doctors?"
  • 01:07:11
    And he goes, "Yeah, I actually know
  • 01:07:14
    every single stroke doc there because
  • 01:07:15
    that's where I did my residency.
  • 01:07:17
    In fact, I'm going to text my buddy right now.
  • 01:07:19
    He's the best guy and get your dad set up."
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    [cheers and applause]
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    Better than that, my dad had that appointment
  • 01:07:28
    just a few days ago, he went and had that appointment.
  • 01:07:31
    I talked to him the other day on the phone.
  • 01:07:32
    And, at the appointment
  • 01:07:42
    the doctor said, um,
  • 01:07:45
    "You know, your your indicators for stroke
  • 01:07:47
    are extremely low. I don't know why you had this,
  • 01:07:52
    but, while we can't predict the future,
  • 01:07:54
    I can say pretty confidently,
  • 01:07:56
    it's not going to happen again in your life."
  • 01:07:58
    [applause]
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    And then he said, another six months
  • 01:08:05
    and you're going to be recovered to the point
  • 01:08:07
    where no one will ever know you ever had a stroke,
  • 01:08:09
    fully recovered.
  • 01:08:10
    And you know, I stepped back from that
  • 01:08:16
    and my life and I go, "God, would I really want
  • 01:08:20
    to give somebody else my heart?
  • 01:08:22
    Would I really want to put my trust in my stuff?
  • 01:08:26
    What can my staff do for me?
  • 01:08:28
    What can money in an account do for me?
  • 01:08:30
    Nothing. Nothing."
  • 01:08:34
    In your life, what has God done for you?
  • 01:08:37
    Has he saved you?
  • 01:08:40
    If that was it, wouldn't it be good enough
  • 01:08:43
    to give Him your all?
  • 01:08:45
    Has He blessed you?
  • 01:08:47
    Has He saved your marriage?
  • 01:08:49
    Has He given you a shot at a second chance at marriage?
  • 01:08:51
    If He has, wouldn't that be good enough?
  • 01:08:54
    Has He saved your kids? Has He rescued them?
  • 01:08:57
    Wouldn't that be good enough?
  • 01:08:59
    That's the God we serve.
  • 01:09:02
    Let's not give Him our good enough.
  • 01:09:03
    Let's give Him our all.
  • 01:09:05
    In this Push I've changed my question.
  • 01:09:08
    I've stopped asking that.
  • 01:09:09
    God, I'm not interested in asking what's good enough.
  • 01:09:11
    I'm interested in saying,
  • 01:09:12
    in this season of my life, what's all of my heart?
  • 01:09:19
    I don't know what you're still holding back in your life.
  • 01:09:22
    Maybe you're holding it back because of your own concern.
  • 01:09:24
    Or maybe you're holding it back out of
  • 01:09:26
    wanting to bless and help somebody else besides you.
  • 01:09:30
    There's another story of generosity in the Bible,
  • 01:09:33
    extravagant generosity that touches on that.
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    It's a story of David. David, King David.
  • 01:09:37
    Like David and Goliath,
  • 01:09:38
    he gave $20 billion to build the temple of God.
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    He gave that out of the national treasury
  • 01:09:46
    and his own personal finances.
  • 01:09:49
    Now, the craziest part about this is that,
  • 01:09:51
    yes, those are the accounts that came out of.
  • 01:09:52
    But I don't think David was actually
  • 01:09:54
    giving away his resources in his mind,
  • 01:09:56
    that's not what was happening.
  • 01:09:58
    Why do I think that?
  • 01:09:59
    Well, because David very clearly knew
  • 01:10:01
    this was the end of his life,
  • 01:10:02
    knew it with absolute certainty.
  • 01:10:04
    In fact, he was to die within a few weeks
  • 01:10:06
    or months after he made this extravagant offering.
  • 01:10:09
    And so, in David's mind, he wasn't
  • 01:10:11
    giving away his own resources.
  • 01:10:13
    He was giving away his son's,
  • 01:10:16
    Solomon's inheritance on two sides, nationally
  • 01:10:20
    because Solomon was going to be the next leader,
  • 01:10:22
    and as the family leader, a giving away
  • 01:10:25
    all the personal wealth and resources.
  • 01:10:27
    And so logically, logically, I would say
  • 01:10:31
    the voice of mammon would coach you.
  • 01:10:32
    Logically, he should have bankrupted his son
  • 01:10:36
    on two sides, nationally, there's no money
  • 01:10:39
    to fund wars, no money to build walls,
  • 01:10:41
    no money to plant crops,
  • 01:10:43
    no money to do infrastructure.
  • 01:10:44
    Should have bankrupted him and doomed him.
  • 01:10:46
    Personally, same thing.
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    There's no money to invest in anything for the family.
  • 01:10:50
    It's all gone.
  • 01:10:52
    But you know the craziest part?
  • 01:10:55
    Do you know that Solomon personally became
  • 01:10:58
    the wisest and richest man on the planet?
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    And do you know that nationally,
  • 01:11:02
    Israel experienced the absolute height
  • 01:11:04
    of its prosperity under his rule?
  • 01:11:06
    The exact opposite happened.
  • 01:11:08
    You might be in a place where you're thinking
  • 01:11:10
    about inheritance, you're thinking about
  • 01:11:12
    the next generation, and that's challenging to you.
  • 01:11:14
    And maybe there's a verse in your mind.
  • 01:11:15
    The Bible does say this in Proverbs 13:22,
  • 01:11:17
    I think it says, A righteous man
  • 01:11:19
    leaves an inheritance to his children's children.
  • 01:11:22
    Absolutely, that's in there. Absolutely that's true.
  • 01:11:25
    But let me just push you a little bit.
  • 01:11:26
    Inheritance doesn't just mean money.
  • 01:11:29
    And in fact, if you were to think about
  • 01:11:30
    what makes it a righteous inheritance,
  • 01:11:32
    I would say it's the non-monetary part.
  • 01:11:35
    See, if you're leaving your kids,
  • 01:11:37
    if the value of what you're leaving
  • 01:11:39
    is the amount of dollars you're leaving,
  • 01:11:41
    I'm just going to push you,
  • 01:11:42
    that's an unrighteous man's inheritance.
  • 01:11:44
    Because an unrighteous man can leave the same thing.
  • 01:11:47
    When God says, leave a righteous inheritance,
  • 01:11:50
    He means leave a legacy of giving
  • 01:11:53
    all of your heart to God.
  • 01:11:54
    That's the most valuable thing
  • 01:11:56
    you could possibly do for people who come after you.
  • 01:12:00
    Model giving all of your heart.
  • 01:12:03
    Now those are some big examples, right?
  • 01:12:05
    I mean, we've heard some numbers today
  • 01:12:07
    and there's some big numbers in there.
  • 01:12:08
    A year's salary, half a year's salary, $20 billion.
  • 01:12:12
    But an extravagant offering,
  • 01:12:14
    I want to be very, very clear,
  • 01:12:15
    it is not about the amount. It's not.
  • 01:12:19
    In fact, the most extravagant offering
  • 01:12:21
    in the entire Bible is when a widow
  • 01:12:24
    gives away her last two pennies.
  • 01:12:27
    It says this in Luke 21:
  • 01:12:29
    That's Jesus.
  • 01:12:50
    It's not about the amount. It's not.
  • 01:12:54
    In a number of days there's going to be
  • 01:12:55
    a lot of us making commitments above and beyond, right?
  • 01:12:58
    And some of them will be $1,000 and that'll be all.
  • 01:13:01
    Some of them will be $10,000,
  • 01:13:02
    some will be half a year's salary,
  • 01:13:03
    some will be three times a year salary,
  • 01:13:05
    some will be $1 million.
  • 01:13:06
    I'm hoping and praying some will be millions of dollars,
  • 01:13:09
    but the amount doesn't matter.
  • 01:13:10
    What matters is the hearts behind the amount.
  • 01:13:14
    Does it represent some or does it represent all?
  • 01:13:19
    This 10X and ten year vision, by the way,
  • 01:13:21
    it takes all of us.
  • 01:13:22
    I know it's easy to look around at Crossroads,
  • 01:13:24
    such a big church and be like,
  • 01:13:26
    "Man, it's so big it doesn't need me."
  • 01:13:28
    No, the opposite is true.
  • 01:13:30
    The call of God is so massive
  • 01:13:32
    it requires everyone giving our all.
  • 01:13:37
    We want to see an awakening.
  • 01:13:39
    It requires everything.
  • 01:13:41
    This whole message, like I said,
  • 01:13:43
    it's about you hearing God's voice on giving.
  • 01:13:47
    What is He asking for you to do?
  • 01:13:50
    I'll give you a push.
  • 01:13:52
    Do you know that none of those extravagant offerings,
  • 01:13:55
    Mary's oil, David and the 20 billion,
  • 01:13:59
    the widow and her mite, in none of those stories
  • 01:14:02
    do we see a scene where God speaks to them
  • 01:14:05
    and says, "I'd like 20 billion.
  • 01:14:09
    I'd like your last $0.02.
  • 01:14:11
    Mary that jar of oil, I want you to give Me."
  • 01:14:15
    We don't see that.
  • 01:14:16
    Instead, it appears that all of these people
  • 01:14:19
    in this conversation with God.
  • 01:14:21
    Yes, they've been listening.
  • 01:14:23
    Yes, they've been hearing.
  • 01:14:24
    But there's a point at which
  • 01:14:25
    they want to say something out of their own heart.
  • 01:14:28
    "God, you can have all."
  • 01:14:31
    That's the choice.
  • 01:14:33
    Which master will you serve?
  • 01:14:35
    You can't serve God and mammon.
  • 01:14:37
    They say completely different things.
  • 01:14:39
    Voice of Mammon, last verse
  • 01:14:41
    I'm going to give you for the day.
  • 01:14:42
    The voice of mammon says, put your trust in me
  • 01:14:45
    and do that by holding on.
  • 01:14:47
    It's actually a story that Jesus tells
  • 01:14:49
    about bigger barns, and a man who decided
  • 01:14:51
    this was the path to safety and security.
  • 01:14:54
    He listened to the voice of mammon.
  • 01:14:55
    It goes like this in Luke 12:
  • 01:15:23
    And then Jesus closes the story this way.
  • 01:15:24
    He says, this is how it will be.
  • 01:15:27
    There's the phrase again.
  • 01:15:33
    See, the the safest place for you to put your trust
  • 01:15:36
    is not in mammon, it's in God. Why?
  • 01:15:41
    Because He's something mammon can never be.
  • 01:15:44
    He's generous and He's rich.
  • 01:15:49
    He said in that verse, Malachi says,
  • 01:15:50
    "See if I don't throw open the floodgates of heaven."
  • 01:15:53
    Have you ever wondered what that means?
  • 01:15:55
    You know, like, how wealthy is God?
  • 01:15:59
    I was thinking about that, did a little bit of research.
  • 01:16:01
    Just ask the question,
  • 01:16:02
    how much gold is there in the universe?
  • 01:16:06
    Well, if you look at the Earth,
  • 01:16:08
    there's some gold in the earth,
  • 01:16:10
    244,000 tons in the crust, 1.6 quadrillion,
  • 01:16:14
    like, more than trillion, quadrillion tons in the core.
  • 01:16:17
    Just in the Earth.
  • 01:16:19
    By the way, gold, one ton of gold is worth $49 million.
  • 01:16:22
    Not going to do that math for you,
  • 01:16:24
    but it's a lot by itself.
  • 01:16:26
    But, you know, there are more planets
  • 01:16:28
    than just Earth in the universe.
  • 01:16:31
    How many more planets?
  • 01:16:32
    Well, for every single grain of sand on the Earth,
  • 01:16:36
    from your backyard playbox
  • 01:16:39
    to the eroded top of a mountain,
  • 01:16:41
    to the beaches that you go to,
  • 01:16:42
    to the bottom of the ocean floor.
  • 01:16:44
    For every single grain of sand on the earth,
  • 01:16:47
    there are 1 billion planets in the universe.
  • 01:16:51
    That's just the golden planets, by the way.
  • 01:16:53
    There's also golden stars.
  • 01:16:54
    The sun contains 2.5 trillion tons,
  • 01:16:56
    and there's 200 billion trillion stars in the universe.
  • 01:16:59
    God is rich.
  • 01:17:00
    Do you know that it rains diamonds on Jupiter?
  • 01:17:04
    It does. You can look that up,
  • 01:17:05
    maybe in a couple of other planets, too.
  • 01:17:06
    God is rich and He's generous.
  • 01:17:11
    He says, "You can trust Me. Will you give me your all?"
  • 01:17:18
    Before we get up, we're going to take a moment.
  • 01:17:20
    Wherever you are in your seat,
  • 01:17:21
    I want you to just close your eyes
  • 01:17:23
    and start a conversation with God.
  • 01:17:25
    Justin's going to play a song for us
  • 01:17:27
    as we have this conversation.
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    It's a song that I heard a few days ago
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    in a staff worship setting, and it just --
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    It just broke me. It just got me in a different gear.
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    Song called Take Me Deeper.
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    And it has lyrics about sacrifice
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    and leaning into God and saying,
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    "God, you can take me farther
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    than You've ever taken me before."
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    And it just hit me different that it's easy to sing.
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    But when I think about my money,
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    the thing that God says represents my heart, Oh man.
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    So I want you to start a conversation with God
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    before you get out of this room.
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    Maybe it's about something that pushed you
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    in this message today or in this service.
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    Maybe it's something that you're having
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    a hard time letting go.
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    Whatever it is, talk to Him about it.
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    Maybe you're at the point where you want
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    to just say to God, "God, you can have all of me."
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    Whatever it is, start that conversation now
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    as Justin plays a bit of the song for us.
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    - Father, that's our prayer.
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    Would You take us further than we think is possible?
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    Would You take us beyond the boundaries that we put up?
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    Would You take us beyond the norm
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    of listening to the voice of mammon?
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    Would You take us to a place
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    where we give You all of our heart?
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    Give us that courage. Amen.
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    - I just really enjoyed that message with Kyle.
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    It was so real. He had a lot to pack in there.
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    And I want to say I both learned something,
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    I was moved spiritually.
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    I enjoyed that story about his father.
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    God just does everything so great.
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    And Kyle's right, we want to respond to a God
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    who's not random, who's not doing coincidental things,
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    but who loves us so much that He would
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    go out of his way to place the right people
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    in our path at the right time,
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    to give us the exact thing that we need.
  • 01:21:15
    So, so good. Great job encouraging us
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    and challenging us as well.
  • 01:21:19
    - Love it! Yeah, the 10X Push has been so good
  • 01:21:22
    and it's full of stories.
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    Stories of ways God is moving in our churches
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    at large, and like Kyle's, like stories of ways
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    God is moving in our lives individually.
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    So the 10X Push has been so good,
  • 01:21:32
    and we're already over halfway
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    through the six week journey together.
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    I just want to remind you guys do three things with me.
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    Keep watching every weekend,
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    two, keep doing the work in your guide.
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    And third, if you want to press in even further,
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    we actually have an online mission briefing
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    that's going to be led by Kyle on November 4th,
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    7:30 p.m. eastern.
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    If you're watching this in real time on Sunday,
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    that's tomorrow night.
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    This is a chance to dive in deeper
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    to the specific territories and the work within them
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    that we believe God is calling us to:
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    camps, reach out, digital and sites.
  • 01:22:03
    There's so much incredible work,
  • 01:22:04
    so much potential impact just within those
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    you actually have to have a chance to ask Kyle
  • 01:22:09
    and myself questions.
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    You can head to crossroads.net/10X to RSVP.
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    We'll send you the zoom link so you can join.
  • 01:22:15
    - And if you can't make that tomorrow,
  • 01:22:17
    if you're watching this in real time,
  • 01:22:19
    we do have a space where you can see all about
  • 01:22:21
    what we are talking about with these territories.
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    You can receive that digitally through a PDF,
  • 01:22:26
    and so you can scan the QR code
  • 01:22:28
    that is here on your screen
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    or you can go to Crossroads.net/territories
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    to learn a lot more.
  • 01:22:33
    - That's right. Hey, one last thing.
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    If all of this has been exciting to you
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    and you're ready to be a part of
  • 01:22:38
    what God wants to do next in you, for you,
  • 01:22:40
    through you, and through our church
  • 01:22:42
    specifically with Crossroads,
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    mark your calendars for Sunday, November 17th.
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    It's going to be one of the biggest weekends
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    in the history of Crossroads.
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    You can join us in person or online that Sunday.
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    Until then, we'll see you right back here next week.
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    - Have a good one.

Nov 3, 2024 • 1 hr 23 mins

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